Look, I've been trying to get with a girl, who is a friend of mine, for the past nine months. The first time I tried, she said yes...then said no because of family problems (father left with other woman) and the fact that herself, her mother and her sister had to sell & move house. I know for a fact that it is all true. So because of that she maintained that she wasn't interested in a boyfriend given the situation. Now, I learn that she has had a boyfriend. It is quite recent, that I'm quite sure of. Why do girls have to be such two-faced bitches sometimes? If she didn't like me, why couldn't she just say that? What do I do now? (My plan is to ignore her until she notices, then yell at her. Hopefully she'll be caught so off-guard....)
2006-09-16 04:34:52 · 9 answers · asked by Eugene Zappier 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What you need to do is go out and find a nice girl ( lots out there)
Don't lower your self by yelling at her.
2006-09-16 04:39:33 · answer #1 · answered by wHaT eVeR 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Im sorry to hear that. And yes why didnt she tell you she didnt want to go out with you? Obviously shes not a woman,just a young girl. We are not all like that. To be honest is the best way to be. I think you need to just move on and if she trys to talk to you,just act if what she did doesnt bother you in the least bit. Its obviuos shes not good enough for you. If you yell at her then she wins!!! Dont even waste your time getting mad at her. Find someone who really will care about you.
2006-09-16 04:41:28 · answer #2 · answered by michelle 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just give it up man.....she's obviously shallow anyway...they say one thing and then do another...they make up excuses for it and that's a very big sign of insecurity too! Women that are shallow & insecure aren't worth it and can never be pleased and ones that go from guy to guy are trouble...some women are just big bitches that don't care if they leave broken hearts behind and deserve to be lashed out to in anger...just find one that really wants to be with you and isn't judgemental about you and what you have or don't have!! You'll just get your heartbroken if you keep worrying about this girl! A woman like this will blindside you!
2006-09-16 06:32:11 · answer #3 · answered by Damned fan 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Oh brother, it's really apparent to me what happened. You put her on the spot and we females will do our very best to let you down easily so as not to bruise the male ego. Instead of saying I can't because I have to wash my hair, she was extremely clever to use the reasons she did. If that didn't make you go away I don't know what would.
Sometimes if you take no for an answer a women will respect you more for it. As long as we know you are respecting our space and our privacy we very well might let you back into our lives. I know it's confusing but that's how it is sometimes.
Linda
2006-09-16 04:39:56 · answer #4 · answered by Linda 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
honest opinion?
Dont make a prat of yourself by yelling at her. Very unmanly and would just show you out as a total jerk.
A girl has every right to feel that way but get surprisingly (to herself) swept off her feet by the other guy when she least expected it. Its called chemistry dude. Perhaps when with you, she could be logical and reason out the best thing for her at that time.
Just chuck it over your shoulders as a bad experience and start looking for other girls you have chemistry with. Believe, me, when the chemistry is there, it will take you less than 9 months to score let alone get a date.
2006-09-16 04:43:13 · answer #5 · answered by jimbomediterraneo 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
what the heck. coming from a girl, just let her be. Dont go and ignore her then yell at her. if she likes you, she would be with you. if she doesnt, just let it be. ask her maybe one more time CASUALLY and if she rejects you, just stop. Maybe she didn't have the heart to say no to you in the first place. but, i will give you that girls can be two faced.
2006-09-16 04:40:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
.........and why do guys have to be so unwilling to accept the fact that maybe a girl doesn't want them?
Anger and lashing out are signs of insecurity, dude..........
Grow up --- she WAS possibly interested, but major life changing events happened in Her life, which also involved infidelities of man, and in this case, HER DAD!
She's only human, so she's ready to possibly trust a guy, and it doesn't happen to be you.... it might be YOU in the future; unless you pull that crap.................
2006-09-16 05:04:28 · answer #7 · answered by Uwanna Kissimmi 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
im sure she finds you disgusting...everyone else agree with me here?
if u were so good looking, she would be kissing your feet.
2006-09-16 04:37:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
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2006-09-16 04:35:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋