Family & Relationships - 23 September 2006

My current boyfriend is selfish and was never disciplined as a child. I think this is impacting our relationship because everything he does is always about him and he does things all the time without thinking about the impact it will have on other people.

I was recently talking to my ex-boyfriend and he brought up a lot of things that shed a little more light on the situation but, instead of making me want to work things out with my current boyfriend, the things he brought up made me miss what we had.

Note: The break up was not bad. There was no drama involved. It was a mutual decision that, at that point in our lives, a relationship simply wasn't in our best interests. We were both under a lot of stress.

I want to tell my ex how I still feel about him but I'm afraid that he'll reject those feelings.

What should I do?

2006-09-23 21:04:32 · 8 answers · asked by Ria 2 in Singles & Dating

Would you rather be with a beautiful woman that is extremely high maintenance and bitchy and only puts out occasionally? Or would you rather have a woman of average looks who is easier to get along with and will give it up on a regular basis?

2006-09-23 21:03:52 · 18 answers · asked by Desiderata of Happiness 2 in Singles & Dating

i am like really don't know what to do my best friend's ex likes me. i really like him to.i know it wouldn't be all right but i really like this boy. PLEASE HELP!?!?!?!?!

2006-09-23 21:03:48 · 8 answers · asked by baby c 1 in Singles & Dating

Here's the story, my dad was seeing a woman but he ran into my mom who he didn't see since his high school days and started dating (without the other girl knowing about it), he got my mom pregnant but left her and went back to his other one. After I was born, they did have a phone conversation, my mom told him that she had me but lied that the father was a different man, I think she did this because she was angry and felt that he disowned us. Seriously, how could a guy have sex with a woman and not think he impregnated her? I kind of feel that this is the truth and I'm very angry. I know all of you are thinking "why didn't he try looking for him back then after all this time?" but I had a lot of other problems I had to work on at the time. What do I do if he doesn't want anything to do with me, how can I still find out about the other half of my heritage? Do you have any stories of your own you can share?

2006-09-23 21:02:32 · 6 answers · asked by mike 1 in Family

please help me

2006-09-23 21:01:30 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-23 21:01:28 · 2 answers · asked by Einstein-NOT 1 in Family

I never bleed on my first time and after a month my bf and I made love until he stopped saw little blood dripping on my private part. Is this normal for the second time? But on the third time it doesn’t bleed at all and I don’t feel any pain anymore.

2006-09-23 21:00:09 · 19 answers · asked by herzae 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

i have tried the obvious empty the pipes before hand

2006-09-23 20:59:42 · 12 answers · asked by paul smith 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-23 20:56:52 · 18 answers · asked by coral 3 in Singles & Dating

i had a three sum with me ex-boyfriend and his friend.. and awhole bunch of other stuff happened should i regret this.. .even though i liked it?.. and should i not tell people about it even though so many people already know

2006-09-23 20:54:40 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i mean why do they not want to have gf's

2006-09-23 20:54:00 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Why are the people getting really rude? I think their rudness is getting to the point where I feel it would harm someone's health.

The rudeness ruins everyone's whole day and disrupts the others' rights to live a happy life.

Don't you agree?

2006-09-23 20:53:08 · 19 answers · asked by davegesprek 1 in Friends

2006-09-23 20:51:48 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-23 20:50:23 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If you don't have a car, would you sell your most prized posession to help a family member? If not, why? Consider that without this surgery your family member would either die or be paralyzed for life. How would you help or not help?

2006-09-23 20:49:55 · 13 answers · asked by Yahoo 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

think that sex outside of marriage is wrong,and dangerous?
also how many of you active sexually singles use condoms whether its an oral act or intercourse?
Would you rather that you and your partner go get an std test so that you would feel safe in not using a condom?

2006-09-23 20:49:12 · 7 answers · asked by steveshoardhouse 3 in Singles & Dating

I am a boy and am in ninth grade. Some of my friends wear bib overalls to school and I think they look cool and would be fun to wear. I often see my friends who wear bib overalls get a lot of nice comments about them from other friends, teachers, and even girls.

I would like to buy a pair of bib overalls to wear to school myself. I'm scared of asking my parents to buy me bib overalls because I'm afraid of what they might say to me about it. It wouldn't make me feel good to embarrass myself in front of my parents in doing so!!

I found some bib overalls on the Internet from Pointer Brand that I plan on buying. My friend, Allan wears these and his picture can be seen here:

http://image56.webshots.com/156/8/64/61/475786461uXIJzL_ph.jpg

(By the way, if you can't say something nice, please don't answer my question...)

2006-09-23 20:48:58 · 4 answers · asked by Hero In Tennis Shoes 1 in Family

---do both parties have to agree or if one wents to make a clean break even through the other still lives there with children

2006-09-23 20:47:24 · 25 answers · asked by sam_ham232 2 in Marriage & Divorce

uuyy

2006-09-23 20:46:49 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Who bring up their children within the lifestyle which makes them obese; fast food, fizzy drinks, computer games all day and no exercize- should this be considered neglect and what would you want social services to do for these individual families?
Realistic and idealistic answers welcome!

2006-09-23 20:45:33 · 12 answers · asked by emily_jane2379 5 in Family

at his work he has thrown stuff and swore loudly to get people to stop touching his stuff. What the heck should I make of that?

2006-09-23 20:45:25 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i dont want to just hook up with him... like i want to go out with him.

2006-09-23 20:45:07 · 13 answers · asked by HoTt♥ChIcK 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-23 20:44:27 · 11 answers · asked by DIMPLES 1 in Marriage & Divorce

25 dolars an hour vs.10 dolars an hour

2006-09-23 20:42:29 · 11 answers · asked by brown 25 2 in Friends

Is it rude to just attend the wedding reception?

2006-09-23 20:41:39 · 21 answers · asked by Random 3 in Weddings

well im in highschool and im really involved so its not like im completely clueless or isolated from the environment but i always hear my friends asking me to talk to someone or setting them up and i always hear advice to ask a friend that knows my crush..

isnt it always better to do it urself? or am i just hallucinating

2006-09-23 20:41:29 · 9 answers · asked by joey 3 in Singles & Dating

before I get to close?

2006-09-23 20:40:41 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-23 20:40:39 · 20 answers · asked by cooldude_92627 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-23 20:40:29 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

A friend of mine once told me that the average woman having premarital sex will have 13 partners by age 30 if she does not get married before then.

I did not believe her, but as I'm getting older and the relationships keep coming and going, I'm starting to wonder if I'll make it that high by age 30... I'm not there yet, but I'm not as far away as I'd like to be. Is it just me? I don't think I'm a ho =/

2006-09-23 20:39:28 · 22 answers · asked by Lady G 2 in Singles & Dating