2006-09-18 12:33:56 · 18 answers · asked by pamela j 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I like this question, because it doesn't seem derogatory. Most black women are beating all black men in the head for the actions of one or a few...um, before I go any further let me put my helmet on.
You asked a general question directed towards black men, I can only offer one lonely man's heartfelt opinion. It seems you want to make some connection with black men, but have some fears or apprehensions. First you should list all reasons why you feel black men offend you, then list all reasons if there are why black men intrigue you.
It all boils down to YOU and what makes you connect with other blacks and what doesn't. GOOD LUCK!
2006-09-20 05:12:13 · answer #1 · answered by DB 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess it's just normal to prefer men from other race over your own. It's just yesterday when I read in a magazine an article of an interview of 3 girls regarding their relationships with foreigner guys. As a general conclusion, some prefer having relationships with men not from their own because those foreigners satisfy most of their need which the men from their own race coudn't give. But sometimes, due to racial differences, those three women often seeks the qualities that their own can provide, like being tradional in love; the connectedness; etc., from the custom they were brought up. But it's actually depends on your needs emotionally, and physically. Also depends on your happiness =)
2006-09-18 13:02:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being tall should help you see over the differences of real men and look to the heart of the matter, go with what best suits you. Just kidding about the tall part, look for what counts.
2006-09-18 12:43:48 · answer #3 · answered by Charlie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't try to date other races because you can't comunicate with black men.now there are plenty of men out there just consitrate on other things in life and worry about getting with a black,white,hispanic,or any type of man later,and when the time comes to the point when you are dating a black man then you may worry about that other mess.
2006-09-18 12:39:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i have an easy time with blk men and im white. So you can have all the white men for me. I always attract blk men or hispanic for some reason. Butewither way it doenst matter about someones race.Go for who you want and be happy with your decision.
2006-09-18 12:41:07 · answer #5 · answered by michelle 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im a white male and i love black women, youll find someone, even if it is of another race.
2006-09-18 12:39:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
black men are the only race that is prejiduce to their own race. why do you see black men with white, hispanic and so on. get yourself a non-black man. find someone who loves you for you not your color
2006-09-18 12:37:04 · answer #7 · answered by zermenoj 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Do not look at the color of the skin. Look past the race and get to know the man. If you get past the skin color, maybe you wont have to worry about your skin color or theirs.
2006-09-18 12:37:44 · answer #8 · answered by Ness 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that doesnt matter, thats wonderful.
Like the saying You Find love in different places but thats good not bad lol.
2006-09-18 12:39:32 · answer #9 · answered by monkeyshopper 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be with people you are at ease around, If you cant then you are always trying to be the person they want not the person are! ANYWAY I will get off my high horse now.... JUST BE YOU and you will be happier!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-09-18 12:41:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋