This is the second time im asking this question. Theres this girl in my p.e class that i like and i want to talk to her and everyone told me to man up and talk to her. But what if that looks kinda suspicious. What if she thinks that i like her and she tries to ignore me or somethin bcoz i have been acting kinda weird in my class, always staring at her and stuff. Plz help. Mitch if youre there plz help. everyone plz help me.
2006-09-18 12:38:55 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Talk to her, what do you have to lose? Talk about something in class, casually, like, "man volleyball sucks" or whatever you're doing at the moment. Just talk to her, she's a girl, she won't bite I promise, the worst thing that will happen is she won't return the feelings. But you'll never know if you don't try.
2006-09-18 12:41:05 · answer #1 · answered by Angeleyes 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Suspicious??? Are the two of you hiding a body in the football field?? Ask her, if she says no then it is a no, it's not like she is the ONLY girl in the world. You two can still be friends anyway and maybe SHE is too shy to talk to you too and just WISHES you would do it already. Be a man!! You got your Big Boy Pube Hair for a reason right???
2006-09-18 12:44:22 · answer #2 · answered by CandyCain 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing to do is to just talk to her. Seriously for 2 reasons. Women like guys who have backbone, and the second reason is simply because you'll never know unless you finally talk to her.
Now then, the best approach is to find out what you both have in common. Music, movies, sports, games...whatever. Once you know...strike up a conversation. Basically, focus on the friendship and build off that. Those relationships last longer. Trust me. ; )
Hope this helps
2006-09-18 12:43:08 · answer #3 · answered by Chistiaŋ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm confused.
First you said:
"Theres this girl in my p.e class that i like and i want to talk to her ..."
Then you said
"What if she thinks that i like her .."
Contradiction like that only comes from a lack of confidence. Lack of confidence is a big turn-off to girls.
"...that looks kinda suspicious..."
c'mon, dude. Girls and Guys are supposed to get together, THAT'S What We DO!!! There's nothing wrong with it. There's nothing weird about it. She's probably really cool if you like her this much, and you better get OFF the bench and go talk to her or somebody else is going to! She's aware you're staring at her. Next time she catches you, smile at her. Just be happy and cool when you go talk to her.
2006-09-18 12:47:29 · answer #4 · answered by Jerry 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Little Dude, why would she blow you off? Don't you want her to know that you like her? Don't you think she might have figured it out already because of the way you have been acting? Talk to her and be done with it...the worst that can happen is you both get a good chuckle out of it...
2006-09-18 12:42:27 · answer #5 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be natural and talk to her like your talking to "Mitch". Don't worry, if you just say hi and talk to her naturally, she won't suspect a thing. You'll never find out if you don't actually do it. The only thing you will lose when you talk to her is you nervous-ness, and what you will lose if you don't talk to her is the girl herself.
But i got to warn you, her friends will suspect something and tell her, but she'll be like, "yeah right he doesn't like me" I would know, i am part of that species:D
2006-09-18 12:47:09 · answer #6 · answered by Answer Givererer. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie with a name like Gangsta and you have to ask! You are chick bait! Yes, be THE MAN and just go talk to her! What cha got to lose? At the least you will have another friend!!! And if you don`t doubt yourself, others usually don`t either!
Just remember girls like you to take notice of thier appearance and espically how they smell!
Good luck playa..
2006-09-18 12:45:09 · answer #7 · answered by Susan Beck 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u like her then go 4 it, u may take too long and some one else might beat u to the punch. Its better 2 regret the things u've done then regret the things u haven't.
2006-09-18 12:43:23 · answer #8 · answered by a7xrios 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just think to yourself you will have to face alot more serious things in life and this little problem should NOT stand in the way of what you want to do. Just ask her, dont make a big thing out of nothing.
2006-09-18 12:41:54 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just liking her from afar will get you nowhere but Creepyville go talk to her before she uses your affection against you.Even if it doesn't happen your a playa for trying and it'll be good for you confidence win or lose.
2006-09-18 12:42:16 · answer #10 · answered by BOISE_DD 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋