ok so i'm often told that i'm a handsome guy...i work out and have a decent looking body...so what's the deal? how come i can't ever get any dates or any girls to like me?
2006-09-11 02:40:45 · 28 answers · asked by mr_fury666 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maybe you are a jerk, sometimes personality and humor really do go a long way.
2006-09-11 02:42:33 · answer #1 · answered by alis_n_1derland 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Well, I don't know - how do you go about getting dates? Bars/clubs? A gym? Work? Parties? Online personals? I would have an almost 0 chance of meeting people if it wasn't for the internet - I have a limited number of friends, work in a very small company, and don't like to go out. So, online personals have been the way to find dates - and, after 4 years, it paid off: my fiancé and I are getting married next month. Perhaps you need to look in places you haven't looked before, or change your tactics somehow.
2006-09-11 09:47:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls aren't always into looks man. Every girl finds different things on a man attractive. Some girls may like blonde hair on a guy, some may like dark hair. Some girls may like tall men some like shorter men etc.
Some girls are about material stuff and other girls could care less. It just depends on the girl. Just be patient man. You'll find someone
2006-09-11 09:45:06 · answer #3 · answered by bad_dog76 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes woman do not like pretty boys sorry to say... however, if you are cuter then the girl they may think that you willl take longer to get dress then them....they do not want someone they will have to fight over....I'm a woman and I have a problem with me coming up to me I know that I look good... not to brag on myself but I'm very pretty and guys are afraid to come up to me....maybe you should tone it down a little and look a tiny bit rough and see if that works..
Good Luck to you
2006-09-11 09:49:39 · answer #4 · answered by Tee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps you're trying too hard? Maybe you're pursuing the wrong women? Maybe you talk about your looks too much?
Looks alone do not attract intelligent, nice, confident women. Your outward appearance is only PART of the whole picture. You're going to need to do some soul searching and maybe talk to a trusted friend to get a more complete picture of why things aren't working out for you.
2006-09-11 09:43:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You maybe trying too hard...if your looking she wont show up but she will be there when you least expect it...also try going to church that's a great place to meet good, kind, loving, women that will take care of you the way a woman should....don't meet a girl at a night club they arent what you want :) good luck
2006-09-11 09:43:02 · answer #6 · answered by tinker143 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Cuz there are like a million girls to a handful of guys out there. You just havent found the right one yet. One of these days, she'll be right smack in front of you, and all you gotta do is smile, be nice and ask her if she wants to go sit and have coffee.
2006-09-11 09:46:51 · answer #7 · answered by ~~ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try being not so nice. It's funny, but being a bit arrogant and full of yourself will probably get you a girl! To be honest though, that won't necessarily attract the right type. To find a long term partner you have to be yourself and be patient. Are you looking in the right places though? You won't find someone unless you get out there and get yourself seen! Show off those assets! Good luck!
2006-09-11 09:43:52 · answer #8 · answered by claire 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
switch up your daily routine your obviously looking for girls that are attracted to you in the wrong place
take up a social hobby that involves a group of people
or something outside your normal scene
see if this makes a difference and remember
have confidence smile and always look them in the eye
2006-09-11 09:42:59 · answer #9 · answered by DeaconFrost 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its probably your technique. It could also be that you are not putting youself into a position to meet girls. Have you tried being forward with them? Better yet, get a bartending job. You will have more girls than you can handle!
2006-09-11 09:43:22 · answer #10 · answered by bradthepilot 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Looks? Do you think that's what it's all about?
Rick Morames the actor is not much to look at....Danny Devito, etc. Yet, they are ionteresting and have a life, and wives.
The real answer tis to get a life, interests, passions. Then , good looks or not, people will take an interest in you romantically and for firendships.
2006-09-11 09:43:40 · answer #11 · answered by Legandivori 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋