2006-09-19 10:41:53 · 21 answers · asked by ishojah 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Stop hoping now and find someone else.
2006-09-19 10:44:13 · answer #1 · answered by Cary Grant 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're just in a ring around relationship that's going no where. It's ok to always love, but that doesn't mean you'll always be IN LOVE. He's not worth your feelings of stress and hard-ache all the time. By you always going back, he knows he can always do you wrong. Stand up for yourself, don't let guys walk all over you, show them you're self confident. It's time for you to move on and stop hoping. Put your energy into having fun with friends and meeting new guys. I was with someone for 4 yrs through High School. It's hard, but you just have to let go - don't call him & don't go to him for a "booty call". Tell him how it is, you're not going to be his doormat he can just wipe mud on over & over, he either treats you with respect or you'll find someone who will - mean it & do it.
2006-09-19 10:54:51 · answer #2 · answered by tanner 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-17 07:13:37 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TIME - its the best healer.
With time u'll forget him.
N 1 thing I really wanna say:- Forgive him to Forget him - or u would never ever be able to move ahead with life.
Make another Boy Fren - It wud divert ur mind n wud make u feel better.
Byeeeeeeeeeeeee.
2006-09-19 10:54:05 · answer #4 · answered by simi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you love someone because your love is true.
you can stop hoping by not thinking about it too much. I gave up my hopes when I was expecting a phone call on Valentine's Day and I didn't get the call. I still love him but I don't hope for anything.
2006-09-19 18:51:47 · answer #5 · answered by haseen_gudiya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You say you love him, and he breaks your heart?
I hate to tell you this, but you break your own heart by letting him do it, whne you know he is no good and he will not change.
Hope for yourself, honey
Love yourself, too!
Love yourself enough to DROP THIS ZERO AND FIND YOURSELF A HERO, understand?
You are a queen, you see? You deserve a man who lifts up your head, and makes you smile, not a man who makes you drop your head and makes you cry.
Love for him does not give him the right to emotionally abuse you; love for YOURSELF gives YOU the right to demand that YOU are treated the way YOU and I know you deserve, dear.
You stop hoping by understanding him for the cretin he is, dear. Once you know he is scum, then it is so easy for you to dump him once and for all.
You can love him, but the point is, you have to love YOU, and not allow this joker to mistreat you!
2006-09-19 10:50:46 · answer #6 · answered by marquella_la_nice 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find that one thing that really pi.s.s.s you off and hang on to it with your life. Get mad! Love is such a strong emotion that it takes another equally strong emotion to cancel it out. ( I stayed mad at my ex for 3 years.) One day you won't be angry at them anymore and then you'll know you're over them. Every time you think of him attach a bad memory to him.
2006-09-19 10:50:04 · answer #7 · answered by Karen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's broken your heart he'll likely do it again. Surround yourself with friends and leave him alone. Make yourself happy and stop chasing someone that is going to hurt you again and again if you let him. Good Luck!
2006-09-19 10:46:07 · answer #8 · answered by noneofyourbizwax 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm...if youre not ready for a new relationship, just allow some time to heal.
Do things that make you feel good and get back to yourself again. It just takes time sweetie.
2006-09-19 10:56:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you will be done whenyour belly is full of all the bull**** he is usuing you to fall back on when his other ventures dont pan out.i knowits hard to move on but get yourself together and start giving less and less attention,untill you finally find other ways to occupy your time, and move on---good luck always----nonners
2006-09-19 10:50:42 · answer #10 · answered by nonners1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
FInd something else to do. In your case, english studies and spelling lessons would be a great diversion.
2006-09-19 10:45:02 · answer #11 · answered by Jimfix 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋