i am like really don't know what to do my best friend's ex likes me. i really like him to.i know it wouldn't be all right but i really like this boy. PLEASE HELP!?!?!?!?!
2006-09-23 21:03:48 · 8 answers · asked by baby c 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just think what you friend would have done if she was in ur shoes. If you feel that she would have gone out with your ex, then simply go for it
2006-09-23 21:20:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely been here. The rule is don't date the best friend's ex! This is the most drama free solution. With my situation. My best friend dated this guy for 2months in HS which was 4 years before we started wanting to go out. I chose to go out with him and we had a year + long relationship. During that time, my best friend and I had a really rough time because she did not want me to talk about the boy at all. Imagine trying to not ever mention your boyfriend to your best friend for over a year! It was rough and she was still very grumpy a lot of the time. Everything totally changed once me and the guy broke up. So, you have to ask yourself is it worth risking your friendship, and also if their relationship was major or minor. My friend's reaction was bad and she was not even that into this dude when they were dating. I would never haver considered it if it was someone she was seriously dating.
2006-09-24 04:25:51 · answer #2 · answered by Lady G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't do it. you're relationship with your best friend will turn sour. It will create too many problematic elements. Just remember why your best friend and her ex broke up. i'm sure the boy was not a romeo-like man. your friend will be pissed at you. don't do it. find another guy there are 3 billions guys out there. that is also the universal rule for guys. we don't date and bang any of our friend's ex.
2006-09-24 04:08:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I think you should GENTLY break it to your best friend that you are conflicted about your feelings about him. I would be vague about it if I were you. Better she hear this from you than she find out about it from another source. Allow her to have her feelings about this. This guy may not be worth losing her friendship over in the long run. Try to think this over with your intelligence & not with your emotions. You may find out that he is not how you imagined him to be.
2006-09-24 04:31:03 · answer #4 · answered by Bronweyn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont do it!!!!! Just let it go, or give it a LOT of time if you can't. I just got out of a relationship and my "friends" jumped on my ex like stink on s***. Needless to say they arent friends anymore.
2006-09-24 04:15:39 · answer #5 · answered by Zach S 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry go for it, and tell him that you like him, and as far as your best friend is concerned then he is ex-boy friend,so why to worry and think about .
2006-09-24 04:12:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
well if u really are considering this guy then talk to ur friend and see how she feels u dont want to ruin a friend ship overa guy that could end up leaving anyway, friends are more valuable and less chance of finding another friend versus another guy
2006-09-24 04:11:59 · answer #7 · answered by CHERRYSCION 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it depends on how long your best-friend was dating him for... if more than 6months then stay away. otherwise, speak to her about it. see how she feels. if u go for it without consulting her, you could loose your friendship over SLOPPY SECONDS
2006-09-24 06:44:47 · answer #8 · answered by 96degrees 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋