I have been dating a guy for about 3 months and we like eachother, we have fun but I don't think it's that serious (all he has said is that I'm special and he has missed me while being away for a weekend). Another guy who I have been interested in has asked me out for dinner, I want to go but am not sure of my place in the other relationship? Would you guys consider this as a form of being unfaithful if I go to dinner with the other man???
2006-09-19 09:46:47 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if you've been dating the guy for 3 months then you are obviously in a relationship. and yes, it would be unfaithful.
2006-09-19 09:50:46 · answer #1 · answered by Raistlin H 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Yes, becuz you are dating this other guy for 3 months and i think 3 months is nothing casual at all. Sure you probably didnt verbally tell each other where "this relationship" stands, but if you are even hesitant about it, then it probably is being unfaithful, but i suggest you talk it over w/ your 3 month man and find out for real where this relationship of yours is headed and if its serious or not. If you are interested in another man, then that means you are not too serious about the other one.
2006-09-19 09:52:11 · answer #2 · answered by Informer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, but if you decide to go be open with guy A and ask him just say that you like him but you don't feel it is that seriouse, ask him were you both stand, take it from there. Obviously after his responce you will have abetter idea and may be able to make up your mind as of what to do a little better. Good luck
2006-09-19 09:51:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Would he go out with someone else if the opportunity arose? How do you feel about him? Do you think he thinks the relationship is "serious" or exclusive? Sounds to me like you have loyalty issues. Ask guy #1 tactfully his interpretation of your relationship. In the end, be honest with yourself. Go out with the other guy but keep it simple. Be honest with all concerned. Scary, huh?
2006-09-19 09:53:13 · answer #4 · answered by smecky809042003 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm i think the other guy is not begin that serious,... he seems to be only having fun... i'll ask him what's up with him with you ,.... and you can decide .... so you can go to the dinner with the other guy.... also dont go with the other guy just bc please him.... do you like him??? cuz i think if you start gettin more serious with the dinner man you will end up gettin confuse for the last - not too long - "relationship " with your actual boy ... .think about it girl
2006-09-19 09:52:05 · answer #5 · answered by *live,laugh,love* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Interesting question.
Ask the reverse question -- how would you feel if you found out he'd gone out with another woman? Would it change your relationship with him? End it? Or do you figure he's already seeing other people as well as you, or don't care?
If it would bother you if he went out with someone else, then you shouldn't go out with someone else.
2006-09-19 10:21:26 · answer #6 · answered by jplrvflyer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely not. You have not quite decided who to date yet and well you're your own person and can decide for yourself. Go out with whom you so choose to and if either guy gets jealous neither of them deserve you. Go for it I say.
2006-09-19 09:51:03 · answer #7 · answered by dave_83501 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk it over with your other significant other male friend? tell him you need to know where you both are in this relationship
2006-09-19 09:53:08 · answer #8 · answered by TheMaverick.The Artist 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you going to tell your boy friend about this dinner? if not, it's cheating.
2006-09-19 09:50:28 · answer #9 · answered by E.T. 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Of course yes, just stick to one guy
2006-09-19 09:49:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋