Should i regret this. .or not tell people about this?

Question

i had a three sum with me ex-boyfriend and his friend.. and awhole bunch of other stuff happened should i regret this.. .even though i liked it?.. and should i not tell people about it even though so many people already know

Answer 1

tell them to mind their own business, just be safe.

Answer 2

As in all areas of life you will encounter people who judge or disapprove. I don't think you did anything to regret, so long as you were carefull. If you enjoyed it then why regret it? What matters most is that you don't put yourself in the position being branded a 'tart' - just because you had a threesome and some (enjoyable) stuff happened does not mean you are - do it every week with anyone who is up for it and that would be a different matter. As for telling people about it, thats up to you, just bear in mind not all people are open minded and they may judge you rightly or wrongly based on what you tell them. You are a woman which means you are so much more than a sex object just be sure that you aim for and get respect for being a woman and not just for being a sex object or you do yourself and so many others out of whats rightfully theirs.

Answer 3

Hi Laura,
I think you know the answer .. but I shall spell it out at least as it appears to me. You might see it differently. But here is some food for thought.

re: Regret it? Well perhaps. But it was an awesome experience. So no I would probably not regret it.

re: Tell others .. I would not. why would you?

re: Discuss it - only with those who know and only if you like and trust them. Otherwise it is a form of bragging that can get you into trouble.

re: Do it again?
Only you can decide.

Answer 4

If you liked it then there's no reason to regret it. But even if you don't regret it, I wouldn't go out of my way to tell people. If it just comes up in a conversation, then whether or not you tell them depends on the person and you're comfort level with them. But, otherwise, it's no one's business, so let it be.

Answer 5

Yes great you enjoyed an act of passion this in itself is fine. THink about what you just did yes you don't know anyone here but you did just give access to somthing very personal. It's ok to do those things and enjoy them. Telling people isn't. People need to learn that sex is a personal intimate thing that not everyone should be allowed to know about. YOu have to learn to let urslef be you. Don't care what anyone thinks.

Answer 6

I wouldnt tell anyone else because they will think u r a slut or whore, in their minds (U R being easy). Even though u liked it, and that has always been my fantasy, so U go girl. Ive never had that chance, or I was too chicken.

Answer 7

Don't regret the act, if you enjoyed it.

But regret telling anyone about it. There's nothing to be proud about, there is nothing to brag.

Your reputation is probably ruined.

If I were you, I would move to a different town.

Answer 8

I know now the cats outta the bag too late

just be glad that you did it not telling people would b like the pope saying im not a nazi because he si and he was and he did and tis too late

Answer 9

You must be young...you liked the three some..so what...yet why would you even tell anyone? Sometimes you just need to SHUT-UP..grow up too...

Answer 10

too late for not telling anyone. you just told it to how many thousands of people... from the sounds of it you want to brag about it..... so go on and start yelling to the skys. i had a threesome.

Answer 11

you should feel happy about it, as not many ppl get a chance to do a 3some. And you should also share your gr8 experience with friends.