2006-09-19 09:34:22 · 17 answers · asked by myruin 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yes its wrong. He's a grown man - he doesn't need you telling him what he can and can't do.
2006-09-19 10:39:14 · answer #1 · answered by thersa33 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't want my husband to go. Which he wouldn't to go anyways, he doesn't like them. He says they are nothing but trouble. Maybe you and your hubby could set some ground rules on what he can and shouldn't do. I don't think it makes you a child (so you dont' need to grow up), or an idiot if you don't want him to go. Some people actually know what goes on at bachelor parties, and it sure isn't them sitting around sipping beer and talking about old times!
2006-09-19 16:37:41 · answer #2 · answered by fin 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't say it's wrong. That would be a natural feeling in my eyes. I wouldn't want my husband to go to one, hell he didn't even have one, thank God! It's not that I don't trust him, I just know the kind of stuff that goes on at those things! If my husband wanted to go, I wouldn't tell him he couldn't go, but I would probally tell him it bothers me. I'd probally ask him how he'd feel if some naked man was dancing all on me??
2006-09-19 17:05:23 · answer #3 · answered by faith 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on why you don't want him to go.
If it's because you don't trust him, you need to explore those issues a little deeper!
If it's because they're going to a strip club, and you two have already decided that it's not ok for him to go to strip clubs, then no, he shouldn't go.
But he should be able to go under normal circumstances. You don't want the poor guy feeling trapped!
2006-09-19 17:00:57 · answer #4 · answered by AnswerMom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he was going by himself to a strip club, then it would be understandable for you to be upset. However, it sounds like he just wants to go hang out with his friends. If you keep him away from his friends, then he will resent you over time and it will cause other problems as well. Just let him go and ask him to behave himself.
2006-09-19 16:38:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's not wrong, it's natural, but if you trust him, let him go to the party. If he is a good guy, nothing bad will come of it.
2006-09-19 16:37:08 · answer #6 · answered by mcnees79 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Let him go. Go out clubbing with your girlfriends and have a blast. Don't sit home moping. Go out, have a few drinks, dance and have a great time of your own.
2006-09-19 17:10:02 · answer #7 · answered by Lotus 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is wrong. If he feels he doesn't have your trust and support to do the things he might enjoy, then there will be "rebellion" to do those same things.
2006-09-19 19:13:23 · answer #8 · answered by tallandready2u 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not wrong, bachelor party is for bachelors.
2006-09-20 02:59:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get real. Why the complaint anyway? Don't trust him?
2006-09-19 16:55:30 · answer #10 · answered by Quasimodo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋