Do some women behave this way just simply down to a lack of trust in you? Or is it something else?
To be honest, I wouldn't deal with this sort of behaviour, and I would end a relationship immediately, but I have a friend who is experiencing this now and would like to give him some advice other than moving on.....
2006-09-14
21:38:18
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James M
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Sorry... I also realise that men can be like this too.
2006-09-14
21:38:50 ·
update #1
Christine B, I can assure you my friend has done nothing to instigate this behaviour, why do you assume its the man's fault.... he is a decent fellow and she's lucky to have him in her life. He thinks the world of her, but she is hell bent on destroying them through her behaviour.
2006-09-14
22:33:03 ·
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whilst it can be just an inbred thing normally people like this are this way for a reason - through an ex usually.
Advice for your friend would be to sit down and talk to his partner - let her know that hes hurt that she doesnt trust him and let him tell her how much he cares for her - lavish attention on her - make her feel fantastic about herself and he should reap the benefits by getting the relationship back on track.
2006-09-14 22:18:59
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answered by Anonymous
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2016-05-01 08:35:35
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answered by olinda 3
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I m not possessive or jealous because i start from the point that i am confident in the man i am with. If i don't trust him, i have no reason to be with him....so if he has any activity like sport or music (not drinking every night with mates :-)) i won t say anything about that, at the contrary i will encourage him to do so.
And actually i think that women who behave like that lack of trust in them, they have the feeling to be less interesting, less beautiful, etc... than other women. But that's a pity because the fact is that there s nothing more annoying than a jealous woman !! that makes men feel like fleeing most of time.....
2006-09-14 22:39:41
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answered by houpla 3
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In most cases i believe that it's just a lack of trust but coming from a women it could be a number of other things. Like, she could be cheating and it's her guilty conscience that makes her act that way or shes been cheated on in the past and can't let it go, or she could be bitter from being hurt and controlled before and trays to regain her self respect back the wrong way by trying to control him. I don't know what the case is but if shes really possessive and jealous there's definitely a reason for it. Women aren't just like that for no reason and whatever it is the reason probably isn't good. Good luck to your friend.
2006-09-14 21:53:38
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answered by lovemykalli 4
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It can be the man who gives the woman the idea that he may wander not just with his eyes! As when most men are out with mates its a keep up and keep in with the boys to see who gets the female attention.. Yes and past relationships can also have an effect on us woman. As when we meet a man who's had a bad past we give him time & understand wheres, men can't handle us woman & run!
2006-09-14 21:50:24
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answered by sandra+3... 3
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I think it's a lack of trust in the opposite sex and i also think the best way of dealing with a partner that is jealous and possessive is to leave them. There's nothing you can say or do to gain their trust. It's coded in them like a computer, it'll always be in the back of their minds and they're the only ones that can remove it.
2006-09-14 21:40:42
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answered by Anonymous
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some women are jealous because they have a low self esteem and think that every other girl whether it be a work mate or a girl you've known from school, will be able to steal you away from them with just a snap of their fingers. some are possessive because they like to think they are in control 24 7. i would tell your friend to make his girl feel like she is the most beautiful girl in the world but make sure not to over do it otherwise she will expect it all the time.
2006-09-14 21:45:57
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answered by Anonymous
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Its not necessarily a lack of trust in the man. Look at that womans past relationships. Has she been cheated on before? If she has the trust is going to take time and the man should be patiant with her. Maybe a simple question like "what could I do to make you not worry about if I am going to cheat on you?"
2006-09-14 21:51:09
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answered by Anonymous
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I'm not that kind of woman,luckily,and I can understand how men feel in that situation...I think that women like that have been hurt before,and that system of jealousy is like some guard for them.
That is the problem that a woman should resolve with herself,but at the same time,she needs some help.He should talk to her,and to try to make some deal
2006-09-14 21:44:38
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answered by Yasna 2
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You have to realize or ur friend should realize that when an unprovoked woman got jealous, meaning no reason to be, more or less this girl is insecure and with emotional issues. Men should not take it personally unless they belong to the higher percentage of men who actually cheat.
and u are right, men have these issues as well, and more often than not, men gets jealous and possessive when they are not trusworthy themselves.
2006-09-14 21:44:15
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answered by ♦cat 6
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