My BF is a ASM of North Region ina reputed MNC. Previously we know each other professionay but now we are getting personal. I met him exactly 5 times in person, bt we do talkover phone say once in 10 days. I feel I am having very strong emotional feelings 4 him n want to be with him 4 rest of my life. we have got our birthchart matching bt unfortunately it doesn't match. He is the only son of his mother n don't want to make her sad proceeding without her permissions. As per my educational cerificates my DOB differs form the original 1. N if we go with what is written on cerificates mine n his is a match fixed in heaven. I asked him to tell his mom the DOB as per my ceritificates. Rest all is fine, we belong to same cast, profession, social status, equally smart n beautiful. If we love each other then we can spend the rest of life 2gather instead of all difficulties. Bt he says he may can't commit anything. He wants to be intimate with me, but as I am a girl of rules, i can't allow that
2006-09-14 21:26:09 · 6 answers · asked by friendspiya 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Is this a kind of a construction contract or marriage based on love? If he doesn't want to anger his moma then so be it, let him live for the rest of his life with her. As for you, marriages cannot be based on birthcharts and star course. They are based on love, understanding and mutual characteristics. Keep this in mind while you look for a compatible partner and when you do find him then thank your lucky stars!!!
2006-09-14 21:35:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Making an adultery for matching your horoscope compatibility itself is a pointer of your future. When he can't commit anything right now, how you can expect in the days to come? Anyway the horoscope compatibility has no effect when you have the mental compatibility, which is not at all reviewed or taken note for the horoscope compatibility. Pursue the matter with your would be!
Best of luck!!
2006-09-15 07:20:31 · answer #2 · answered by mkm 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you are saying is right a relationship without any committment is as if a boat with a big hole. Eventually it shall sink. Well why are you taking such efforts to convince him. A relationship after alot of convincing think is it worth for you, In future god forbid if he asks you " Is this for what you convinced me so much?" Then what will you answer him and yourself. Still the decision should be yours and shall be yours we are here just to guide. Just remember one thing 'You can bring a horse near water source but you can't make it drink unless it wants to' this applies to you and also to him. Life is a race and we need to run always... If he thinks that no matter what you will be behind him waiting for him then I guess he is a big fool and if you really wait then you are a big fool I guess. Well sorry for being rude and straight forward also for the language if it hurt you... Also if he really loves you then no matter he would never care for the outcomes of horoscope match, he would marry you even if they are mismatches that's love. He would never search his wife in the solar sytem but would look in your eyes to find it. " Haath ki lakeeron main kismat ko kya dhoondte ho, Kismat unki bhi hoti hai jinke haath nahin hote". Stars and sun don't make our lives but we do it ourselves.
2006-09-15 06:30:03 · answer #3 · answered by Bacti 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well.., u did a gud job.. Itsa gud move there. U cant juz follow wat he wants, but must also stand still on yer stance. If he cant accept dat n wanted to leave, then let em. Means he prefer u to b controlled by him. Juz make sure itsa win-win situation, he wants intimacy, u want marriage. Now dats fair.. Juz stick to wat u believe in.. Way ta go there..
2006-09-15 05:18:34 · answer #4 · answered by Bear 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well dear i strongly believe on horoscopes so i feel watever is not permitted as per horoscopes dont do it
2006-09-15 08:07:03 · answer #5 · answered by tushar g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are right ! Don't allow things before you get married !!
2006-09-15 04:31:09 · answer #6 · answered by Raji 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋