2006-09-16 04:38:51 · 18 answers · asked by echolily 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What is to learn?
No two people are the same.
No two loves are the same either.
You think your heart is broken, it is merely bruised, it will heal if you let it.
The secret to a happy life is to remember that nothing good happens unless you will it to be that way.
Right now you are seeing the glass as half empty. It is also half full. And even when it is completely empty, you can always find something else to refill it.
Start filling it with good deeds, then move on to friendships, and then kinships, and when you are up to it and that may not be too long from now try out a courtship. Intimacy takes time.
All relationships are based on caring, trust, and honesty. That includes the relationship you have with yourself. You are lying to yourself right now, trying to make it seem like things won't get better. They can get better. You have to want them to get better. You have to care enough about yourself to make them better, and you have to trust yourself not to make the same mistakes twice, and you probably have already figured out one of those mistakes by now, putting too much reliance on affections and too little reliance on your wisdom. This time go through life with your eyes wide open and trust that what you see is what you have, no more, no less.
You will be fine.
2006-09-16 07:45:05 · answer #1 · answered by LORD Z 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you want to trust someone that has wronged you you must accept that they wronged it doesn't mean you agree but accept it and move on.
]Acceptance is the answer to all my problems today. When I am disturbed, it is because I find some person, place, thing or situations- some fact of life- UNACCEPTABLE TO ME, and I can find no serenity until I accept that person, place, thng or situation as being exactly the way it is supposed to be at this moment. Nothing absolutely nothing happens in God's world by mistake. unless i accept life completely on life's terms, I cannot be happy. I need to concentrate not so much on what needs to be changes in the world as on what need to be changed in me and in my attitudes..
2006-09-16 11:41:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
give it some time. I mean yeah its gonna ******* hurt but most relationships once they have been destroyed it'll take about the same amount of time 2 get over it. but if you show that it hurts your telling him/her that it got 2 you just blow it off but if you have 2 write down how you feel. and if that dont work talk 2 someone let it out it is always good to let people how you feel at sometime
Dont worry every thing will be okay
2006-09-16 11:46:08 · answer #3 · answered by ashleigh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep on loving but trust none. maybe God wants u to meet a couple of wrong people before meeting the right one. friend follow ur heart.
2006-09-16 11:51:44 · answer #4 · answered by vicky ir 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The heart will heal ... but trust shouldn't ever be just given ... it is a valuable asset that is to be "Earned". One day at a time.
2006-09-16 11:45:19 · answer #5 · answered by John 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
two words:move on, if you get someone great and still think about your past relationships and how that person borke your heart and you blame it on the new person then obviously u didnt move on, and now that new person have to put up with your crap cuz of some past jerk. screw that old person and get on with your life the last peron sure as hell did
2006-09-16 11:48:59 · answer #6 · answered by SaDiE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you just have to convince yourself that every guy isn't the same.
you have to build yourself up.
but give it some time because if you just go right on out there yours and some others hearts will end up broken.
so just give it some time and someone will end up caring for you.
someone who won't hurt you.
don't worry.
good luck darlin.
2006-09-16 11:44:37 · answer #7 · answered by teenage gurl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Open a trust account.
2006-09-16 11:44:29 · answer #8 · answered by Jookemgood 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is not something to learn. with time will start to trust again, but never completely
2006-09-16 11:43:41 · answer #9 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so you made some mistakes,
get over it
nobody is perfect, everybody makes mistakes.
besides that is what life is about
you try new things you make mistakes,
you llearn from your mistakes, and dont do it again the next time
you move forward
certainly dont dwell on your mistakes
your not growing that way
2006-09-16 11:45:20 · answer #10 · answered by 987654321abc 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋