my boyfriend is moving to america in a year. he just recently said he loves me and i believe him . so he said he doesnt want to leave me here and wants me to come live with him there. im like woah!!1 im excited but nervous as well. he got to play basketball there. while i would like to apply for a nursing course if i ecide to go. am i making the right choice by going? i have never been there before and reallydont want to be without him.
2006-09-19 09:48:49 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
This question is best answered by you. Have you researched America? Can you find out where you will be living and what kind of housing will be available?
Do research and consider how easy or difficult your current situation is compared to how it might be if you move to another country. I could read your question, so you can speak English, however do you understand the laws and are you able to obtain a Visa or apply for citizenship?
Do the homework before you jump ahead and go somewhere that is new and unknown.
2006-09-19 09:54:06 · answer #1 · answered by jrhughes3068 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say on the one hand it's a fantastic oppurtunity to experience something new, but make sure you know why you're doing it before you go. I mean don't just end up 'following' him out there and giving up on your own plans. Perhaps find out about the courses you want to do and what opportunities there are for you out there first. Or even let him go and then after 6 months or so if you and he still feel the same, then move out there. Whatever you decide to do though remember that although it's a big decision, you can always change your circumstances so if you end up being unhappy you can always come back and try again. :o) Hope this helps!
2006-09-19 09:55:02 · answer #2 · answered by pixie.wings 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give it a try, it's a huge decision so think about it carefully first. While he's out playing basketball you'll be alone and will have to start everything from scratch but it'll be an experience for you. Even if things don't work out at least you gave it a try and you can always come back.
2006-09-19 09:53:49 · answer #3 · answered by suckaslug 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd only go if it was my fiance and I knew for a fact that we'd get married. Other than that the choice is all yours. It may be a life changing step and you have to conteplate all the different types of out comes that may come of it, such as where you guys are going to live, how difficult it might be to find a job...yada yada.... Good luck!
2006-09-19 09:58:36 · answer #4 · answered by kz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well only u can decide if u wanna go .. if u dont like it u can always come home and bollox y do u have to be married as someone suggested .. u go for it girl if u think its right sure ur family will still be here when u get bk ..
2006-09-19 10:49:17 · answer #5 · answered by lizzie d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would go and get that nursing course sewn up!
What have you got to lose?
If you don't like it or (god forbid) it doesn't work out then you can always move back.
I'm sure you would make enough friends to build a great life for yourself.
Go out and grab the world with both hands and squeeze the life out of it!
Good luck to you.
2006-09-19 09:53:19 · answer #6 · answered by Lorraine R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be a fool. What if you guys get into a fight? Where will you go? You will depend on him even more. Like the lady said above me, never leave the country for a man unless you are married. If he is ready to commit to taking you out of country, then he should be ready to commit to marriage.
2006-09-19 09:55:23 · answer #7 · answered by pinomic 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yeah go, what have you got to lose... you get to go to new place with a guy you love and by doing your nursing your still following your dreams so your not giving anything up.
2006-09-19 09:57:20 · answer #8 · answered by Jennifer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can always come home if it doesn't work out, if you don't give it a try you may regret it for the rest of your life, but it works both ways if you decide that you really don't want to go, does he love you enough NOT to go good luck
2006-09-23 03:51:15 · answer #9 · answered by bluebell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it,you can always come back. Better to do it and maybe regret it later than to spend the rest of your life thinking 'what if?'.
Good luck-the world is your oyster.
2006-09-19 10:41:55 · answer #10 · answered by pinkandloopy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋