Family & Relationships - 19 September 2006

I know my ex is very unhappy. He dumped me and is pursuing a girl. We both know its wrong on many levels (ages of the two, different interests etc)

He is meant to be here with me, but he chose her. I can see he is losing a lot of weight and sleep. It is taking a toll on him and it has been a week since we split. Do I say something? We started talking again... He jokes around with me like old times and we are really close. Part of me thinks he wants me back but doesnt know how to go about it. Should I mention something?

To be brutally honest... He had a 'mustang' and he traded in for a 'beat up mini van...' this girl seriously... she doesnt even compare.

I helped him through so much stuff in our time together and he gave it all for some flavour of the month he just met.

So, should I proceed with caution, and act like nothing happened? Or show that I am upset and talk to him about it?

2006-09-19 10:44:31 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i'm going to a party on saturday and after i'm sleeping round a boys house after i really like him but i'll be getting drunk at the party and don't want to come onto him acting like an idiot how can seduce him but without being stupid?

2006-09-19 10:44:01 · 22 answers · asked by xxx-babe-xxx 1 in Singles & Dating

I guess maybe that second part should have been its own question.

2006-09-19 10:43:04 · 12 answers · asked by madsalad1976 3 in Marriage & Divorce

things in my life are really really hard right now and i am looking for a man to comfort me. my hubby is leaving me and i just want to feel wanted.

2006-09-19 10:43:03 · 10 answers · asked by Andrea G 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have found porn material in his truck,hidding somewhere and I feel unloved and unappreciated and I am not bad looking I don' know whay he does that. I feel very bed , what should I do, I want to live him and value myself since it is not the firs time I found stuff that he is hidding, and we are o.k in the sex, since we have three kids. what should I do?

2006-09-19 10:43:02 · 28 answers · asked by searchingforlight 1 in Marriage & Divorce

what do you look for in a girl?

2006-09-19 10:42:41 · 6 answers · asked by Gothic Me 1 in Singles & Dating

I hang out with my mom all the time. Quite honestly, I would rather hang out with her than any of my friends because we always have so much fun. All of my friends love her, too. On a Friday night I find myseklf wanting to be with my mom more than anyone. What do you think?

2006-09-19 10:42:41 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2006-09-19 10:42:33 · 14 answers · asked by chunkybug2005 1 in Family

2006-09-19 10:41:53 · 21 answers · asked by ishojah 2 in Singles & Dating

Ok this is like 3 questions

I like this boy, he is a close friend of mine and I want to know if he likes me, but I'm too nervous to ask him because we have been friends forever and I don't want to ruin it. I've been asking my friend to ask him questions like, What would you say if ******* asked you out? but I think she is getting tired of asking because all he says is I don't know. What should I do?

My birthday is coming up and he told my friend that he might get me a birthday gift. Does that show signs of him liking me?

How can I get him to like me or admit to liking me?

PLEASE HELP ME!!!!

2006-09-19 10:41:52 · 6 answers · asked by linsey 1 in Singles & Dating

me and my husband just had our first baby and my husband really wanted a baby and now he is really depressed he even thought and considered leaving me and we were always really happy before the baby came and now he doesnt do anything with the baby he plays with him for like 10 min and then gives him back the baby is 6 months old and the longest he has kept him is like 30 min maybe. he doesnt have any attatchment to the baby and now all he wants to do is party and of course I dont do any of that not that because I cant ever get him to watch the baby for me he is out. and he said he works all of the time but I work and he should want to spend time with the baby I dont know what to do.

2006-09-19 10:41:40 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend and I recently broke up... actually, he broke up with me on my voicemail. The message said that it was hard for him, and he still loves me, but that I deserved better, and he said he was a jerk, but he cheated on me. He won't talk to me about it (I think it may be because he's scared of my reaction) and I can't go see him because he goes to a boarding school (right down the road) but there are only certain times I can go, and I don't know when they are. He told his best friend that I was too clingy, but that we never get to see each other (once a weekend usually, but we hadn't seen each other all summer). He also said that he MIGHT want to get back with me. Point being, I can't stop thinking about him. I love him with all of my heart, and he knew what he did was wrong, and he knew that he was stupid to do it, and he still loves me. Is it so wrong of me (like all of my friends say) to want to go back out with him? (I also think he might've been scared of commitment.)

2006-09-19 10:41:14 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

she took my hat at the end of school and put it on me like a "gangsta"! i don't know if she likes me. she doesn't stare or flirt with me. what should i do?

2006-09-19 10:41:02 · 4 answers · asked by Rollin' VIp 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-19 10:40:51 · 2 answers · asked by victoria_slgd 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My oldest daughter has been seeing a bloke for about a year, sometimes they get on sometimes they do not, she tells me he beats her and he is seeing someone else. She is always crying and she even askes him to take her back. It makes me feel sick when she does this. I am really fed up with it all. I hate the way he treats her. I wish she would have more pride and not bover with him. She even told me when she gets paid he wants to be around her but when he has money she does not see him. I have told her time and time again to finish with him. but she will not listen. She keeps calling him. She is makeing a total fool of herself.

2006-09-19 10:39:45 · 8 answers · asked by guysmithdenise 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm 12 turning 13 in November. My name is Jess. I am a tomboy, and in a lot of advanced classes because I get good grades. My dad mainly, but my step mom and mom too, keep trying to get me to go over to my friends houses. But i don't want to. I moved to this place im at now after 4th grade and i am now in 7th grade. I left my best friends, and now i don't feel that i can make new ones. I am shy but my parents don't think that. I'd rather spend time with family than my friends now. I still miss my old friends. I've been here about 3 years now. All the girls are girly and like to tan and being a redhead i just burn. I haven't made a connection with any one here but im trying. My parents still push me, but i feel like i stand out. Being a tomboy, redhead, and smart does that to me. What should I do? Post an answer please if you have any comments, or anything to say, or a answer. Thank You

2006-09-19 10:39:40 · 11 answers · asked by whitewolves111 2 in Friends

in your opinion ..i know what the dictionary says ...thanks

2006-09-19 10:39:19 · 13 answers · asked by ? 4 in Friends

My mom is so annoying i just got home and she has almost screwed the computer up and now i'm supposed to fix it and i going to after this but she keeps on and on and my step-dad anytime he thinks i need to do something hw will find something then sometimes gripes about it... what should i do?? i have already said that the day i graudate i'm moving out and they are totally for it but other than that we have a good relationship they buy me stuff and feed me but still they get on my nerves!! HELP!!

2006-09-19 10:39:17 · 7 answers · asked by ~Manda_Panda~ 2 in Family

2006-09-19 10:39:11 · 7 answers · asked by luckyko86 2 in Friends

2006-09-19 10:39:02 · 13 answers · asked by *JC* 3 in Singles & Dating

Yesterday I called my bf and he was very mad, not at me but at the traffic and the fact that he was very very late for work and that at his company for every 5 mn late, you stay 1 extra hour (yes ! that sucks!)

Well the problem is he stareted cursing and saying very vulgar and gross things(Not cursing at me but about the traffic, his life etc..)

(I dunno about other cultures but in my country it's very very unnacceptable to say that to the face of a girl or a woman)

I got upset and asked him quietly when he calmed down "please don't talk like this when I am around, this is not a manner to talk to ur gf) he said "ok maybe I did smthng wrong" but I insisted politely that he never talks like this in my presence,he got madder and asked to finish the call by saying"all right all right bye now bye talk to u later". And he didn't call back...

WHOS WRONG HERE? WHY GUYS NEVER APOLOGIZE???

Ps:
I am on a long distance relationship

2006-09-19 10:38:43 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

me and a friend of mine had an argument and i wanted to know wut everyone else thought. Does a boyfriend in a relationship have a right to be upset if his girlfriend (if they have been going out for 2 years) if she told him that she "wanted to make out" with a certain male celebrity?

2006-09-19 10:38:43 · 7 answers · asked by Paul S 2 in Singles & Dating

It seems like there are a lot of questions here are very similar. Do you really have to ask what to do if you like a guy and you want him to ask you out? Why not look at the previous 500 answers to that question?

2006-09-19 10:38:37 · 6 answers · asked by Take it from Toby 7 in Singles & Dating

Ok. my gf is a cheerleader and is very flexible. i need some suggestions to take advantage of this ability of hers. we are both freaks, so any suggestion is appreciated.

2006-09-19 10:38:33 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-19 10:38:32 · 4 answers · asked by precious_vanessa_04 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm in middle school
okey here is the best thing about him. HE'S A MODEL!!!!!!!!!
Not to mention he's a total hotty!!!!!!!!!!!
He's going to be in a comercal!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2006-09-19 10:37:12 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

why do guys, when they really like the girl, sometimes don't ask her out, but sometimes they ask out girls they don't like. is it because they get nervous? what is it? i don't understand!!

2006-09-19 10:37:00 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was at work, and this guy and I were talking and under the table he grabs my knee and squeezes it and then did the same thing, but higher, like on my thigh. Why does guys do that? What is that supposed to imply?

2006-09-19 10:36:57 · 43 answers · asked by thats_hot_097 2 in Singles & Dating

Its been on my leg for about 3 months it looks like a bruisy color, like purple r sumthn anditg used to be bigger but I pick at it and puss comes out (REAL GROSSSSS) and soometimes it bleeds. now its just there (its less ofa bump now) andits likea really dark purple. WHAT IS THIS???

2006-09-19 10:36:56 · 9 answers · asked by hollisterGIRLchills_at_the BEACH 2 in Friends

Theres a guy that I like but I dont know if he likes me too....sometimes he acts like he cares and sometimes not...I'm being paranoid now...i really like him and theres a text message that he sent me that tell's "I cant sleep...coz when I sleep ur in my dreams and when I dont I see you everywhere..but I dont like what i feel...im confused.." thats the message he sent...so guys whats the meaning of this??I dont want to misinterpret it...but im also confused....hope you could give an answer to this....tanx

2006-09-19 10:36:37 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating