Okay, so here is the deal. For the past couple of years I have been seeing this guy. Until last year I asked him if he wanted to get serious and he totally blew me off. I've noticed that he likes to drive past me at various places while I'm waiting for the bus. So today he pulls up REAL fast and stops. He didn't roll down the window or anything and just drives off. I refuse to make any gestures toward because I don't want to seem desperate and lonely. If he really wanted to talk to me why didn't he just say something. I'm tired of him acting like this and refuse to change my schedule since he will just find me again. Even his friends are watching me what should I do? I love him, but he is getting crazier everyday. Does he think it' funny? Oh, by the way if you (D) happen to read my question I advise you to either stop coming by or at least have the balls to speak, idiot!!!!
2006-09-19 09:32:42 · 11 answers · asked by Prissy Pearl19 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
find yourself someone better,,,don't you deserve it?
2006-09-19 09:37:26 · answer #1 · answered by guess 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because he blew you off he thinks your going to leave him to be with someone else.... He's just checking up on you to make sure you haven't completely left him yet....(by being seen talking to other guys, etc....) He's feeling insecure right about now, because he doesn't know how you are going to respond to his blowing you off about having a serious relationship. Men know that after a reasonable amount of time of dating, women are going to want more. He's just playing a game.
2006-09-19 16:48:32 · answer #2 · answered by stella 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like he has some issues. That should be a red flag for you. Move on and find someone who won't need to know where you are all the time. That's not what a relationship is about.
2006-09-19 16:36:43 · answer #3 · answered by Gina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What this guy is doing to you is a form of harrassment, it could even be considered stalking. Lose this guy fast, it sounds as if he has a serious emotional problem.
2006-09-19 16:38:06 · answer #4 · answered by muckrake 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uhhhhhh. You need to keep BIG distance from him. That is, at best, weird behavior, and, at worst, psychotic. And psychopaths aren't to be trusted at all.
2006-09-19 16:37:35 · answer #5 · answered by DelK 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He seems like a show off...you need to tell him to be real or be out! And I mean TELL HIM!
2006-09-19 16:35:39 · answer #6 · answered by TroubleRose 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he has a problem and you shouldn't worry about him. I suggest you find somebody who is less complicated
2006-09-19 16:35:04 · answer #7 · answered by Bizzle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WELL GIRL I THINK THAT YOU SHOULD LIKE CALL HIM AND TELL HIM WHAT THE HELL IS UP!!WHY DO YOU PASS ME BY AND NEVER SAY ANYTHING AND WHY ARE YOU HAVING YOUR FRIENDS WATCH ME?TELL HIM TO TELL YOU WHATS UP AND TO GROW SOME BALLS AND SAY WHATS ON HIS MIND
2006-09-19 16:42:47 · answer #8 · answered by mrs.sl33py 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lose him!!! Find someone who doesn't play games.
2006-09-19 16:35:45 · answer #9 · answered by mcnees79 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he sounds strange. i'd move on with someone else
2006-09-19 16:37:45 · answer #10 · answered by Texas T 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋