I cant belive it... Ok there is this guy that likes me...I made up lie and told it to him ( I told him i was going out with this other guy) and now i think instead of makeing him jelous i think it made him uninterested!!!! I think i have really messed up now... Is it to late or am i going to be ok? Help me!
2006-09-18 12:23:41 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ok you should tell him the truth that you lied. Then tell him that you like him ( if you do like him). then see if he stilll wants to go out with you.
2006-09-18 12:28:46 · answer #1 · answered by Bell 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'M SOO SORRY GIRL
but you gave him the idea that your not interested and to make matters worse you told him about another guy
he will definitely think that you have your eyes on someone else if not you would not have mentioned this guy to him
you made the wrong decision
i dont think that he will come back
i'm sorry
you did miss you chance
next time if a guy likes you
please dont bring another guy into the picture; especially if he does not exist
2006-09-18 19:52:23 · answer #2 · answered by annie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I personally think it's over. Guys have an interest, but once they find out you're taken, they become uninterested. You had it at one point, but not anymore... OR he could be "backing down" since you told him you have a boyfriend, and he just doesn't want to ruin that "thing" you have with your "boyfriend" that you don't have
2006-09-18 19:26:49 · answer #3 · answered by uhd0rableo8 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't think you messed things up. just go up to him an either admit you lied. or just lie some more and be like we broke up.... its your choice and i don't think you messed things up. cuz this happens alot if the guy finds out the girl he likes is unavailable then he will try to stop likeing her on purpose so it doesn't hurt as bad..see he may look uninterested but doesn't mean he actually isn't. lol guys are like that. lol good luck! and please just learn from this mistake and don't lie again. LOL!â¥
2006-09-18 19:29:35 · answer #4 · answered by I Luv Joel Madden!! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him the truth, say that you choked at a great opportunity to be with a nice guy by lying. Apologize, if he forgives you then he was worth coming to terms with, but if he rejects your apology, then know that you did the right thing.
2006-09-18 19:38:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your really interested then fess up. What have you got to lose? Tell him your sorry and you know it was stupid to tell him the lie and you hope he understands and will forgive you cause you really like him. Then stop lying and have fun
2006-09-18 19:29:12 · answer #6 · answered by buffybot67 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want him to be jealous, it's such an ugly emotion. Your actions equate into a mean vindicative person, is that you????? Don't lie, it doesn't help it hinders. I wouldn't trust if I found out you lied and then I wouldn't date you.
2006-09-18 19:39:22 · answer #7 · answered by crkristy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys don't get jealous. He took the hint that you're not interested. Sorry. Better luck next time. I hope you learned from this experience.
2006-09-18 19:26:35 · answer #8 · answered by Cathy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah, i think you're indeed really stupid..
This type of jealousy game only apply in the 80's.. please try a new method in making guys jealous of you.
Even thou, there are still stupid people playing with this game, it'll only make thing s worse for them, coz; he is going to do the same thing back to you, which he'll also make you jealous when there's opportunity.
As for me, if my girl will plan to make me jealous, i'll just ask her to f.u.c.k off from my life... And i'll go for other girl's who crack their brains to love and care for me (which i will also treasure it, and provide the love and care to her even more), instead of cracking their stupid brains to make me jealous.. Geee....
2006-09-18 19:30:55 · answer #9 · answered by Love69 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you liked him why did you tell him you were going out with some other guy???? I think maybe it might be too late?? sorry :(
2006-09-18 19:26:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋