i'm falling for my ex-bf again. we're friends after i broke up with him 5yrs ago... we were both immature then. we occasionally go out after i broke up with my recent bf months ago... his gestures are sometimes confusing me. at times, i feel like he still likes me.. it really thrills me.. but then there are also times that i feel like im taken for granted. am i just being too sensitive? i really don't understand.. well, he's still single. i'm over my recent relationship already and i'm not taking him back as a rebound.. in fact, somebody's courting me but i don't like any of them.. i want my ex-bf back.. any advice?
2006-09-19 09:55:53 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
get him girl...what are you waiting for
2006-09-19 10:00:11 · answer #1 · answered by waynekirsten 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've known people to get married to the same person twice... an ex is an ex for a reason or reasonS
But if you think the 2 of you have matured then go for it - but when that 1st fight comes up and something gets drudged up from the past - you will know that the maturity level really means nothing...
2006-09-19 10:00:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm. Are you dropping hints that you're interested in him? Put your hand on him when talking, shoulder, leg, etc. See what his reaction is. Do you two ever drink together? That usually reveals things a little. But what do you mean you feel you're being taken for granted? Like your friendship? But I would suggest some flirting. Just don't rush in since you have all this history, it could end just as soon as it starts.
2006-09-19 10:03:10 · answer #3 · answered by Dizazter 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Right im not a guy, but i will say this there was a reason why you broke up in the first place, think about that reason.. if its changed then why not.. but only get back togerther if its what you really really want because be care full not to get hurt..
2006-09-19 10:02:10 · answer #4 · answered by rochie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
(im a boy im on my sista's page) ok first it all depends on y u broke up with him in the first place.if he cheated on u or done u wrong then dont even think about it,but if ya'll broke up because ya'll were young,then think about it.if u feel his gestures r confusing then ask him what does he really want and if he wants to be with you then maybe u can try it but if he says no or "i dont no" then just let it go and move on. or if u have second thoughts then dont do it.
2006-09-19 10:11:52 · answer #5 · answered by ZANITA T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want your ex-bf back, tell him! Why hide your feelings from someone you once "opened up" to? Is it your pride? How silly! You have nothing to be proud of and every reason to express your humility. And even if he doesn't take you back, you'll know you came clean with him and you can move on.
2006-09-19 10:01:40 · answer #6 · answered by lidlolady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"the devil you know"
It's a saying. Basically, you know this guy's good and bad points, so you would rather go back to familiar territory than chance it with someone new.
We all do it.
Just make sure you don't fall in the same trap that made you break up in the first place.
2006-09-19 10:00:56 · answer #7 · answered by kagetatewaki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its a confusing q to ask coz your in no way going to get all adult males to agree. Like a stylish that i will imagine is warm my friends will imagine is grotesque. Illd say really of irritating about seems adult males will be attracted to self belief and personality. like you mite come across a smoking warm female and adult males will be attracted to her even with the indisputable fact that the on the spot they discover out shes a shallow ***** they're going to move on
2016-11-28 02:28:31 · answer #8 · answered by crooker 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Assume that men are dumb and clueless, and you will begin to see the error in your logic.
You are assuming that your ex-boyfriend is as smart and complex as you are - he isn't.
Men don't understand hints and subtlety. They understand brute force.
So.
My advice is to ask him what's up and if there is anything there - if you don't you will never know.
General advice to women - we don't get hints! We are STOOPID!
FP
2006-09-19 10:00:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try 2 find out why both of u broke and back together ?
2006-09-19 10:02:36 · answer #10 · answered by jugnu 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i say you take him back. i think he really likes you and you like him but don't understand the feeling.
2006-09-19 10:01:23 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋