What do I do?
I met a girl in a bar. She is a waitress there and her father owns the place. I’m trying to get to know her a little, but she has already told me that she is a virgin (father is Italian, and may be connected). She is 34. I am 42. She is a lot of fun but says she doesn’t want to get too close to me because she thinks that I want to settle down and she may not be. So, I think sex is out, but I care for her so much. I see her out with other people as friends so I am wondering why she dates me but also hangs out with her friends. People tell me I’m crazy but this bar is a strip joint. She has never been topless or anything but dances some when there is no one else there. I just don’t know how to get her beyond the casual date thing. My mom says forget her but I can’t.
Thank you
2006-09-19 09:40:38 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She's actually good looking....5 ft 6 and 126 lbs with pretty big boobs and nice hips
2006-09-19 09:47:29 · update #1
Your mom says??? ............... dude how old did you say you were?
2006-09-19 09:47:03 · answer #1 · answered by Rambo 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Follow your heart! & If i was you id also love this lady because not everyone manages to be 34 & still a virgin.Dont listen to anyone,mothers give guidance not facts.good luck!
2006-09-19 16:53:08 · answer #2 · answered by obviousbeauty 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A 34 year old virgin? I find that hard to believe.
2006-09-19 16:44:24 · answer #3 · answered by Carrie! 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
try to be her friend and all but still move forward
treat her really special and romance her...hopefully she will catch on that youre more interested in a healthy relationship than just sex
2006-09-19 16:48:09 · answer #4 · answered by TheMaverick.The Artist 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
shes lying to you about the virgin thing she must be REALLY unattractive if thats true
2006-09-19 16:45:51 · answer #5 · answered by Hey 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
SHOW HER THE MONEY!
2006-09-19 16:42:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋