well im in highschool and im really involved so its not like im completely clueless or isolated from the environment but i always hear my friends asking me to talk to someone or setting them up and i always hear advice to ask a friend that knows my crush..
isnt it always better to do it urself? or am i just hallucinating
2006-09-23 20:41:29 · 9 answers · asked by joey 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I noticed that as you grow up, one of the biggest differences in high school dating and adult-real-world dating is that adults ask people out themselves, while high school kids mess around and get their friends to do it for them because they're too chicken to do it themselves. So if you ask someone out yourself, that puts you in the adult group, doesn't it? Not only does it make you a bold and mature person, it shows the person you're asking out that you're interested enough to do it yourself despite the possibility of rejection. Which is always a huge plus. So you can tell your friends that instead of "setting them up." Good luck with that!
2006-09-23 20:46:05 · answer #1 · answered by Dumblydore 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A friend is good to hook you up for a girl but a girl usually what to hear it from you you have to be a man and talk to her get to know her better find out if she have a boyfriend or try to be friends with her. Also try to get her number if she don t have a bf ya can go out and do whatever. i would try to get her e mail address if she can t give me her number.
2006-09-24 03:47:44 · answer #2 · answered by KILLAH CAM 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah, it's better to have support group or a friend that will give advice to something you're in doubt. It helps to have somebody you can talk about anything under the sun.
2006-09-24 03:54:31 · answer #3 · answered by khumbacombo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either way.
What the crusher prefers or the crushee-who to hear it from.
Plus, things might turn into Chinese Whisper and go completely wrong and misunderstood!
Sexy is in confidence, but usually looks fake!
Trouble, trouble, trouble...
2006-09-24 03:43:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
For me it isnt bad.
2006-09-24 03:43:02 · answer #5 · answered by hopeless 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it is better to do it yourself, u should spent sometime talkin to your crush
2006-09-24 03:55:03 · answer #6 · answered by lamlieth 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's better to do things yourself
2006-09-24 03:50:33 · answer #7 · answered by ~DANiELLE~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
personally, i think it is not bad at all. enjoy it to the fullest ;)
2006-09-24 03:50:14 · answer #8 · answered by S@D L@Dy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's better if you do it yourseft.
2006-09-24 04:24:44 · answer #9 · answered by .......... 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋