Family & Relationships - 19 September 2006

What do I do?

I met a girl in a bar. She is a waitress there and her father owns the place. I’m trying to get to know her a little, but she has already told me that she is a virgin (father is Italian, and may be connected). She is 34. I am 42. She is a lot of fun but says she doesn’t want to get too close to me because she thinks that I want to settle down and she may not be. So, I think sex is out, but I care for her so much. I see her out with other people as friends so I am wondering why she dates me but also hangs out with her friends. People tell me I’m crazy but this bar is a strip joint. She has never been topless or anything but dances some when there is no one else there. I just don’t know how to get her beyond the casual date thing. My mom says forget her but I can’t.

Thank you

2006-09-19 09:40:38 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

hellol,my great grandfather 's second marriage (to my great grandmother) was bigamy, i.e. he did not have a divorce from his first wife, but I can't find any record of the wedding, would it be struck from the records or should I be able to find it in the register of births marriages and deaths? the year of the marriage was approx. 1919? i' 'm looking on 1837 online.com for a wedding between thomas arkley and sarah draffin. also would it be reported in the press? family legends says he served 6 months in prison for this crime? any info gratefully received, thanks amanda

2006-09-19 09:40:21 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

look into the tissue like you dont know what came out? Why do we do this, I always know whats in there but I always look anyway. Is something wrong with me?????

2006-09-19 09:40:16 · 11 answers · asked by dreamgirl4myboy 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-19 09:40:09 · 46 answers · asked by just1more 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Which one of these titles appeals to you the most?
A) The Faith Within
B) One Love,One Heart, One Person
C) A Tainted Mind
D) The Poetry of Me
E) Outside-In

And I'm also writing a poetry book dedicated to my first love called Ode to Jaime (Te Amor) Do you think that's a good idea? It's been over for five years now.

2006-09-19 09:39:13 · 8 answers · asked by Cathy 4 in Singles & Dating

Yet a lot of girls ,even though they admit that pantynose are
a lot sexier than bare legs, still wear dresses /skirts with
bare legs. Are there any women who out there who still
wear pantyhose knowing that guys find them more attractive
and sexy?

2006-09-19 09:39:09 · 11 answers · asked by don;t know 3 in Singles & Dating

why do good women die young but slutts live for ever is not right

2006-09-19 09:39:04 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I know, it sounds like a cliche, but my mother in law drives me nuts. She calls twice a day-- at least. She tries to see us 3 or four times a week -- at least. She has an opinion on every aspect of our lives. We have an infant daughter, and a six year old son, my husband's stepson. She's been asking us to let the baby come visit her for a few hours (we live in the same town) but she doesn't invite my son. We told her that we don't want him to feel left out of going to grandma's house; Take one, take the other too. Suddenly, she wasn't up to it. When we all come over to visit, she won't allow my son to hold or touch the baby, even though we do. She thinks he will somehow hurt her. He adores his baby sister, I've seen no evidence of any jealousy yet, and he's very careful with her. It's not just him, though, because she's even told me, "Cheryl, watch the baby"! She's not a first time grandma, She's got 3 other grandchildren and a great grandson. My husband says I should address this with her, I say, "I deal with my mother, you deal with yours." I don't think it's my place to tell her to back off. Any tips or suggestions?

2006-09-19 09:38:54 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i ask my man to help me all the time he wont budge and then i try the angry approach like, you better get in there and do those dishes or ill make your week miserable, doesnt work. ive been nice,mean,ive even gone on strike and let the house go. he really is a good man he just bought me a new jeep . but we both work and i just dont have the time to "do it all". getting a new man is not an option for me for im pretty happy.

2006-09-19 09:38:26 · 20 answers · asked by allenshaunna 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I am having a small and informal outdoor wedding at a plantation bed and breakfast next May. I want to do the cooking myself, and I am planning on making individual picnic baskets for each guest. I want the food to be a little more special than just lunchmeat or whatever, kinda old-fashioned, southern....

Preliminary menu--
Shaved prime rib w/horseradish mayo on mini yeast rolls.
Southern fried chicken
Garden Pasta Salad
Sliced Cucumbers and Onions
Kettle Style Chips
Chocolate Sandies Cookies
Cupcake Wedding Cake

Any comments or alternate ideas would be appreciated. Keep in mind that they must be able to be individually wrapped and packed in boxes. Must not need to be cold, and must be easy to eat outside.

2006-09-19 09:38:05 · 8 answers · asked by havenharleyb81 2 in Weddings

2006-09-19 09:37:59 · 8 answers · asked by madisonchic 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I just need to know some signs that can be useful to see if this guy is in it for love or just all the time sex ? Thanks

2006-09-19 09:37:29 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

but hey i dont have any friends what is their to do i dont have no one to talk to

2006-09-19 09:36:49 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

well he is my best freind

2006-09-19 09:36:19 · 27 answers · asked by ♥ 1 in Singles & Dating

I am getting married next month, but have been recently thinking about my ex (we had a very close relationship, but things just didn't work). When I was leaving this house this morning, my phone started playing our song (my ex and mine)....it stopped me in my tracks. When I looked at my phone it was connected to the internet on Verizons V-cast service. I have a flip top phone and there are NO buttons on the outside to active this service, nor is our song a popular one on the radio. Is this a sign from above? I am starting to have doubts.

2006-09-19 09:35:58 · 18 answers · asked by markey0308 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

favorite way to be kissed or anything else?

2006-09-19 09:35:46 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Have you ever really hit it off with a guy but then had your feelings change? What are the signs you give? Would you still call the guy? Has anyone found it to be temporary and recaptured "it"? And also, how much influence can your friends have on your outlook as far as the relationship goes/is going?

2006-09-19 09:35:21 · 1 answers · asked by randyken 6 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-19 09:34:41 · 26 answers · asked by myruin 1 in Weddings

Heres my situation:
Im without a car and a license b/c I was driving without insurance & had my L's taken away for driving under suspension....Should I just stop dating b/c I dont have a car or lic? I feel like no guys will want to talk to me if I dont have all the normal things other girls have....I would always have to be picked up & dropped off at my house, im knida feeling low rite now, there is a guy Im interested in but Im afraid to ask him out b/c I dont want to get rejected b/c i feel like a loser. What do you guys think??? THX!

2006-09-19 09:34:29 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-19 09:34:22 · 17 answers · asked by myruin 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Just get a tampon and stuff it in.
Don't take it out on me, please.
This is how domestic violence commences.

2006-09-19 09:34:07 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

There's this guy on my swim team who's two years older than me. I'm a freshman and he's a junior. He's offered me rides many times and stayed with me while I was waiting for my ride once although my coach was still there waiting with me also. Once at a swim meet, he kept bringing up guys who are on the team and asking if I liked any one of them. He gives me compliments about things and when this other girl on my swim team asked him to go with her to homecoming as friends he said yes. When she was telling me about it. He came up and jokingly asked me if I was jealous. I think it's over a 6 month period that he did all this. At homecoming he complimented me on how I looked and asked if I came with a date. He asked me about the guys I danced with. But when we email he usually gives 5 word answers and I know he's really nice to everyone. So does he like me?

Sorry if you already answered my question. I just never got any thorough answers.

2006-09-19 09:33:27 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-19 09:33:14 · 7 answers · asked by Debra H 1 in Weddings

some of my guys friends told me a few ways

2006-09-19 09:33:06 · 7 answers · asked by solochick101 2 in Singles & Dating

Okay, so here is the deal. For the past couple of years I have been seeing this guy. Until last year I asked him if he wanted to get serious and he totally blew me off. I've noticed that he likes to drive past me at various places while I'm waiting for the bus. So today he pulls up REAL fast and stops. He didn't roll down the window or anything and just drives off. I refuse to make any gestures toward because I don't want to seem desperate and lonely. If he really wanted to talk to me why didn't he just say something. I'm tired of him acting like this and refuse to change my schedule since he will just find me again. Even his friends are watching me what should I do? I love him, but he is getting crazier everyday. Does he think it' funny? Oh, by the way if you (D) happen to read my question I advise you to either stop coming by or at least have the balls to speak, idiot!!!!

2006-09-19 09:32:42 · 11 answers · asked by Prissy Pearl19 1 in Singles & Dating

am 21 years old and mom to a great son named eddie. I got married last year to a man i met in my parenting class who is 28 years old and has a 13 year old daughter named claire. My husbands daughter did not live with him when we first got married and even met she lived with her mom. But unfortunatley her mom was arrested for drug use and possesion with intent to sell i believe. Ever since she has lived with us and been nothing but a problem. My husband only really paid child support and saw her maybe once a month now he is in Iraq. I have tried to bond with her trying to do things with her but she just hates me. More over i found a pregnancy test under her bed while cleaning? I suspected she was up to something but my husband just ignored me saying she was just in puppy love with her bf. How do i confront her??about the pregnancy test i found?under her bed.

2006-09-19 09:32:14 · 9 answers · asked by mindy h 1 in Marriage & Divorce

some flavors,some food and drink ideas

2006-09-19 09:31:59 · 16 answers · asked by Steve M 1 in Weddings

The first time he cheated they were just a couple, and she forgave him. Now they have a child together and she just found out he's up to his old tricks. Part of her agrees that she should kick him to the curb, but another part of her thinks she should stay together for their child, mainly because she's scared she can't do it alone. What's the right advice when I despise the jerk so much?

2006-09-19 09:31:27 · 20 answers · asked by omg_sotrue 2 in Friends

My good friend acted different around me ever since i got back to school. Once, we were sitting an she starts resting her arm on my knee. I touched her shoulder and she flat out hugged me. Talked to me the whole class. Stole my hat for as long as she could. Found out her perfect guy descrition fits me. It ensuses

Then she tops doing it as much

stole my hat once and i just gave it to her

she wore it once yesterday but not today

but then she tells me that hitting is her way of affection

and wrestles on the ground with one her friends

then today sees me every chance she gets and makes sure to sit with me touches my hand to see a cut, stops at my locker.

so whats goin on

and if she likes me what do i to make her spill

2006-09-19 09:31:17 · 7 answers · asked by Will 1 in Friends

me & my babies dad have been 2gather 4 years ,yes once a cheater always a cheater but how i realized he was cheating again was the fact he always comes home & acts more jealous of me accusing me of cheating and its next 2 impossible two tots & preg w/ twins (yes im a big fool ) poster girl for ignorant women w/ low self essteem ! he doesnt know yet, but im out I
will not subject myself to his animalistic self while trying 2 be a mother 2 our childeren my kids need me not the "postergirl" back 2 question why r men cheaters and cruel when they do come home?

2006-09-19 09:31:14 · 11 answers · asked by luisa_duran2000 1 in Marriage & Divorce