2006-09-18 12:30:18 · 7 answers · asked by PhotoBear2 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
my best friend is unknowingly the cause of my depression, constantly belittleling my opinions and going after someone i had strong feelings for, and makig me feel ignored and like a third wheel, it's a feeling that hurts
2006-09-18 12:37:58 · update #1
Ending any close relationship is tough. Be honest. Don't blame the other person. Make "I" statements (ie. I've rarely felt valued). Don't give a long list of things they did wrong unless your intention is to make them feel bad. Do give them some explanation as to why it is best to terminate the friendship.
Also, talk about some of the good things. Be grateful that you had the friendship and think about the things you learned. Even the nastiest of people can teach us a lesson, if it's only that we deserve to be treated better.
Expect to feel bad for a time. Expect to miss the other person. This is natural. Give yourself time to grieve.
Most of the people in our life will not be moving on at some point or another. Move on with grace.
2006-09-18 12:40:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds as if best friends in this case is/was a one way street. Get out and meet / find new friends, move on, people drift apart and move in many different directions over a life time. No need to have it out with them unless you feel it will resolve any issues for you. If it will only cause you further pain and suffering why torture yourself?
2006-09-18 23:29:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anchor Cranker 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him/her that your not happy with the relationship. Life is to short to drag things out that can be fixed in an instant.
2006-09-18 19:34:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be honest and tell them to leave you alone and get out of your life.
2006-09-18 20:31:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why do u want to end it are you in love with his girlfriend or her boyfriend, that is a think you have to decide on your own....
2006-09-18 19:34:16 · answer #5 · answered by The Love Hormone 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell that person
about how u feel
2006-09-18 19:32:59 · answer #6 · answered by ~^~ M.Lay ~^~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell it to their face or work it out.
2006-09-18 20:15:52 · answer #7 · answered by ~Pom!~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋