Family & Relationships - 16 September 2006

My ex is almost dependant on me. we met at work, and when ever I get a break he rushes up to me to say Hi. He calls me too much, and whenever I sign on AIM, he im's me before I can even see he's on. We've been friends for 6 years, what should I do? I might end my friendship if nothing helps!

2006-09-16 04:53:01 · 11 answers · asked by kdm1594 2 in Singles & Dating

ok me and my boyfriend had a good relationship then it became a long distance relationship cuz he moved frm ohio to wisconsin and i dont trust ppl easly and i love him but i dont think i can trust someone so far away wat do i do

2006-09-16 04:52:25 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

How do you deals with the payment of bills and other expenses?

2006-09-16 04:51:58 · 11 answers · asked by Veronica B 1 in Singles & Dating

My fiance and I are getting married next month. He is a huge gambler. He bets almost every game of football, and goes to the OTB (Off Track Betting) to gamble on horse racing. He will watch countless hours of football from preseason all the way to the superbowl, betting every chance he gets. The only catch is, he makes a ton of money at his job and always has enough money to pay the bills and not go into debt. I'm not a gambler though, and I find it difficult to watch the betting consume so much of his time and money. I think it's getting excessive. I've tried to talk to him about it and he gets really defensive and argues that I shouldn't get on his case because all the bills are paid and he just gambles for fun. I just don't know if we should get married since we have an extremely different opinion about this issue, and it's starting to somewhat drive a wedge between us. I need to hear someone else's perspective on this please.

2006-09-16 04:50:39 · 21 answers · asked by Luckyprincess 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i am going to a quinsinera today. I have shoulder length hair,....not a crisis,...but i want to look good...hehe.

2006-09-16 04:48:24 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My chatmate is asking me out for a date. When we meet who will pay for the movie tickets& food bills?

2006-09-16 04:48:06 · 10 answers · asked by yza_santos_cute 1 in Singles & Dating

what signals do women give if they are not interested
TRINA please do not respond !!! I am not interesetd in your opinion

2006-09-16 04:47:35 · 21 answers · asked by bruce0769 1 in Singles & Dating

There is this wonderful guy named jason. He is very HOT and SEXY!! He is a sophmore and I'm a freshmen. He been giving me the eye since school started! I think he wants me but I don't know for sure. He totally doesn't have a girlfriend, so that's not the problem. What's the problem is that I'm chonicly shy to the bone. I mostly make my friends by them approaching me first. I know he want me to make the first move. But I can't! I'm not trying to rush things but nothing is happen now since school started. Well, what I think is if a guy wants a girl, then he will go after her, right? If something don't start, then I feel like I'm not worth his time. I don't think he making a move at me. Or if he is, I'm not noticing. What is the signs when a guy likes a girl? What kind of ways do he approach a girl he likes? I want to get his number through a friend so I can call him to get to know him better. I need to because if I don't do something, some other girl will. Please help me, Guys!!

2006-09-16 04:46:42 · 5 answers · asked by T baby 1 in Singles & Dating

We've been together for about a year and he told me last weekend, when he thought I was too drunk to remember, that he wants to propose on Christmas. But recently we have had nothing resembling a good realtionship; no sex, no good conversation, etc. I'm even worried about all of the debt he's in. I just want to marry someone that is financially stable, which he is not. But I do love him.

2006-09-16 04:46:31 · 27 answers · asked by duckface 2 in Marriage & Divorce

theres a guy in my class i like him how do i ask for his email id or mobile number

2006-09-16 04:45:57 · 3 answers · asked by neha 1 in Friends

I know I should not allow myself to be used when it comes to matters of the heart, but lets face it, we all have. At what point do you feel unconditional love ends and drawing a line begins? How much is one supposed to continue to give?

2006-09-16 04:45:24 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Is there a way where you can go to just look at profiles on my space? and how?

2006-09-16 04:45:15 · 12 answers · asked by liltexas36 3 in Friends

ladies, if you are willing to cheat on your husband or boyfriend with some "other" dude, chances are that "other" dude ain't gonna want you as wifey material because he feels that you'll cheat on him the same way! guys respect ladies who respect their relationships!

2006-09-16 04:45:14 · 18 answers · asked by ShaneA 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-16 04:43:52 · 21 answers · asked by SOPHIA@YAHOO.CO.IK 1 in Singles & Dating

Me and my boyfriend are on a break, what is it?

2006-09-16 04:42:13 · 8 answers · asked by blonde_babe66@verizon.net 2 in Singles & Dating

Some chick is harassing me via email that she got from an old friend of mine. It's really getting on my nerves and I've reported her to Yahoo. Does anyone have an idea about the email that they'd send her regarding her harassing me?

2006-09-16 04:41:16 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i have been dating my girl for 1yr. we do all sort of things together. we are both leos so am thinking there would always be fire in the bedroom. the thing is if i mention anything about my ex that she asks we can go for even a week and days with out having sex. she doesn't want me to touch her(we live together) when all is well and i don't mention my ex. she does all sort of things with me i don't even have to ask her for any. she told me she use to have sex with her ex everyday but she doesn't with me. i don't mind when she talks about her ex. she ask me quesions then can't handle the answers. i told her my ex was real freaky cause she's aries and my girl just stop doing the things we used to do. she is great. she has the whole package. but as a leo man i don't show my emotions so much. she is way sensitive for a lioness. so what do i do? should i lie when she ask me questions? my ex was a anything go type of girl my current girl does anything as long as she aint mad. ladies? guys?

2006-09-16 04:40:40 · 13 answers · asked by the truth 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

i am going to a quinsinera, and i have shoulder length hair. How should I wear it? Not a crisis, but i want to look....good....hehe.

2006-09-16 04:40:03 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Why is it that, the longer a guy is with you, the more he treats you like some insignificant other and the less he treats you like the person he loves?

2006-09-16 04:39:23 · 21 answers · asked by Dellilah Patchouly 4 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-16 04:38:51 · 18 answers · asked by echolily 3 in Singles & Dating

well we met over the computar and im a freshman and he is in his first year of collage,he lives in south carolina and i live in new york. hes going to move up here wene hes done with collage and wene im done with highschool,my mom is ok with it but she still dosent think were serious or that we love eachother as much as we do.she has accepted that he can come and see me wene i turn 16.But i still want her to no how much i love him and how much he loves me and that its not just some stupid relashonship.I have talked to his mom before and i talk to his cusion so its not like its a joke.Age dosent matter to me or him,and hes not looking for sex we do talk about it but our relashonship dosent revolve around it if you no what i meen. Anyway,i just would like my mom to understand this,she's young too (34) and i would think she would understand better then some mom's.Im a only child and i have one parent witch is my mom,if anyone can help me or give me advice i would appreciate it. Thanks.

2006-09-16 04:38:42 · 14 answers · asked by xOxMonicaoXo 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i am in love with a girl, and found out that she was cheating on me. how do i get her off my mind? i think about her whenever i do anything! i dont want to feel like this anymore! i am going crazy! i feel like crap all the time! help me please!!!

2006-09-16 04:38:23 · 23 answers · asked by eecc 1 in Singles & Dating

So there's this boi. I love him with all my heart. I have been in love with him for about a year and were really good friends. We have never been bf and gf, but he says he really likes me and I really like him. He has asked me out a bunch of times but I keep saying no..I have 3 reasons why. #1 he is my bestfriends x-bf, #2 he is going out with anoth one of my bestfriends and #3 I like being friends with him and I think that if I go out with him something will go wrong and ruin our relationship all together and I REALLY dont want that to happen. I love being really good friends with him, i dont want to go out with him..but the problem is..is that I can't stamd to see him with another gurl besides me. Im very confused on what to do..I LOVE HIM!

2006-09-16 04:37:04 · 11 answers · asked by saweet_chick_lee 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been through a divorce recently and am really feeling unsure of myself, especially sexually. I would really appreciate some honesty about this.

My wife had been seeing other men for about a year and I was feeling pretty inadequate about my 'skills.' I don't know if it was out of wanting to be even more upset, but I went on some sites that were really for men and women to 'hook up,' and saw a lot of pics of guys that seemed reeeeealy well-endowed.

My penis is 6" long, which I know is average and is 6" in girth, which I always thought was on the fat side.

I now don't feel like anything special and am wondering if any woman will ever be 'impressed' by my equipment again.

What I want to know is: am I decently 'built?' do you think that guys are enhancing the pics they post of these boards?

am really feeling bad, and just need some honesty from folks.

2006-09-16 04:36:59 · 29 answers · asked by james p 1 in Singles & Dating

ok i like this guy that i go to school with alot but he says he dosnt like me, but he walked me to class yesterday and kissed me on the lips. he always flirts with me and im so confused. i dont know if he likes me or what. his friends tell me that he talks about me all the time around his neighbor hood. what should i do ? i dont know if i should call him out and ask him whats going on or if i should just let it continue. please help me !!!

2006-09-16 04:36:36 · 4 answers · asked by loved_sweet_angel 1 in Singles & Dating

OK, so my boyfriend's brother passed away one year ago due to cancer. I wanted to do something simple and small just to let him know that I am here for him, but I don't want to make a big deal out of it. Any help would be appreciated.

2006-09-16 04:36:14 · 9 answers · asked by snowflake8050 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Its pretty complicated really but here's the simple version. I like this guy and he used to like me. but then a new girl came and he likes her now. how do i make him like me instead of her? what should i do??? help me please!

2006-09-16 04:35:09 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Look, I've been trying to get with a girl, who is a friend of mine, for the past nine months. The first time I tried, she said yes...then said no because of family problems (father left with other woman) and the fact that herself, her mother and her sister had to sell & move house. I know for a fact that it is all true. So because of that she maintained that she wasn't interested in a boyfriend given the situation. Now, I learn that she has had a boyfriend. It is quite recent, that I'm quite sure of. Why do girls have to be such two-faced bitches sometimes? If she didn't like me, why couldn't she just say that? What do I do now? (My plan is to ignore her until she notices, then yell at her. Hopefully she'll be caught so off-guard....)

2006-09-16 04:34:52 · 9 answers · asked by Eugene Zappier 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm in highschool and I'm in love with my older brother's best friend, and he doesn't know it. He seems to like girls his own age. Any suggestions?

2006-09-16 04:33:02 · 19 answers · asked by Carolina G 1 in Singles & Dating

degrade them, disrepect them, take away their self-esteem. What satisfaction do they get from doing that? Is it some kind of gratification?

2006-09-16 04:32:07 · 32 answers · asked by xxx 4 in Marriage & Divorce