I have alot of problems with my boyfriend we always fight.
He always gets mad for stupid things and we end up arguing to the point that i am about to leave him. but then he says hes sorry and try to make up for it, but he really messes up really bad to the point he insults me. what should i do with him.
2006-09-19 09:57:34 · 12 answers · asked by SMILEY 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i dont know if i love him anymore
2006-09-19 10:07:24 · update #1
You say that ''he always gets mad for stupid things''. Do you know what this mean? THAT YOUR RELATIONSHIP OR YOU ARE NOT THE REAL PROBLEM!!!! As I can understand, other things make him nervous and he burstes his nerves on you. What should you do? MAKE A SINCERE CONVERSATION WITH HIM WITHOUT GET INVOLVED INTO A FIGHT. A fight will lead to a dead end. Reassure that you love him, that you care about him and ask him if he has any problems in his work or with his family. You know what I mean. As I can see, you don't want to lose him, so TRY TO FIND THE REAL PROBLEM AND STAND BY HIM!!!
2006-09-19 10:12:10 · answer #1 · answered by super_sexy_amazona 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I might sound harsh, but the best thing I can tell you is to break up with him, now that he's only a boyfriend.
A boyfriend-girlfriend relationship is supposed to make you happy, and to know each other with the possible intent of getting married at some point. It is the time when people show the "best" of themselves.
If he insults you that is not right, he will not be a right partner for you. Fights and violence tend to escalate. Someone who is verbally abusive might as well become physically abusive in the future. Is that what you want for you and your possible future children?
Ending a relationship like that is very painful, but it is a pain that ends at some point and you move on. If you don't end it, the pain will never go away.
2006-09-19 17:03:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well tell him how you feel and that you want to work it out. If not just leave him and find someone else . He shouldn't insult you and he should treat you right. I wish that I can give you more advice . But it's up to you and I hope that everything works out for you . And you'll make a choice that will make you happy . Good luck.
2006-09-19 17:16:50 · answer #3 · answered by kitty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should leave him and find some one else because insulting your own GF. That just means he doesn't care about you. But still talk to him and let him know how you fell and see how things go from there.
2006-09-19 17:01:46 · answer #4 · answered by CD321 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get Rid Of Him , do not waste another minute on someone who treats u this way . Dang u women need a lil self esteem boost on here u deserve better then this.
2006-09-19 17:00:15 · answer #5 · answered by ~~*Brownie*~~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's time to find another boyfriend. If it's this bad now, it will get worse later. Can you picture yourself having a family with him with this type of anger? This type of relationship is very unhealthy.
2006-09-19 17:11:30 · answer #6 · answered by Mrs Apple 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you stay in a relationship that makes you miserable? Get out and get out fast because it only gets worse if it's already that bad.
2006-09-19 17:25:07 · answer #7 · answered by VeeateU 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
only couple who love, admire, respect each other may disagree once in a while ....but couples in ur case is heading for disaster.
2006-09-19 17:06:39 · answer #8 · answered by Necat T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him that next time ya'll fight and it gets out of hand, you're gone. dont back down either. if you do then he's gonna keep doing it! good luck
2006-09-19 17:02:30 · answer #9 · answered by Ash 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hold his head under the covers and fart.
2006-09-19 16:59:31 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋