My mom is so annoying i just got home and she has almost screwed the computer up and now i'm supposed to fix it and i going to after this but she keeps on and on and my step-dad anytime he thinks i need to do something hw will find something then sometimes gripes about it... what should i do?? i have already said that the day i graudate i'm moving out and they are totally for it but other than that we have a good relationship they buy me stuff and feed me but still they get on my nerves!! HELP!!
2006-09-19 10:39:17 · 7 answers · asked by ~Manda_Panda~ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
KIDS...can't live with them can't live without them...?
Just makes me want to go hummmm
2006-09-19 10:41:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey let me tell you you probably get on their nerves a lot more than they are on yours. They have to buy food and clothes and a ton of other things for your ungrateful little butt, They put up with you and worry about yo and spend a fortune that they could have spent on themselves to make sure you have a decent life. They are probably hoping you move out just as hard as you are because then they will suddenly be a lot richer what with not having to pay for you and your wellbeing anymore And you, you are gonna be a lot poorer because I bet you have no idea how very much it costs just to have a roof over your head and food enough to keep from starving. You go ahead and move out and give your poor parents the break they deserve from your ungreatful bratty whining. You don't know when you got it good but you move out after High School and you will find out by comparison. You should be kissing your mother's butt that she even bothered to have you you ingrate. Wake up and smell the flowers and realize how very blessed you are to even have parents that care enough to get on your nerves. You'll be sorry when they pass away
2006-09-19 17:45:52 · answer #2 · answered by CindyLu 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first thing you need to do is figure out that the world does NOT revolve around you...learn it now because it never will and when you leave your parents home that will be an even bigger problem. At least now you live somewhere that people love you, once you go out the door you now live in a world where a majority of the people around you couldn't care less. Secondly, would you like to even venture a guess as to the number of things your mom has cleaned up after you...the number of things you screwed up that your mother made right again? Trust me, you can't even begin to wrap your brain around a number like that...within about 2 hours of becoming a parent yourself you will begin to get a clue and everyday thereafter will gain a much clearer respect for your mother. Mostly though you are the kid and they are the parent...deal with it.....I got news for you though, your life will NEVER again be as easy as it is right now, don't be too stupid and selfish not to appreciate it. There is so much stuff going on in day to day life that you don't even have a clue exists! Someday you will laugh at yourself over how foolish you were to think you had it hard back then, on that day call your mother, apologize for being such an unappreciative brat and not realizing how easy she made your life. Every kid does it, its just one of the pitfalls that comes with a lack of life experience and maturity. I was you once..poor me had to go to school, sit by the pool and ride my horse....boo hooo....it never occured to me that the lights wouldn't go on when I flicked the switch, that I wouldn't have a home and a bed to sleep in every night, that the furnace wouldn't kick on in the winter, that there wouldn't be food in the fridge and clothes in the closet.....yes all of that I took for granted, just like you are now. Once all those things depend on your ability to pay the bills and keep up with them the world becomes a whole different place and you would love to go back to times when someone else worried about all of that and being asked to do something for them once or twice a week will be a very, very small price to pay for such comfort and safety.
2006-09-19 17:49:16 · answer #3 · answered by dappersmom 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
parents can be nagging and annoying....trust me I am one....and im trying to think if my daughter felt like this what I would do...if you are complaining about the amount of stuff they ask you to do, yoiu can ask them to craft a "laundry" list of your chores (you would have to agree on the list of course) and that way you know what chores you have and once you are done, thats it! Or you can sign up for more activities so you are home less.....Good luck
2006-09-19 17:43:53 · answer #4 · answered by pRESUMPTIOUS 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to move out when you can They are using and abusing you. they buy you stuff and feed you, That is what parents are supposed to do for their children.
2006-09-19 17:44:19 · answer #5 · answered by StarShine G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, boo hoo. At least you have parents who put a roof over your head and food on the table. They don't abuse you and they aren't drunks or drug addicts. You have no idea how well off you are.
2006-09-19 17:42:14 · answer #6 · answered by notyou311 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try being grateful that you have them there to stress you, I lost my mom and I'd give anything to have her back with me.
2006-09-19 17:43:16 · answer #7 · answered by kitkat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋