Why are you so desparate to be a relationship?

Question

Please excuse, I don't mean to step on toes but I just wonder why so many women particularly, are so desparate to be in relationships? Some of you seem to jump on the first boat sailing and then complain about the cruise. What is the hurry?

I wonder what would happen if some of you took your time and really did a self purge to see what going on inside of yourselves. I think that many of you would see some things that do not equal happiness. But instead you want to cling on to someone.

Just being in a relationship does not validate you as a woman (person). There are too many garbage relationships out here. Many of you are willing to put up with anything just to keep that garbage going on too! Oh, please search your heart on this one.

Answer 1

I agree! It's pitiful, isn't it? Of course, to be fair, a lot of women just like the safety and security of being with one person, thus supposedly avoiding the possibilities of contracting any strange diseases. (...and we DO get just as horny as men, don't let anyone fool ya on that.)

Answer 2

Well alot of women (dont no it but they do) go for men that are like their own father, and also need comfort from the opposite sex....The need for human contact,love,and most of all relationship are overwhelming so, like you said they just "jump on the first boat sailing" Getting to know a person better before goin further is a better thing to do.

Answer 3

Well, i think i agree with u... its even worse becoz most ladies are rushing for marriage when its a life time commitment. Thats why there are so many divorces and chaos all over! if we did a survey, 90% of married ppl are saying their marriages aint working coz they love somebody else n stuff...i just wish we could take our time when making such decisions.

Its wild... so to all those that are single, please take your precious timw and enjoy your singleness, marriage is a life time commitment... this also goes to the men...
As for the gays, take some time to think, its just your imagination and in a quest to be unique, u think you are gay...
Lets clean up the mess in the world.

Answer 4

i am 100% with u.
some of the girls which i knew are sooo desperate.
there just accept it without thinking about the pros n cons.
then, when it turned sour, they came to crying.
relationship should be sincere not because it is a trend.
some even think that if they do not have a relationship, they will be a step behind everyone else.

Answer 5

Haha.. right to the point!!!
But I think loads of women are desperate to be a on a relationship because they need confirmations. It makes them feel secure and appreciated. Of course the ideal case is that they feel already secure and appreciated before engaging into a relationship. BUT it happens that males in this case get scared ;)

Answer 6

Bro...you sound pissed oFF...so what happend....??
YouR eX girL screwed u uP..??
mate u shouldnt be here yelling at all those beautifull girls there who are still young..not sure what to do still and are just going through relationships to find there soul mate...
just go inside your bedroom..get a pillow and a slab of crown larger..get drunk and cry of what your ex did 2 you insted of telling these girls off ...G g G g G_____uNiT

Answer 7

1st of all i dont believe that women are in such hurry ....as matter of fact it is the other way around.....but if they are it is basically due to insecurity as well to show superiority over other members of the same gender.

Answer 8

I think many do it to fit in society

Answer 9

People don't like to be alone. That's why... they would rather have a meaningless relationship then be alone.