My buyfriend and i have been together for two months only.But we were best friend for one year we started going out.He was very caring when we started dating.but for last couple of days ,When i call him,his phone goes straight on voicemail and smtimes he doesnt answer for 2-3 hours.today he hangup the phone on me without even saying i love you.Which he never does.Wat do u guys think is going on?How should i confront him?He was very loving before,he has changed alot.Today he didnt pick up the phone for # hours and later he said he has a bad head ache.Help me.
2006-09-18 12:36:18 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He probably has a bad headache. Why don't you think about being loving to him for a while, since he has already proven that he is loving to you?
Don't call him for a day or two, as it makes a headache worse to have to talk on the phone. When you see him, be very kind and ask him about his headache.
He still cares about you, things are just a little rough for him right now.
2006-09-18 12:41:14 · answer #1 · answered by nora22000 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first off I dont know what the age group is for you both but it sounds like your both pretty young. I would not lose sleep over the way he is acting. I would let him have some space and stop calling him all together. Of course I would call him and let him know your there for him if/when he is ready to talk. You must remember men in general are more immature than women when the subject is relationships. If you show him how much you are more mature than him and how stable you are mentally he will more than likely start chasing after you. then once you are back to being lovey dovey start to talk to him about communicating with one another openly. You will be able to tell pretty quickly if he is just playing you or if he indeed wants to be with you. If all else fails then use your womans intuition, I am a man but know enough that a womans intuition almost never lies.
2006-09-18 12:44:28 · answer #2 · answered by brazilman37 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't want to crush you, but you need the truth. He's avoiding you for some reason, possibly because he feels guilty about something he's done that he knows could hurt you. I mean, that's a sudden and big change, and it's not such a good change. Confront him and talk to him and instead of telling complete strangers this, tell him this. It would help a hell of alot more than the advice we're giving.
2006-09-18 12:40:31 · answer #3 · answered by Answer Givererer. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is probably not interested in a relationship anymore. It sounds like he was happier when you 2 were just best friends. If he is a good friend you should be able to talk to him about how you feel and what you have noticed about him lately. Tell him that you don't want a fake relationship and for him to be truly honest with you.
2006-09-18 12:41:42 · answer #4 · answered by dabster 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds something's going on in his head and he's not happy about it. i think you should sit down and have a serious talk with him, get to know whats going on. a major part of a good relationship is communication. dont be confrontational, just talk and try to see why he's been acting this way lately, and tell him how it makes you feel. if he cares enough about you he would sit down and work things out with you. if he doesn't atleast give you that, then i think its time to move on. good luck!
2006-09-18 12:40:49 · answer #5 · answered by T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let the man breathe. Just because he doesnt answer your calls is nothing. Dont let your mind wander, THat's going to be mistake number one. If you keep it up, you'll become insecure. You sound young, and Insecure. Grow up!.
Now, talk to him about your feelings. Dont be dick-whipped. Maby he's getting tierd of you, im a male, and it's happend, just if he's changed look elsewhere. If you dont like him, dont waste your time!
2006-09-18 12:40:34 · answer #6 · answered by Luis G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you are too clingy. Men HATE that. Stop it. If he is avoiding you then let him go and find a new toy to play with. Two months time together is not a serious relationship. Grow up child.
2006-09-18 12:39:52 · answer #7 · answered by CandyCain 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well a lot of the guys don't really like to talk on the phone. mabey right now he just needs confort ot hes having a problem try asking him if theres anythimg wrong
good luck hope i helped
2006-09-18 12:39:50 · answer #8 · answered by HARLEYY 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well just ask to talk to him. If that doesnt work maybe he needs time for himself. Sotimes space can d wonders. Just ask him what is up. Just keep your head up. Guys get scared and moody just liek everyone else. So smile and wait it out.
2006-09-18 12:41:05 · answer #9 · answered by Need Much Help 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just wait. Don't do anything. You don't know what's going on in his life. Give it more time. for now wait and watch. Maybe something is happening in his life and he can't tell you (other than dating another girl). Just be patient.
2006-09-18 12:43:03 · answer #10 · answered by bitter s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋