He split up with her 2 weeks ago after nearly 1 1/2 years & is having trouble getting over her. He's out every night, so at least he's not at home feeling sorry for himself. What advice can I give to him as a mate? Thanks.
2006-09-14 22:09:53 · 15 answers · asked by Sluugy 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
my ex left me 4 monhs ago...we were living together..i was saporting her...will my whole pay..i would give her 80% of it and just keep the 20% for petrol and smokes..
i bought her a car..and many credit cards 4 her 2 shop around with.....she left me.for a guy who was on heroin..its been 4 months and still i love her...although she fcukd me up...the love i had 4 her was off the roof...till this day i go out quit a bit..i aint home much..i drink and go 2 many nightclubz..The best thing 2 do 4 your friend..is to let him be...just be there to listin to his problems and if he needs anything...you will be the first guy 2 b there 4 him....he has to learn to get over it..u guys really cant tell him..he has 2 see it and feel it himself to get over it bro....in time he will...i still am waiting 4 this moment to.
2006-09-14 22:18:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be a good friend and keep him company when he needs it, avoid mentioning anything that has to do with his ex, hopefully he will get over it.
I had a similar situation like your friend not that long ago, I had been with this girl for over 2 years! Yes it will hurt for a while but in time he will date other girls!
2006-09-14 22:31:23 · answer #2 · answered by Chris 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he's doing all the right things to me... getting out and about... it's only been a couple of weeks, so he's bound to be a little raw still. Just be there for him, avoid places that he might bump into his ex. A bit of cliche, but time will make things better.
2006-09-14 22:12:52 · answer #3 · answered by James M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's got to have sex with a lot of other women to make up for the last 18months. Get him drunk at the local meat market and stuff a couple of condoms in his shirt pocket. It's not pretty, but it's something we all have to go through.
2006-09-14 22:12:36 · answer #4 · answered by lickintonight 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he should take some time out by himself instead of going out every night to prove he doesnt need her....i dont think you ever get over your first love, you may have many loves in your life, but your first is always in your heart.
2006-09-14 22:14:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Best way to get over the last one is to get under the next one.
2006-09-14 23:14:06 · answer #6 · answered by Richard C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sign your best friends exs-girlfriend to all those dating sites, with photos(best yet photoshop) like myspace, hi5..etc and tell everyone shes easy.
then invite your best friend over for some beers, and get drunk and show your friend his ex's sites and all the guys wanting to be her Net friend....laugh, and then hug each other.
2006-09-14 22:18:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its take time and sometimes alot of it! stay positive and hang out with positive people and look forward and not back but dont look for answers in the bottom of a glass for to long!
2006-09-14 22:44:24 · answer #8 · answered by browntbath 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
2 weeks is nothing - he just needs more time - just be a good mate and keep him company when he needs it.
2006-09-14 22:13:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
get him to go out n meet other girls! a rebound! makes you feel a whole lot better and takes your mind right off the last person!x
2006-09-14 22:30:35 · answer #10 · answered by Julie Mo Bear 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋