My wife has had neumerous affairs during our years of marriage. I have tried to resolve this with her, but the reason it can never be resolved is; she just won't admit she ever done anything wrong! I have saw her with another man with my own eyes, and saw her vehicle at a motel when she was supposed to be working. If she would ever come clean and admit to it, then we could work toward a resolution. Why does she not understand that this will always be between us, and I can never trust her again knowing she lies about it. I've tried to make myself feel better and have an affair of my own, but I couldn't bring myself to do her that way. What she doesn't understand, is honesty in a relationship is everything. I love this woman, and she says she loves me, but I can't put this behind me, ever. Why is she that stubborn? This has drove me crazy, and I can't do anything but hurt. We don't have children at home. Any suggestions?
2006-09-11
02:30:27
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Marriage & Divorce