Family & Relationships - 19 September 2006

I am in dubai since 4 -5yrs. I dont have a single friend whom I can confide in. I am v down-to-earth person & friendly. I also have helped few people in trouble.How to make friends? is there any website n wud it be feasible to make friends online n meet them??
People in dubai are selfish. I have got bad experiences from a couple of people. When they need me they will even ask me to make food for them & also wud like to stay at my place. But when i ask them for a company to go out for disco/dance, only for a couple of hours, they dont.They make excuses.For few such reasons I have lost trust on people here.Wht do I do ,,,i really need a good/decent friend / friends.

2006-09-19 09:57:35 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I have alot of problems with my boyfriend we always fight.
He always gets mad for stupid things and we end up arguing to the point that i am about to leave him. but then he says hes sorry and try to make up for it, but he really messes up really bad to the point he insults me. what should i do with him.

2006-09-19 09:57:34 · 12 answers · asked by SMILEY 2 in Singles & Dating

You have to be sincere with me,12 years old girl or boy that like: That's so Raven,Hannah Montana,Phill of the future and disney channel shows all....It has to be a cool person bye..

2006-09-19 09:56:25 · 6 answers · asked by Jenny 1 in Friends

i'm falling for my ex-bf again. we're friends after i broke up with him 5yrs ago... we were both immature then. we occasionally go out after i broke up with my recent bf months ago... his gestures are sometimes confusing me. at times, i feel like he still likes me.. it really thrills me.. but then there are also times that i feel like im taken for granted. am i just being too sensitive? i really don't understand.. well, he's still single. i'm over my recent relationship already and i'm not taking him back as a rebound.. in fact, somebody's courting me but i don't like any of them.. i want my ex-bf back.. any advice?

2006-09-19 09:55:53 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

about a week ago i had to break up with my bf of 4months because he was confused about his feelings for me. we both were very happy and he was the only guy ive ever dated that didnt want to "get in my pants" now i feel an empty space were happyness used to be. i see him every now and then and want to go over and talk to him but i dont want to seem desperate. im still in love with him and i dont know how he feels. i want to call him, i want to send him and IM and tell him how i feel but i dont want to cause drama. i love him, i want to tell him, but i feel like some part of him still loves me, but, oh, i dont know. i want to make the pain go away but i want him back so bad, please help me. (and i know i sound like a blubbering idiot but all of you have gone through this)

2006-09-19 09:55:42 · 12 answers · asked by sarah_gotdance 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

There's this guy on my swim team who's two years older than me. I'm a freshman and he's a junior. He's offered me rides many times and stayed with me while I was waiting for my ride once although my coach was still there waiting with me also. Once at a swim meet, he kept bringing up guys who are on the team and asking if I liked any one of them. He gives me compliments about things and when this other girl on my swim team asked him to go with her to homecoming as friends he said yes. When she was telling me about it. He came up and jokingly asked me if I was jealous. I think it's over a 6 month period that he did all this. At homecoming he complimented me on how I looked and asked if I came with a date. He asked me about the guys I danced with. But when we email he usually gives 5 word answers and I know he's really nice to everyone. So does he like me?

Sorry if you already answered my question. Everybody says that i should make the first move but he's a JUNIOR and I'm a FRESHMAN.

2006-09-19 09:54:00 · 12 answers · asked by Olivia 2 in Singles & Dating

I am 29 and my fiance and our 2 dogs live in Boston now and would really love to live somewhere else. I have heard the Nashville area is great? Any input? Is it a nice place, is it easy to meet people? How is housing and job market?

2006-09-19 09:53:45 · 5 answers · asked by chuckles 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My friend is in a dilemma, she started talking to this guy on the phone and by email. She has only recently been talking to him, but she asked him whether he was single and he replied by email saying that he was gay and was in a relationship and so wouldn't be what she was after.

But today he sent her a message saying that if he was honest with her, he was a bit worried about the interest she was showing in him when they have not yet met and he is suggesting that she finds someone closer to her because he lives a distance away.

She is wondering whether he is actually hetrosexual as apposed to homosexual, hoping that she would be put off by it.
What do you guys think?

2006-09-19 09:53:22 · 25 answers · asked by ceecee 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-19 09:52:41 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-19 09:52:37 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

that lasted even after you had broken up with the person? The sexual longing is still there but the desire to experience a "love relationship" with the person no longer exists.

I was wondering how unusual this is.....

2006-09-19 09:52:26 · 11 answers · asked by goldenlifev 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-19 09:51:10 · 49 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i really like this guy, and i dont know how to ask him out. i am in the 6th grade, middle school, and alot of people are doing it. so how do i get him alone? how do i ask him? flirting? any ideas? please, thanks, and very thorough answers please. im new to the dating pool.

2006-09-19 09:49:08 · 23 answers · asked by angelina 1 in Singles & Dating

Okay there is this group of boys who just don't like me and they always say to me "Giancarlo? What kind of name is that?" And sometimes they walk by me in the hallway and they say my name in a girly voice as if im gay or something and now im just pissed. What should I say to these boys next time they do that? Seriously, none of the boys like me because my name and they judge me on it, my school is so gay. Please write stuff to make me feel better and maybe even laugh at them.

2006-09-19 09:48:54 · 11 answers · asked by giancarlot91 2 in Friends

my boyfriend is moving to america in a year. he just recently said he loves me and i believe him . so he said he doesnt want to leave me here and wants me to come live with him there. im like woah!!1 im excited but nervous as well. he got to play basketball there. while i would like to apply for a nursing course if i ecide to go. am i making the right choice by going? i have never been there before and reallydont want to be without him.

2006-09-19 09:48:49 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-19 09:48:45 · 6 answers · asked by mama T 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I know I get deoderant stuck in my underarm hairs sometimes, but I don't have any hair between my buttcrack.

I remember one time i was about to go down on my first boyfriend and then i saw a dingle berry hanging from his butt! It was nasty but I didn't say anything. My boyfriend now always wipes his butt everytime he poops but he gets paper-berries. Can you ever win?

2006-09-19 09:48:12 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

They broke up 3 months ago.

2006-09-19 09:47:42 · 9 answers · asked by angelo 3 in Singles & Dating

My gf thinks i'm starting to scare her by how dark I am...my friend is concerned by how I always talk about darkness uncontrollably...I mean seriously...sometimes I talk about darkness without noticing my lips are talking on thier own!

A view of my life: I've been playing hide and seek for 14 years...and no one found me...ever! The reason why no one found me is because i hid in the darkness! I thought I would be able to get out but I'm such a fool, i'm trapped inside for ever!

How can I just control myself...because I'm starting to scare myself and my friends! I've never been like this! Today I looked myself in the mirror and I screamed at myself: WHO ARE YOU? YOU MONSTER! what can I do about this, please help me...I'm 14 and i'm a guy..

2006-09-19 09:47:38 · 9 answers · asked by The Time Traveling Magician 3 in Friends

My most hated thing in the world is a cheater. I have been cheated on by almost every boyfriend and dumped them all. I am now married to someone faithful. My friend just told me that she cheated on her husband last weekend with a stranger- do you think I should tell her husband? I really want to since this is my ultra pet peeve and I would pray someone would tell me if my spouse cheated. Everyone has the right to know ...right?

2006-09-19 09:47:08 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

If my spouse sneeks to watch porno's does that mean he no longer loves me.He knows it bother's me.

2006-09-19 09:46:55 · 15 answers · asked by specialangel 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have been dating a guy for about 3 months and we like eachother, we have fun but I don't think it's that serious (all he has said is that I'm special and he has missed me while being away for a weekend). Another guy who I have been interested in has asked me out for dinner, I want to go but am not sure of my place in the other relationship? Would you guys consider this as a form of being unfaithful if I go to dinner with the other man???

2006-09-19 09:46:47 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

okay this is kind of embarassing. my bf and i had sex for the first time last night. we are both experienced people, so it wasn't a big deal. but my bf has anxiety or something because he was um... having difficulty with his um... okay he couldn't keep it up. actually he couldn't get it up period. the thing is that it was still so amazing for me, not pleasure wise but i was just sooo happy to be with him. but he was really embarassed and we had sex even though he was soft. he said once he gets past the first time he's fine he just gets nervous the first time. ladies, if he continues to have difficulty what can i do to help him out? how can i make him more comfortable? has anyone, including guys, been in a similar situation? i loved being with him and it was so special, but.... oh i don't know.... i just need an outside voice.

2006-09-19 09:46:23 · 25 answers · asked by 1 Hott Mami 4 in Singles & Dating

Let's say you spend every single day with someone. The love you have for each other is HUGE. Then one of you gets busy and is unable to spend as much time again....during that time that person feels like they don't love you as much as they did before.

I know military spouses go without their man/woman for months sometimes a year or more so if they still feel the same love for each other as they did before, do the people I mentioned above not in love then?

Can someone help me understand this?

2006-09-19 09:44:41 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Theres this girl that went out with and I was stupid to break up with her and i want to ask her out again, she's an amazing person and she's realllllly hott! But one of my closest friends told me not to go out with her and I kinda like her too so what should i do??????

2006-09-19 09:43:56 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hi, my older sister just rang me on my mobile crying down the phone, saying that she is going to overdose, and then the phone cut out, and when I tried to ring back, it rang but she didnt answer, Im scared that she may have taken an overdose and no-one else knows except for me, and no-one is here so I cant tell anyone, and my battery on my phone has gone dead so I cant even call an ambulance. I would charge my phone but my brother nicked my charger. Please help. what would you do?

2006-09-19 09:42:55 · 12 answers · asked by blondie 2 in Family

I like this guy and I meet him and I ask him if he liked me and he said " your safe" .................. that answer burned but please share :

2006-09-19 09:41:35 · 28 answers · asked by Jen I 1 in Singles & Dating

I've done it all... so I think... thought I could get a few Ideas from new people... need some romantic gestures to share with husband.

2006-09-19 09:41:29 · 15 answers · asked by lfaulk0 2 in Marriage & Divorce

ok i have a friend i meet her in freshmenyear in high school and i alwais notice that the onli way shi thinks shis important is if guys whant to go out with her and how many relation ships and mariges shi can destroy. im scared for her becuse one of the mens wife has treaten her. is shi just doing it because thats how shi is or because of mental disorder

2006-09-19 09:41:23 · 9 answers · asked by me 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I left a 5 yr relationship with the father of my 3yr old, I always felt he was cheating and not faithful, yet he seemed to blame me as if I made things up and did not admit to him being wrong. Not coming home and suspeccting sexual relationships when he would drink, well I moved out a month ago and stopped by one morning to pick up my baby's shoes find out he has someone else there ( he never let me in, but i waited and saw another woman leave with him) I had my daughter so I did not want drama. He claims he had guy friends over and she was with them. I went back after they left and saw book with her Driver's licence and #, I called to get ansers and she states it's nothing serious but this was not her first time their, he still denies having anything to do with her.... why does it still hurt knowing that I always suspected but never caught him and now that I'm gone he still can't admit it?How can I get over this jerk but yet keep my daughter in mind.

2006-09-19 09:41:14 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce