I am stupid with this, please help me out. I know a girl, danced with her, I think she likes me--talked---played 10 fingers...knew her for weekend and last weekend.
Now, I think the next stage is I invite her to eat at a place on campus (I am in college), and then what...
please fill in the blanks and help me out.
2006-09-18 12:34:42 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You've known her for a week or so and you're already wanting to talk sex?? Slow down, give it time, let it develop naturally, get to know each other, make sure you have things in common, that you really like each other AND that you're both "clean" and "safe"
Don't rush into a sexual relationship with someone you barely know. Take the time to get to know each other, see what each other is all about, then, when the time is right, you'll know, you won't need to "discuss" it, it'll happen naturally, like it's supposed to, if it's meant to be it will, don't force it, otherwise you could ruin a very good, very promising relationship.
2006-09-18 12:39:35 · answer #1 · answered by Angeleyes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You all keep telling people to refrain from sex Jesus why can't ya give them the advice they are asking for ? Do you all forget your first time. do you not remember the hormones and how strong the urge was ? They are asking for advice on doing what they are going to do anyway, but want to do it in a responsible way . Could you say no after you thought you were ready and get all hot and bothered with the one you love ??
Just Remember to use protection what ever you do. The media doesn't talk about it anymore. But AIDS and HIV are infecting more people then ever before . Play safe and explore it, let it happen naturally. don't pressure yourself , Its a natural act
2006-09-18 19:54:28 · answer #2 · answered by Shawn S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. Don't try so hard, Tiger! Let it evolve.
2. If you aren't certain that she is interested, go somewhere with a group — neutral territory — no one feels threatened. See what happens. Does she stick by you and focus her attention on you, laugh at your jokes, ask you questions?
3. If the above happens, whether in a group, or spontaneously, ask her out to an event you both would enjoy. Maybe ask her what she would like to do — you'll find out her interests. It's your invite, so you pick up the cheque.
Good luck!!
2006-09-18 19:42:44 · answer #3 · answered by mitch 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Adam was meant for Eve, not Steve.
Eve was meant for Adam, Not the Madam
You'll be rubbing belly to belly and skin to skin. Trucking like hell and nothing going in.
Find you a man, he can do what she's gonna do and give you what's natural (internal stimulation).
Make your parents proud
get it --- only male and female can create.
If you marry a woman and adopt a child, you'll always know its not yours biologically and you wont really know motherhood. you'll alway have a false love for that child, creating a monster, in and out of jails, because of your negative ways, your child, once old enough to know wont agree with it
2006-09-18 19:48:23 · answer #4 · answered by WOODSAK 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
concentrate on your studies and dont get too distracted...go into it but study comes first.
just let the relationship devbelop by itself and no need to panic. no need to stress on it too. just behave as you 2 feels comfortable with.
thats all.
2006-09-18 19:39:52 · answer #5 · answered by superyoyogirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, she probally wont sleep with you for a while if she has any class. THe right time is when you feel that she is comfortable with it.
2006-09-18 19:38:03 · answer #6 · answered by angie_adie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
right after the wedding
2006-09-18 19:37:33 · answer #7 · answered by casurfwatcher 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
heck at least give her a few meals
2006-09-18 19:37:29 · answer #8 · answered by blwatson41 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
study study study
girls can come later!!!!!! voice of an old lady...experience!!!
2006-09-18 19:37:19 · answer #9 · answered by -------- 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
immediately
2006-09-18 19:44:26 · answer #10 · answered by Rude dog 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋