i have been dating my girl for 1yr. we do all sort of things together. we are both leos so am thinking there would always be fire in the bedroom. the thing is if i mention anything about my ex that she asks we can go for even a week and days with out having sex. she doesn't want me to touch her(we live together) when all is well and i don't mention my ex. she does all sort of things with me i don't even have to ask her for any. she told me she use to have sex with her ex everyday but she doesn't with me. i don't mind when she talks about her ex. she ask me quesions then can't handle the answers. i told her my ex was real freaky cause she's aries and my girl just stop doing the things we used to do. she is great. she has the whole package. but as a leo man i don't show my emotions so much. she is way sensitive for a lioness. so what do i do? should i lie when she ask me questions? my ex was a anything go type of girl my current girl does anything as long as she aint mad. ladies? guys?
2006-09-16 04:40:40 · 13 answers · asked by the truth 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
forget the horoscope bit, it does not matter!
2006-09-16 04:46:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anarchy99 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, the signs don't mean a thing. Two completely opposite signs, or signs that are not 'supposed' to attract to each other could.
But if she clearly doesn't like you talking about your ex. So maybe you should cut down on that. Even if she does talk about hers, you don't mind. But some people really hate it when they're in a relationship and all the other person does is talk about their ex.
But no, you shouldn't lie when she asks you questions. Lying gets you absolutely nowhere. I've been through it all, and if she ever finds out you lied to her, it will not turn out in a good situation. It's best to just tell the truth, even if the truth can bring some sadness. Even if you think that lies may make her want to have sex with you, it's not the right thing to do. You may also end up with a guilty conscious.
And really, just because she won't have sex with you doesn't mean anything. Your relationship shouldn't be based on sex. It's never a good thing. Maybe she thinks since you always seem to want to have sex, that that's all you're interested in. No girl likes to be used just for having sex.
Just pay more attentition to her needs sort of thing. Strike up good conversations with her. They don't have to include anything sexual, or anything about your ex.
2006-09-16 04:50:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all i dont think anyone wants to hear about things they did with thier EX. Thats why she gets mad at you. You make her feel like shes not good enough in the bedroom and cant live up to what you had before her!!!! You are not right for saying things like you do. Both of you do NOT need to be asking questions or anything about your exs,,and that goes for her too. Next time she asks you something about your ex,let her know you dont want to talk about your ex,,and that you are with her now and thats all that matters. Make her feel like shes the greatest girl you ever been with. And no talking about exs!!!! That should be off limits.
2006-09-16 04:48:24 · answer #3 · answered by michelle 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am in a relationship right now where we went through the same thing. We fought so much over our ex's when one of us would ask the other a question. I am the same as your g/f. When I ask my b/f a question, I usually get really pissed over the answer. What solved our problem is to just not talk about your ex's in front of each other. If I ask my boyfriend a question and he knows I will be pissed at the answer, he will just tell me "I'm not going to fight you with so we're not talking about this".
2006-09-16 04:49:39 · answer #4 · answered by italiana2683 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont belive in all the sign stuff b/c it said me and my man would fight all the time and not get along but we have been toghther for 6 yrs. and there are times i adk my man about his exs and yah i kinda get mad but i blow it off if i did not want to hear about it then i should not ask right. anyways just sit down and talk to her about it. women have alot of emotions with out really knowing her it is hard to say what u should do everyone id diff. maybe u should try to show ur emotions more ur b-day has nothing to do with u ( to me) but women like it when i guy shows he really cares if she gets pissed about how u answer just say well if u did not want to know then y ask or tell her fine next time i will lie to u about it but i dont want to hind anything from u i love u and u are great if i wanted my x i would not be with u. just reasure her. she may get mad but she will think next time she wants to ask u something. good luck
2006-09-16 04:49:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you should not talk about your ex at all. Even if she asks you a question, just tell her you dont want to talk about it. Tell her the ex is not in your life no more (or something like that) so you dont want to talk about her anymore. If she insists that you answer the question about the ex.... refuse, for your sake as well as hers because she will only get hurt about it and hold it against you. Dont talk about the ex at all.
2006-09-16 04:45:37 · answer #6 · answered by Michelle : 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no matter what kind of lion you are, proud and honorable or a shy pussycat, you have to stand out in a crowd. She needs to know what is special about her. I wouldn't lie about your past, but you could down play it. Make sure you treat her like the queen she was born to be, and she will definately treat you as her king. Yeah, being highly experimental is fun, but so is being on an intimate level with someone. Make sure she knows you love her above all else.
2006-09-16 04:45:40 · answer #7 · answered by ms. fix-it 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To keep the peace with sensitive people you can't hurt their feelings then you won't get anything so tell her that is in the past and your love is real now.... work out the freaky details later...
2006-09-16 04:48:15 · answer #8 · answered by mizsinister 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously she has insecurity issues to work out. If she can talk about her ex without you getting upset, she should be able to do the same thing. Maybe you need a new girlfriend.
2006-09-16 04:45:09 · answer #9 · answered by Branded with the Dark Mark 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your way too much into the horoscope thing. I dont believe that has anything to do with it.. when she asks you questions, just give her a i dont know/ or a generalized answer if you can and just be a good listener.
2006-09-16 04:42:59 · answer #10 · answered by yournotalone 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like your problem is not about sun signs but jealousy, immaturity and power games.
2006-09-16 04:43:59 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋