2006-09-23 20:51:48 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You can lust someone in one day but not fall in love .
You can't love someone you don't really know.
2006-09-23 20:57:18 · answer #1 · answered by kandn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This answer is somewhat cleche so bare with me. When I met my current boyfirend sparks flew and all of that at first it was lust of course I wanted him. We were saying I love you by the third day. I don't know what it was but there was always somthing about him. I think once it's the right person than yes. We've been together for years now. THis dosn't happen often more times lust happens and infatuation. It can happen just give it a chance to grow though. Trust me in the end it isn't the feeling you first feel that keep you together. Sometimes it takes all the will and determination you hade, where other days it feels like that first day. Love isn't all good but it isn't all bad either.
2006-09-24 04:00:45 · answer #2 · answered by Redhead with love 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone meets the person they fall in some with during a day; but the first day's feelings are not what will hold a relationship together. Give it time to see if what you think is love, is love. Months, maybe years, and you still won't know for sure, but will have a better idea
2006-09-24 03:59:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have. But, there are degrees of love. It wasn't the sort of love that would endure time. He is a wonderful man, but as time went on there were huge things that I could never deal with. Thus, the love was love, but the situations and circumstances weren't right to be the kind of love that endures. Also, true love is when love is given between two people, not one of the two.
I have learned that love doesn't mean forever. It can be love, but can be something that is kept in the heart and not lived out.
2006-09-24 04:01:48 · answer #4 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It happens, it's just that some people can't understand it and justify it with the term 'infatuation', sometimes it is but sometimes it's love all the way. You can just see someone, hear someone or feel someone and just know that you're meant to be together. Of course you're going to have problems in the course of any relationship, they just show that you care as long as you come around - just don't for a second tell yourself it's not love when your heart knows it is.
2006-09-24 05:54:50 · answer #5 · answered by yasiru89 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. You can fall in like with them, but not in love with them that soon. You have to know something about the person to be truly in love with them. You love someone for many reasons, not just one. And you break up with someone for a couple of reasons, not just one USUALLY.
2006-09-24 04:19:16 · answer #6 · answered by Bronweyn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you can feel an immediate connection with a person...which might lead you to think that you've fallen in love with them...but no i don't think it's possible at all to fall in love with someone in a day!...I believe it's a gradual process...you can love someone..but then find out more and more things about them which will make you either fall harder for them or change your perceptions of what you thought they were all about
2006-09-24 03:57:02 · answer #7 · answered by billy_babe_22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can do it in less time than that! I fell in love with someone in 3 hours. 3 years ago, I met a man the night before he left Florida (where I live) and went back to New York (where he lived). I met him at 2am and by 7am he was on a plane back to NY, we talked everyday for 6months, then I went and spent 5 days with him (Best 5 days of my life), but then life happened...the distance happened... He stayed in NY, I stayed in FL and we're just friends now. BUT, I'm still in love with him today.Maybe one day...
You can fall in love in one day. That just doesn't guarantee it's going to last. You have to live and grow with someone before you can know that.
2006-09-24 04:09:57 · answer #8 · answered by Lady G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In all seriousness, you can! Except this is just the image of love because what you are feeling is a major rush of euphoria from what it is you find very attractive about the person. When more of the person becomes uncovered, that may deteriorate, or become a stronger feeling.
2006-09-24 03:57:04 · answer #9 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
we ll yea it could happen but it better not to rush it it must better to take time and get to know the person better more than a day. So she or he could know all about you. Don t fall in love quick it usually not good.
2006-09-24 04:06:23 · answer #10 · answered by KILLAH CAM 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋