Its pretty complicated really but here's the simple version. I like this guy and he used to like me. but then a new girl came and he likes her now. how do i make him like me instead of her? what should i do??? help me please!
2006-09-16 04:35:09 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sweetie, u cant make no one like u, shoot if u could i woulda tried long ago, if a guy doesnt like u no more, u jus gotta try to let go, im sorry but that's way of life! who knows maybe he'll come back to u on his own, but if not well.....
2006-09-16 04:42:14 · answer #1 · answered by Here2Help 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
If he's into another girl now, there's really nothing you can do about that.
If you really want him to still like you, then just talk to him. Strike up conversations with him. Hang out with him. It may just be friends, but he may be able to see what he's missing out on. But he may end up just wanting to be friends, and that should be good, too.
But I say, since he's into another girl, just forget about him. Try and get over him, find someone new, even if it may take a while. You can't make everyone you want to to like you. There's plenty of other guys, and if this guy isn't into you anymore, he must not be the right one for you.
2006-09-16 04:39:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
The whole idea behind this is to figure out whom you may wish to marry some day. He may go back to liking you in a heartbeat and with no apparent reason for the change. (No insult intended here)
Most guys will like dozens of girls, many of them several times, until they get married or else reach 40 years of age.
Girls mature faster than guys. A girl is sure to become a woman by the time she is 22 or 23. If a guy hasn't matured into a man by the time he is 40, he probably never will.
2006-09-16 04:40:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Muffy,
Pay him little or no attention at all. If he was aware you were interested and chose a new girl to hang with. Then you got "Unpicked" ... in this case that's good. Ya see he didn't see what you had to offer and wasn't willing to look closer. Be real here ... no ones that great that its worth being chosen as a "instead of" .... find a guy who sees what you have and like that, be yourself, be happy & confident and good things will come to you. if the person is with you because your being you... you win! If your being something your not to get the attention or the guy ...if will fail. The acting won't last for ever ... you gotta be you.
Good Luck!
2006-09-16 04:41:35 · answer #4 · answered by John 7 · 3⤊ 1⤋
There isn't an answer to this one I am afraid - other than to move on and find yourself someone else. Ironically - the very few occasions when I have seen blokes come back to an ex. it has been when she has found some new guy and he realises his mistake!
Good luck anyway.
2006-09-16 04:37:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
The other advantage to avoiding all contact with your ex is that over time, he or she will begin to forget some of the reasons they
broke up with you in the first place. Your ex won't completely forget about the problems plaguing your relationship, but they'll
definitely tend to forget some of the quirks or habits that irritated them.
By giving your ex time and space, you're allowing the negative memories and mental perceptions your ex has developed to slip through
the cracks and be replaced by more positive thoughts and memories. Nostalgia is a powerful ally for you, because your ex will
probably
start to forget some of the negative aspects of your relationship but not the positive memories of happy times you spent together.
If
you break down and contact your ex during the 'no contact' phase, you're just taking the chance that these thoughts will re-surface
in
your ex's mind.
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2014-09-01 16:52:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 13⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately there is nothing you can do.
You have to be yourself and if he doesn't like yourself, then he's not worth worrying about.
A nice guy will come along who will like you for you.
2006-09-16 04:37:06 · answer #7 · answered by sarah071267 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm going through the same thing with a guy right now. I do the same thing i did when he liked me. I still tell hI'm i love him and im still friends with him. maybe he just wants to see if your really what he wants.
2006-09-16 04:39:41 · answer #8 · answered by loved_sweet_angel 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋
you cant make him like you instead of her. Thats up to him. If you want... you can keep being sweet and fun around him. Or, You can move on and not let it hurt you so much. Find someone that will like you more than they like someone else.
2006-09-16 04:38:38 · answer #9 · answered by Michelle : 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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How do I make him like me again? Guys answer too please!!!!?
Its pretty complicated really but here's the simple version. I like this guy and he used to like me. but then a new girl came and he likes her now. how do i make him like me instead of her? what should i do??? help me please!
2015-08-04 04:56:36 · answer #10 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore him as much as you can and and be very nice to this girl if you happen to know her.Be as natural as you can be when you see him/them together.Never show any sign of jealousy!!This will put her a notch higher ...if and when he calls you up,be friendly n never talk about her.She's unimportant to you.If you really want him..wait.He'll get back to you as long as you do nothing wrong to him.
2006-09-16 04:46:02 · answer #11 · answered by mary 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋