everytime when i'm with my bf, my brain tends to freeze and dont know what to talk to him about.. ne idea?
he says the things i talk bout are boring.. it makes him sleepy...
he say that i am selfish, and that i have trust issue..
when he tries to kiss me.. i get scare and move away. ( thats just my reflect )
how can i cure that..
how can i entertain him... so he wont be bored..
2006-09-23 21:25:01 · 20 answers · asked by Sw33ty S 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
we are together for 2 weeks already..
2006-09-23 21:26:14 · update #1
talking bout ne thing.. what is nething to u guys
2006-09-23 21:33:55 · update #2
btw i am 17 and he is 18..
and btw i will not have sex b4 marriage.. and he knows that..
2006-09-23 21:40:51 · update #3
outside of my life i am hyper and talk a lot.. but then when ia m aroudn him i am really quite..
2006-09-23 21:41:46 · update #4
Statuary Warning:
This is not applicable for everyone. Varies from person to person.
Just try to neglect him/her for some time but not in an offensive way.This may bring him a bit closer to you.
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The only thing that brings persons together is the hard times they face together.
But iam true that i don wish any hard time for you .. :).
Try taking some risks....will make everything interesting.
2006-09-23 21:32:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
These things take time. If you aren't comfortable kissing him yet tell him how you feel and if he is serious about being with you he will understand and will be willing to work with you.
In my opinion if y'all have only been together for two weeks and he is already telling you that the things you talk about are boring and that you are selfish and have trust issues then you don't need to be with him anyway. I say this because he is probably only looking for one thing other wise he will help to make the relationship work and not put you down.
2006-09-24 04:33:34 · answer #2 · answered by mr_oilfield_78 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you two may not have much in common if you can't talk about much of anything and are boring each other. I suppose that you could talk about your interest and how your day is going. Have him do the talking. If he is that bored with you, bolt out of the relationship.
If you two are only seeing each other for 2 weeks, it is too soon for you to kiss. If you are not ready, then he will have to deal with it.
2006-09-24 04:30:59 · answer #3 · answered by davester1970 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just try to relax, don't try so hard. Personally I tend to hang around people who I feel good to be with. People I don't have try and be relaxed with. People who like the things I talk about. Seems like you and your BF aren't that good a match... but I suppose it might just be that you're really tense and can't unwind. Just be yourself, and if that's not good enough, you're with the wrong person.
2006-09-24 04:29:35 · answer #4 · answered by Bastard 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best conversationalist are the ones that only open their mouths to ask questions to another relevant to that persons interests and listen intently to what they have to say. If you listened properly, you would not have any trouble finding things to talk about
2006-09-24 04:46:13 · answer #5 · answered by Cdn_Superdave 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get him talking about the things that interest him. Also if you ask him questions about himself that will help.
Ask yourself why you get scared when he tries to kiss you, that would be an issue all by itself.
2006-09-24 04:31:06 · answer #6 · answered by SpecialK 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask HIM to come up with something then. And when he has nothing to talk about, go, "Exactly." As for the kissing - if it's not your thing, it's not your thing. And he's gotta be a man and accept it.
2006-09-24 04:29:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunally u didn't mention your age. But girl...when u are with a man...that u need to ENTRETAIN....that is not good at all....if he needs some one who entretain him...he better watch tv. or go to the movies...or listen some music. I will say easely...he doesn't care about you, he cares about his self. Girl...find u one who cares about you...less self fish that the one you have now.
2006-09-24 04:38:15 · answer #8 · answered by Ritamorales. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be yourself. if your completely comfortable around him and he still doesn't like it then maybe your not meant to be. but ask him about himself. get to know him. show him its not all about you and that you are really interested him and want to get to know him better. ask him about his family, sports, school, friends, ect. also tell your own funny and interesting stories but don't hog up the conversation. ask questions that will bring about a response. just kiss him already.
2006-09-24 04:30:12 · answer #9 · answered by anonymous 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him about things that he likes to talk about. Thats part of a relationship....compatability.
2006-09-24 04:29:36 · answer #10 · answered by Zach S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋