2006-09-11 02:25:32 · 24 answers · asked by fivefeet_fine 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Stop being dishonest with your present husband and ruining his life and yours by living a lie. Get out of the marriage you're in. Just because you still love your ex, it doesn't mean that you and he will ever get back together. But what you're doing now is really unfair.
2006-09-11 02:27:55 · answer #1 · answered by nquizzitiv 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
oh my that's not good , divorced 8 mos and remarried,well i suggest you remember why u divorced the fist time around , honestly you may always love your ex,but i think you should try to make your new marriage work if you can,if you really want your ex-back,ask yourself why,is it because he is familiar and you know his moods and what he is thinking,because if so you could have one of two problems, one is you are scared of new relationship,so maybe you got married to prove you weren't scared or maybe this is a rebound thing which you rushed into very quick and you are still hurting from the divorces,you may need closure also,so make the decision that is right for you. GOOD LUCK
2006-09-11 09:43:52 · answer #2 · answered by rachel m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The question was short, and so will be the answer: get over it. You can't enjoy the present and look forward to the future if you remain stuck in the past. Purge your mind and your heard, *make* yourself "fall out of love" with the ex, and get on with your life. You have to work to make it happen, but it's possible.
2006-09-11 09:37:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do u get urself in a rut like this? it ur second marriage a rebound? why didnt u work on the first marriage, and why r u still in love with him?
What u should do is to take time as long as u need to recover, reanalayze and rejuvenize yourself and ask what do u want in ur life.
Good luck.
2006-09-11 09:29:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. it was stupid of you to remay when you're in love with your ex still.
2. now that you are married.. it's supposed to be for better and for worst.. learn to love your husband
and tough.. !!! you should have thought about that before getting married..
3. if you are going to cheat on your husband or treat him like crap. .might as well pack your bags and leave him alone so he can meet a decent wife that love and respect him.. because obviously you don't love or respect him.
2006-09-11 09:58:07 · answer #5 · answered by Lyne B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sit down and look at the pros and cons of being with your new husband and remembering why you and your ex-husband got a divorce.
2006-09-11 09:27:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
wow sounds like a mid life deal lol ,go with the one you realy love only you can make this diss.but if you stay with what you got 3 lifes will be hurt not just 1
2006-09-11 09:29:35 · answer #7 · answered by lespaula1988 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So what led to your divorce? Why did you remarry?
2006-09-11 09:29:34 · answer #8 · answered by E. Gads 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Slow down why are you rushing around messing relationships when you dont even take care of your own emotions
Good Luck and God Bless!!
2006-09-11 10:24:00 · answer #9 · answered by msqtech 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no matter what you do if you loved him you will always be in love with him. The only real thing you can do is keep him as a friend. Trust me i know you will always love him
2006-09-11 10:18:18 · answer #10 · answered by unkown 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋