I just need to know some signs that can be useful to see if this guy is in it for love or just all the time sex ? Thanks
2006-09-19 09:37:29 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I always thought that was obvious.
Is he in it for the sex? A few ways how to tell:
If he shows more interest in the bedroom than going out.
If he starts to bring up the subject when you're not even half way through dinner.
If he never wants to go places that take a lot of time, but instead wants to do short things then head back to his place (or yours).
If he constantly touches in a sexual way you even when you're doing something else.
If he talks about nothing else but how great you two are in bed.
If he doesn't show interest in the things you want to do, and your hobbies.
If he starts to get that glazed look in his eye when you are talking about yourself, i.e. your job, your likes, dislikes, hobbies, friends, family, etc...
If he pressures you to spend the night or come back to his place when you are ready to go home.
If you answered yes to two or more of the above, then there is nothing there but the physical. Move on or enjoy the ride, but don't hold your breath for something deeper.
2006-09-19 09:44:07 · answer #1 · answered by welches_grape_jelly 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
"tell tell" signs:
- HE SHOWS UP, YOU HAVE SEX, HE LEAVES.
- THE ONLY THING YOU GUYS DO TOGETHER IS HAVE SEX.
you'd have to be a no brainer to figure this one out. I don't mean to be so blunt about it, but if the only activity going on every time you get together is sex, that would for sure raise some red flags for me. There is more to love than sex.
2006-09-19 09:48:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you can always say that when it comes time for sex that your not in the mood or you have a headach or something.and see if he still want to be around if he is then he loves you ,but if he isnot then you know. you just have to holdout on the sex for a while and see. because true love is not about sex it is about how you feel and what you want. goodluck.
2006-09-19 09:44:45 · answer #3 · answered by macki4 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him why he is attracted to you, and interested in you. If he gives you shallow or cliche answers then it could be just a physical attraction. If he tells you things about your personality, special things about you that he likes, then it may be more. However, the true test is time. If its just sex then eventually the infatuation will wear off. I have to think if you are questioning his motives in the first place, then he may not be as sincere as you want him to be
2006-09-19 09:43:27 · answer #4 · answered by Lovely L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him to go out of town with you, and base the trip around some form of activity. If he agrees and thinks it might be fun then he's into you along with the sex.
2006-09-19 09:43:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u 2 r in bed and r about to have sex ask him if he loves u and if u get a negative responce u then no it is just for the sex
2006-09-19 09:44:01 · answer #6 · answered by Onkar S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why is all about sex bad?
Ask him to go to the movies or out for a meal. If he's not keen or if he tries to hide under the table all night he's probably using you
2006-09-19 09:39:53 · answer #7 · answered by Jen . 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's about the sex if you had sex before you both fell in love.
2006-09-19 09:38:57 · answer #8 · answered by live2ride 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time will tell. Or you could cut out sex for awhile to see what his reaction is.
2006-09-19 09:39:03 · answer #9 · answered by Just Ducky 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he wants to stay in all the time and have sex, and never takes you out. thats one sign
2006-09-19 09:39:22 · answer #10 · answered by *JC* 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋