just wondering because a friend of mine caught his wife in the act.
2006-09-18 12:25:35 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I haven't caught my man in the "act", but he has been seeing some other broad behind my back. Cheating is cheating and they should be punished for it.
2006-09-18 12:28:51 · answer #1 · answered by joyall57 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yup caught wife at 3am in spare bedroom. Heard the springs of bed squeaking loud and quick. got closer to door heard her moaning and the voices of two guys. I cracked the door just a little, quietly - yup she doing both guys at once. I closed the door without them noticing(they were a bit distracted) and went to back to my bed.
I wanted to do something scream etc. But did not want son woken up.... he is mentally disabled and would not want upset by her actions.
Confronted wife a couple of hours later when she finally went back to our bed. She did not see it as that big a deal- it was "sport f'n" per her!
I am trying to work things out still because of situation with son and I do still love her even though she betrayed me.
2006-09-18 16:11:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
cheating with the Internet porn, yes, cheating with the television yes...this is adultery....it is wrong! yes it is adultery if you are married and fornication if you are single...it is a snare of Satan's
one very wonderfully imposing on our very nature...but if we are men we are to abstain from this...If we are Holy Men, and truly love our wives we will abstain from this...If we are weak and can't control ourselves....it is written that we do not deserve Heaven if we become distracted by such things that prevent us from being
what God created us to be, and hinders us from living out His Will for our lives...Yes cheating with adultery (masturbation) women....do it...men do it...it is everywhere...sex is a big distraction....Become a Christian and overcome it...take your spouse by the hand and lead them away from places that cause
problems like bars, and ice houses, and stupid Internet sites and television....Go out and get some fresh air...go run at the track...get your lives focused and healthy! Marriage is a job...and if you can save it ...do try! If your friend can't forgive his wife...and she does not change...he can divorce her...IN the New Testament Divorce is recognized as a forgiven reason for Divorce. There are other fish out there that aren't cheaters!
2006-09-18 12:59:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I did not catch her cheating but i did find out before she told me she say she will never do it again i as of yet have not cheated on her but there is a part of me that's wont's to pay her back and show her how bad it hurts but i probably never do that to her
2006-09-18 13:59:48 · answer #4 · answered by speddy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I didnt catch him having sex with her.. but one day after i had worked the night before something told me to hit the redial button on my phone (something i had never done before) and i didnt even suspect him of cheating.. he always came home directly after work, hardly ever went out with the guys, so i thought i didnt have anything to worry about, till i hit the redial.. and got a girls answering machine.. at first he tried to say my son who was barely 3 was playing with the phone and must of got a "local" number.. lol but after i wouldnt fall for that, he admitted that he was seeing a girl from work.. that they have lunch every day together, and that he didnt want to be married anymore, and so he left me and our 2 children.. just to have her cheat on him 6 months later and for them to break up lol..
2006-09-18 12:37:15 · answer #5 · answered by brwneyedgrl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Hey - Matthew P. - you said you were a born again christian & that your wife was the anti-christ? What is that all about? so, you caught her & you're stuck in the angry/betrayed/revenge mode? I'm gonna pray for you, Matthew P. - get it resolved in your own heart.
2006-09-18 12:37:46 · answer #6 · answered by Forever 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep sure did. She was boinking the upstairs neighbor while I was at work. But I guess it's like Larry the Cable Guy said," Guns don't kill people, Husbands that come home early from work do." No, I didn't kill her! But those alimony payments she had to make to me sure did!
2006-09-18 12:31:13 · answer #7 · answered by matthew p 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My wife caught me having sex with our babysitter. I was just getting ready to ejaculate when she caught us. Our babysitter got out of there right away and I was upset not only at getting caught but not being able to finish inside of the babysitters vagina. I never saw her again.
2015-04-06 17:07:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorta,, I mean he "went to the movies" with someone and ended up coming home with a huge hickie on his chest,, and I asked and he was like, well,, we didn't make it to the movie,, we were seeing other people but still married,,,
I caught my best friend , sleeping with my bf friend while both our husbands where deployed.
2006-09-18 13:53:57 · answer #9 · answered by B V 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I accidently walked in on my wife and her bf. It was embarrassing for everyone.
2006-09-18 12:38:31 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋