well we met over the computar and im a freshman and he is in his first year of collage,he lives in south carolina and i live in new york. hes going to move up here wene hes done with collage and wene im done with highschool,my mom is ok with it but she still dosent think were serious or that we love eachother as much as we do.she has accepted that he can come and see me wene i turn 16.But i still want her to no how much i love him and how much he loves me and that its not just some stupid relashonship.I have talked to his mom before and i talk to his cusion so its not like its a joke.Age dosent matter to me or him,and hes not looking for sex we do talk about it but our relashonship dosent revolve around it if you no what i meen. Anyway,i just would like my mom to understand this,she's young too (34) and i would think she would understand better then some mom's.Im a only child and i have one parent witch is my mom,if anyone can help me or give me advice i would appreciate it. Thanks.
2006-09-16 04:38:42 · 14 answers · asked by xOxMonicaoXo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You don't have the capacity to know what you are playing with. Keep your panties on until you graduate from college and you will thank me a million times. Love but do not let him be you husband until he walks you down the isle. Tell him sometime, I will never make love to a man until he is my husband and watch his responses over the nest week.
If you want to know him, then you will have to explore his mind first.
2006-09-16 04:43:30 · answer #1 · answered by Mike D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your spelling leaves more to be desired, in other words, you cannot spell. Your priorities are misplaced, what does a college student have in common with a 14 year old. He is many miles away associating with other college students, having a good old time like most college students do, come on now. He can tell you anything, words are cheap.
The idea of you having spoken with his mom and cousin, seems like such a big joke to me, what can you at 14 tell his mom about your "relationship" that would set her straight. I am sorry, but you should get your act together, get your education and then concentrate on the opposite sex.
A little help with your spelling -
Computar, computer
Cusion, cousin
Collage, college
Dosent, Doesn't or Does not
Meen, Mean
Hes, he's or he is
Relashonship, Relationship
Witch, Which
Wene, When
Good Luck, please focus on school it is the only way!
2006-09-16 05:03:53 · answer #2 · answered by spoiltrini 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
guy u sound dumb as hell. he's eighteen and u sense that at 14 he's like, into ur ideas or something? Crack rock! i don't understand one 18 year previous male who's healthful and alive that's not telling any stylish who will pay attention that he loves and cares for them and is not thinkn approximately hitn that. the reality that u think of u gets knocked is even mor reason to abort this challenge. U of course are actually not arranged for the accountability that comes alongside with risk-free intercourse and u greater advantageous than probable won't have the dreamed up magical outcomes that are bouncing around on your head. it is y u ought to date interior of ur age group. U understand 18 is merely too previous. a million/2 the time dudes who say the are 18 are mendacity and undercover pervs for even pursuing a infant. U have been given fairly some starting to be as much as do formerly u bypass that line. provide up that cat and concentration on gettn ur ideas appropriate. the ultimate dude is presented, do not rush it. Nothin like sharing urself with somebody...while they r nicely worth it. Aight. Peace Detroit
2016-10-15 01:38:15 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is supposedly an adult at 18. You are NOT at 14. So it's a very good thing that you have NOT had sex. He could be in a world of hurt. Sounds like your mom is handling it fine. PLEASE give yourself the opportunity to experience life before you decide to make any life's decisions.
2006-09-16 04:56:30 · answer #4 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well he is to old for you at your age of 14 and he can get into a lot of trouble for being with you and all it would have to take is one person to say or think that the two of you are having sex then that's when the trouble begins for him that is .
2006-09-16 04:48:37 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry honey but at 14 you don't know what real love is.
Do not sleep with this guy for two reasons, you are too young and it is against the law.
Concentrate on your school work, in particular, your spelling.
2006-09-16 04:44:50 · answer #6 · answered by sarah071267 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The only reason that the two of you have not had sex, is because you are both in different states. that should be the last thing on your mind at this moment, concentrate on school, you should not tell your mom, that you are in love. she knows more then you think she knows. she feels safe with this relationship, is because she knows, you are here with her and he is in his home state. enjoy life, and have fun, this time in your life, you will never get back, so school, and have fun with friends.
2006-09-16 04:58:12 · answer #7 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Little girl, you need to get of the internet and go back to school to learn how to spell. And the ONLY THING an 18yr old has on mind IS SEX!
2006-09-16 04:43:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi there!!
Don't wory about that.. you're doin good on your relationship, nothing to worry about.. You shouldn't think of things like sex for your early age.. Your bf can wait, if he really love you.. So, just go on to be happy with your relationship and always let your bf feel that you love him..
goodluck..
take care..
2006-09-16 05:18:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your spelling is anything to go by, you're not really ready to talk about sex. Work on your spelling instead.
2006-09-16 04:45:28 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋