Family & Relationships - 14 September 2006

My sister is a really bad person and there's nothing I can do about it. I've tried. My mind and body can't take the stress anymore so I've decided it's time to walk away. I am devasted and worried I'm going to regret it years down the track, but I can't see another way out. She stole my dog (was in boarding, removed her and claimed she didn't have her. When I got her back after legal action the dog was starving and had parvo which I had to pay $1000 for). She constantly lies and tells lies about me to my Dad and his family so she can get an inheritance and I won't. This is damaging the relationship with him and the family. Mum stopped considering her a daughter a long time ago when she got her boyfriend to beat Mum up and threaten her with a gun. She also broke into my car, stole my wallet and used my credit card. There are so many things. I can't have this in my life, but at the end of the day, she is still my sister. Am I doing the wrong thing? How do I make this easier?

2006-09-14 22:15:17 · 13 answers · asked by alysseq_86 3 in Family

brother died. Another brother is in usa. My wife wants to live seperately when i came to Chennai. She abuse my brother who is staying with me lot of bad words and also spit. We have splited the shares evenly in that way I have been seperated frm my brother who was staying with me. Because of this impact my another brother who is staying in us is not chatting with me. Neither his wife is not picking up the phone or cell phone. Today I went to meet my brother's wife in which she has said she does not want any relationship with me,wife and child. Whether this will continue or it will be broken. I am very much broken on this. My brother's wife is saying that I shld not come for any eventuality happens to her, 2 brothers. If it will persist or they will talk to me. Pls let me know.

2006-09-14 22:14:04 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

No detail because the question's so clear.

2006-09-14 22:13:50 · 26 answers · asked by Katya M 1 in Weddings

my friend went out on a date with this guy, he asked her out a few times so she went out with him, they got on great and he use to text her 3 times a day they met up a few times after the frist date she really liked him and he like her to.

the only thing here was this guy was going to live in a another country and before she new it he was gone he still kept in touch with her thought email and text, but not anymore my friend felt let down by this guy so she wont email him anymore, she is really confussed about him she stills likes him alot and he was very good to her
my question to you is
why did he go out on a date with her when he knew he was going to live in another country
and should she email him again

2006-09-14 22:12:11 · 17 answers · asked by ladyluck 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband has relationships with other women via the internet with at least on of them saying that he is "...i couldnt ask for a more devoted and understanding friend, a more seductive, enticing, alluring lover". Does anyone agree with me that this is cheating.

2006-09-14 22:11:27 · 20 answers · asked by Born a Fox 4 in Marriage & Divorce

He split up with her 2 weeks ago after nearly 1 1/2 years & is having trouble getting over her. He's out every night, so at least he's not at home feeling sorry for himself. What advice can I give to him as a mate? Thanks.

2006-09-14 22:09:53 · 15 answers · asked by Sluugy 5 in Singles & Dating

he loves me but i dont how

2006-09-14 22:08:54 · 14 answers · asked by supreet h 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-14 22:08:45 · 8 answers · asked by Ms bo-liao 1 in Marriage & Divorce

you think you can use women and they cant use you? and why do women think men can use them why not US women use men?!.

2006-09-14 22:05:33 · 33 answers · asked by kiss me. 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I would like to settle down with her, but I'm not too sure if she wants the same thing. Should I even bother? She's only 22. Personally, I'm totally crazy about her. Is she too young? Is the age gap too great?

2006-09-14 22:04:05 · 17 answers · asked by 1 2 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-14 22:00:53 · 3 answers · asked by vi-love 1 in Friends

Help i feel like utter shite today, i know self inflicted but anyone know of good cures im dying at my desk thanks guys xx

2006-09-14 21:59:30 · 30 answers · asked by dizzymooo 4 in Singles & Dating

hi i'm sort of confused here. there's this guy in our class whom i had the hots for a while ago. but then it was just a passing crush and i moved on to the other hotties! my best friend in class also has a liking for this guy (she actually wears her heart on her sleeve). i think they make a really good pair together and i've actually created opportunities for them to talk and stuff. i even think that he's interested in her somewhat. but now my friend's acting queer. we had a fight today and she accused me of something i don't even think is true. she said that whenever the two of them spoke he'd have an eye towards me. she actually said that i was being a temptress. i find that absolutely nonsensical. but the thing is that even other people have come up to me and said the same thing - that he looks at me in class. i'm really in a muddle. what do u make out of the situation. my frnd broke up with me over this guy! plz help me out.

2006-09-14 21:58:02 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I'm taking this girl out tomorrow that I met through a friend. I haven't actually seen her but I talked to her on the phone on Monday for a couple minutes and she seems perfect. I don't know what she does for a living or what her religion is or what she looks like but I think I'm in love.

It's the way she said "I'll see ya Friday" that sold me on her.

I bought the ring yesterday and I want to pop the question but I don't want to sound like a virgin or a nerd or like I'm a 32 year old going on his first date.

Is there a method I should use to attack this proposal? If she says no, I'll probably break something. I've been known to act irrationally at times.

I REALLY don't want her to say No...

2006-09-14 21:52:28 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Will that develop love during the process...

2006-09-14 21:49:57 · 15 answers · asked by Fleeting 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-14 21:48:52 · 13 answers · asked by pommu 2 in Friends

What luck did they bring you? Lottery, Career love etc.

2006-09-14 21:46:36 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Guys who already has a girlfriend.attracks me..

2006-09-14 21:45:42 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a six year old son from a previous relationship. He lives with his mom. He stays with me one night a week on the weekend not every weekend. My GF now says it is interfering with her life even though she choses to have her neices stay every sat night. It is really getting to me as my son is my life.
Any advice?

2006-09-14 21:42:23 · 45 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2006-09-14 21:42:16 · 8 answers · asked by cotterall&elaineadams 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-14 21:38:21 · 22 answers · asked by reneeb120012001 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Do some women behave this way just simply down to a lack of trust in you? Or is it something else?

To be honest, I wouldn't deal with this sort of behaviour, and I would end a relationship immediately, but I have a friend who is experiencing this now and would like to give him some advice other than moving on.....

2006-09-14 21:38:18 · 33 answers · asked by James M 2 in Singles & Dating

A panther or a mongoose?

2006-09-14 21:37:13 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Please excuse, I don't mean to step on toes but I just wonder why so many women particularly, are so desparate to be in relationships? Some of you seem to jump on the first boat sailing and then complain about the cruise. What is the hurry?

I wonder what would happen if some of you took your time and really did a self purge to see what going on inside of yourselves. I think that many of you would see some things that do not equal happiness. But instead you want to cling on to someone.

Just being in a relationship does not validate you as a woman (person). There are too many garbage relationships out here. Many of you are willing to put up with anything just to keep that garbage going on too! Oh, please search your heart on this one.

2006-09-14 21:33:39 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i m married last many years and i have kids and they are like 5 and 7. .but even now they think that what i tell them is not right for them. when i was a kid i never went against my dad and mom .may be i thought they were wrong but i was so obident that even if i felt wrong i did what was told ,but now the kids always want to offence their parents on smal things ,for example if i want them to eat or study or sleep they have their own ideas.they want to teach me what is good for them. they r not religious and they just want to be free and free and free all the time .where as at my time we did what exactaly was told to us by our fathr or mother .who should be blamed for this?????????

2006-09-14 21:31:26 · 9 answers · asked by jasmine 2 in Family

my wife and are talking and one of us thinks that it is common not to have sex until marrage and the other think that it is common practice to have sex before marriage also curios as to how many partners if there was sex before marrage

2006-09-14 21:30:22 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-09-14 21:27:06 · 23 answers · asked by shaffy 2 in Singles & Dating

My BF is a ASM of North Region ina reputed MNC. Previously we know each other professionay but now we are getting personal. I met him exactly 5 times in person, bt we do talkover phone say once in 10 days. I feel I am having very strong emotional feelings 4 him n want to be with him 4 rest of my life. we have got our birthchart matching bt unfortunately it doesn't match. He is the only son of his mother n don't want to make her sad proceeding without her permissions. As per my educational cerificates my DOB differs form the original 1. N if we go with what is written on cerificates mine n his is a match fixed in heaven. I asked him to tell his mom the DOB as per my ceritificates. Rest all is fine, we belong to same cast, profession, social status, equally smart n beautiful. If we love each other then we can spend the rest of life 2gather instead of all difficulties. Bt he says he may can't commit anything. He wants to be intimate with me, but as I am a girl of rules, i can't allow that

2006-09-14 21:26:09 · 6 answers · asked by friendspiya 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-14 21:20:23 · 11 answers · asked by sameer 1 in Singles & Dating

Angry young females are welcome

2006-09-14 21:17:23 · 18 answers · asked by sameer 1 in Singles & Dating