Family & Relationships - 18 September 2006

I'm on match.com, and I just signed up so I can send/recieve e-mails. I now get women who are on the opposite side of the country e-mailing me. Let me assure you, I don't think this is because my profile is so great. But, I do specify that I'm not interested in anyone more than 20 miles away from me.
Is it spam?
Maybe they're just looking for someone to chat with safely, for whom they've read about and can see a picture of?
I don't know, what do you think?

2006-09-18 12:40:47 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We have so much in common if you know her the name isCami Jeralds she is so sweet on the eyes and she likes the same books music and movies help me please I love her something feirce!

2006-09-18 12:40:11 · 9 answers · asked by shroombody 1 in Singles & Dating

diegos alcahuete mas grande

2006-09-18 12:40:09 · 10 answers · asked by chris 1 in Singles & Dating

because you like the guy

2006-09-18 12:39:32 · 19 answers · asked by femme_cherub 1 in Singles & Dating

I know a woman in my area who has 6 children under the age of 7! Neither she or her partner work, or have ever worked! They have recently had a brand new back and front door 6 apartement house build for them by the local Housing .......what do you think? I have worked all my life and now my two children live is a crap house, crap area, nowhere to play.....I am angry!

2006-09-18 12:39:21 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2006-09-18 12:39:08 · 1 answers · asked by Tall Guy 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

This is the second time im asking this question. Theres this girl in my p.e class that i like and i want to talk to her and everyone told me to man up and talk to her. But what if that looks kinda suspicious. What if she thinks that i like her and she tries to ignore me or somethin bcoz i have been acting kinda weird in my class, always staring at her and stuff. Plz help. Mitch if youre there plz help. everyone plz help me.

2006-09-18 12:38:55 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-18 12:38:05 · 14 answers · asked by Mary Rose 2 in Singles & Dating

It just escaped as i was about to give it a mohecian, has any one seen it... Answers to the name of arrold.

2006-09-18 12:37:29 · 30 answers · asked by Jabba_da_hut_07 4 in Singles & Dating

My buyfriend and i have been together for two months only.But we were best friend for one year we started going out.He was very caring when we started dating.but for last couple of days ,When i call him,his phone goes straight on voicemail and smtimes he doesnt answer for 2-3 hours.today he hangup the phone on me without even saying i love you.Which he never does.Wat do u guys think is going on?How should i confront him?He was very loving before,he has changed alot.Today he didnt pick up the phone for # hours and later he said he has a bad head ache.Help me.

2006-09-18 12:36:18 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-18 12:35:41 · 15 answers · asked by twitch 2 in Singles & Dating

I am stupid with this, please help me out. I know a girl, danced with her, I think she likes me--talked---played 10 fingers...knew her for weekend and last weekend.

Now, I think the next stage is I invite her to eat at a place on campus (I am in college), and then what...

please fill in the blanks and help me out.

2006-09-18 12:34:42 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

me and my ex split 8 weeks ago, and he just cant stop lying, i still care about him and dont want him to get hurt or anyone else by his lying, i also want him to repsect girls a bit more, ive just found out that hes even lying and cheating on the girl he cheated on me with, how can i stop him from lying i still care about him, and dont want him to ruin his or another girls life. what can i do?

p.s i dont want ne comment about our relationship, i just wanna know how i can help him

2006-09-18 12:34:21 · 35 answers · asked by vicky s 3 in Friends

2006-09-18 12:33:56 · 18 answers · asked by pamela j 1 in Singles & Dating

This guy and I were really hitting it off. In fact, I even considered him my BEST guy friend. There was a little more interest, but we had agreed on just being friends. He went out of town for a while, and now he won't take my calls, he won't return my e-mails, or contact me in any way. Last time we did talk, everything seemed fine, so I don't know exactly what happened. So, my question is, should I just stop trying to contact him, or what? I feel kinda betrayed by him, but I thought we were closer than this.

2006-09-18 12:32:46 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My boyfriend of 2 years use to always be with his friends more then me and also want to play poker online then spend any time with me. I have said somethings to him and he got mad and broke it off with me.. The next day we decited to try to work it out.. I told him that I would like a little more of his time.. not all of his time but just a little more. He came up and watched movies on Friday night just like any other Friday night.. Stayed here Sat night and we went to a tail gate party (he asked if I wanted to go) and he held my hand and was really nice to me. I went to his house 2 days last week to play cards with his mom, and his one friend (thats a male). and we haven't argued at all since we have been back together. I haven't complained about anything. I think it's working out this time.. any suggestions on what eles we can do.. I am 24 and he's 27.

2006-09-18 12:31:15 · 12 answers · asked by Jen 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

but now u guyz are in afight and u dont know what to do.

2006-09-18 12:31:11 · 14 answers · asked by Kaitylyn 1 in Friends

i'd like to be remembered as 'the only girl i couldn't have'

2006-09-18 12:30:36 · 26 answers · asked by *JC* 3 in Singles & Dating

This girl and me were really close, we would stay up till 12 in the mornin talkin sometime, now that mite not be alot, but it is for her, she is homeschooled, I go to public school. Well I asked her to the movies, and she said Idk maybe , and REALLy backed off, she seemed nervous around me, I thought she just didnt wanna hurt my feelings, but she told her friends, she just wants to see if I can stick with her. Well we got further and further apart, until I couldnt stand it anymore and I emailed her, spilled my guts, and asked her to be brutally honest on how she fealt about me, heres what she said

well first of all, I don't hate you. second, I haven't been avoiding you either becuase its not been just swimming that I've been busy with its been life.I also haven't been beating around the bush because you never asked me if I did or not. But I haven't ever thought of being more than friends with you because we've always been good friends and I think thats how things should stay.I just don't want to ruin a friendship.hope you've had a good day, and i will talk to you later

Now, When I read that two things come to mind. One, that she is just trying to be nice. But on the other hand, she is just scared, because she has never had a bf b4, and weve been friends since age 7.

But now she seems more comfortable around me, like now she talks more, and seems more comfortable, but then she'll seem like she wants me, I can tell by the way she looks, and the way she acts, she just seems really sad, and down,

Oh yeah, and she told her mom , that she is just really really scared, and that she does like me, but she told her friends she just dont want to hurt my feelings, now her and her mom are really close, but so are her and her friends, Do you think she likes me, or is just letting me down easy?

And I am respecting her wishes, I emailed her and told her that I respect her decision, and we havent talked about it since.

But I really really do care for her, I wake up and she's the first thing I think about, I go to sleep and Fall asleep thinking about her. I mean I know I'm only 15, but I really do love her, and would do anything in this world to be with her. I've tried moving on, I've been trying to do that, but I just can't. Even though I am am guy, yes I have cried numerous time for her, and about her. I mean, I'm not ugly, I'm fit, and I'm not a big geek or anything, so what gives? I really do love her, what should I do?

Additional Details

26 minutes ago
And, yes, her mom likes me, she told me that she is encouraging her daughter to date me, she also said that it was really hard for her daughter to sent that email, but in the mean time, she is really flirty with this other guy.

Additional Details

3 hours ago
But it's weird, like sometimes she'll seem sad, cuz she wants to be with me, then shell go and be REALLy happy and flirty with this other guy, then shell come up and talk to me, like she misses me, and then shell go flirt with him, I'm just SO CONFUSED, please help.

3 hours ago
but i mean, the way she is around him, is the way she used to be around me, and its weird, cuz we dont talk nearly nearly as much as we used to, and its almost like shes sad, or missin that or sumthin, but then all over this other guy

2006-09-18 12:30:31 · 17 answers · asked by how many 1 in Singles & Dating

and i don't wanna make myself feel like a stupid

2006-09-18 12:30:26 · 4 answers · asked by ♥blah♥ 3 in Friends

I was with the Ex for 11 months. We broke up, and it's been 1 month, 2 weeks. I party, party, hang out with friends, work, and party some more. I mean, i had sex with a cupple of women, but the thing is, they're not my ex. It just doesnt feel right. She broke up with me, and i'm 100percent sure that she doesnt have any feelings for me. I'm 19, and it's just been hard. I set life goals, new car. I even got a promotion at work, (Tech Manager), but my life still doesnt feel complete. About 2 week's ago I try'd talking with her about my feelings but I can tell she just doesnt feel the same anymore, "The Love is Gone on her part".

Now, i just need to let her go. I went to church, now a Full-Time Christian, and sure it helps. I get happy, but when it's over (church), i think about her. During sex, I think about her. Looking at other girls.. I think about her. Dating other women, I think of her.

We're not even friends anymore.Mistake that was made, was missing her, Obsessing over her.help

2006-09-18 12:30:20 · 8 answers · asked by Luis G 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-18 12:30:18 · 7 answers · asked by PhotoBear2 1 in Friends

it's my apartment and my brother lives with me.

he has a girlfriend.

she does NOTHING to contribute to the household, just comes over to "screw" my brother.

then, she just sits around and either watches TV or goes into MY room to get on the internet.

and, when i say that she needs to get out of my room, she just stares back at me with this disgusted face.

I WANT HER OUT OF MY PLACE!

2006-09-18 12:30:15 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2006-09-18 12:29:03 · 28 answers · asked by ranger 1 in Weddings

ONLY A FRIEND
thought you were mine?
you were my valentine.
but you acted a fool!
and used me like a tool!
now your outta my life,
and im kinda sad.
cause you said the wrong thing,
and made me real mad !
i wanna go back !
and try starting again,
but how can i?
when your now only a friend.

2006-09-18 12:28:44 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-09-18 12:27:12 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I thought all women want a tall,dark, and handsome man. Did I break this stereotype?

2006-09-18 12:25:37 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

just wondering because a friend of mine caught his wife in the act.

2006-09-18 12:25:35 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I cant belive it... Ok there is this guy that likes me...I made up lie and told it to him ( I told him i was going out with this other guy) and now i think instead of makeing him jelous i think it made him uninterested!!!! I think i have really messed up now... Is it to late or am i going to be ok? Help me!

2006-09-18 12:23:41 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I prayed together for the first time yesterday. I am spiritual, not part of a religion and he is a buddhist. We just said a prayer together as things have been going pretty bad. Today, all kinds of things went really well and we felt so good after doing that. At first it felt a little funny... but it was really beautiful. Does anyone else do this? Even if you aren't very religious?

2006-09-18 12:23:04 · 19 answers · asked by Use my Yahoo! Avatar 2 in Marriage & Divorce