ok so i am a shy guy but have gotten very good at talking to girls through i guess forced practice lol. i make lots and lots of female friends but no one ever likes me...y not? i'm a nice guy and just want someone for my own. i try and try all the time but always fail and getting tired of it....help me out ladies.
2006-09-11 02:39:08 · 19 answers · asked by mr_fury666 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Depends on your age. If you are young, do not rush into a serious relationship! As the saying goes, play the field. Keep your options open. College is yet to come. If youre older, just use an icebreaker for a conversation and simply ask if she would like to have dinner with you. She wont bite your head off. The worse she could do is say no...
2006-09-11 02:45:43 · answer #1 · answered by Mujer Bonita 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes it's hard for a female...she wants to be wanted, but she also wants you as a friend instead. If you know a girl too long, you end up in the friend stage and they don't usually turn back from that. You should meet a girl and let her know that you like her, but want to get to know her better first. That way you establish the fact that you want her to be more than friends. Good luck.
2006-09-11 02:46:26 · answer #2 · answered by shynomore 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you are a good guy !but dont know what the problem could be ,do you tell them you are looking for a relationship ?try being more open about how you feel ,some girls have trouble with understanding shy guys .good luck hoping you find someone real special
2006-09-11 02:44:32 · answer #3 · answered by Holly 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No worries...you just havent found the right one yet. If youre a nice guy, youll end up with a great girl. That personality will take you far. Dont just go with any girl, go for the one that you REALLY like. Youll get her eventually. Dont give up.
Remember to always be sweet and dress good and brush your teeth.
2006-09-11 02:43:41 · answer #4 · answered by ~~ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude i am in the same boat as you are, i am very close to a couple of girls but they seem to prefer me as only a friend or as a pseudo-brother at best and at the begining i wasn't acustomed to it and mistaked it for the other kind of love and got broadside thrice before realizing just what and how...i am readying myself for a 4th salvo as i love one of the girls who thinks me as only a brother...man i am screwed....Good luck to you man may the wind blow always from behind(seamen's old saying).
2006-09-11 02:51:39 · answer #5 · answered by Lone Silver Wolf 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, some girls are meant to be friends and some girls are meant to be more than friends. Just hang in there bro. I know it's frustrating as hell but you will find a girl for you. Be patient, she's out there.
2006-09-11 02:42:21 · answer #6 · answered by bad_dog76 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me your make a better Big brother type then you do a boyfriend type material! Sometimes things do develop out of these type of relationships and you know that person well. WHO knows maybe one does like you more then you know and is hiding to well!!!
2006-09-11 02:43:58 · answer #7 · answered by kolowski4 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe the way you talk to them makes them think you just wanna be their friend. Try asking them questions about themselves, making it obvious you want to know more about them. Eventually, something will happen.
2006-09-11 02:44:57 · answer #8 · answered by Mirage 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's NOT uncommon- Join the club-- Just stay the course and ALWAYS BE YOURSELF. Someday the right one will come along for the RIGHT one.
2006-09-11 02:42:04 · answer #9 · answered by bart4play 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well for one ,whats your type? you need specification on what types your looking for - Do you look for their personality? Their looks? Do you like thin woman or fat woman? you say you have lots of girls who are your friends but they don't like you ? ask them why? I'm having problems with men only wanting sex, I'm looking for something Else like companionship.....And I'm 40.How old are you?
2006-09-11 05:56:18 · answer #10 · answered by sweetansassywolf 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋