Family & Relationships - 8 September 2006

She's in her late 40's and has come to the realization that she will not be having children. So, now she's asking me "When are you going to have kids... Why don't you want a baby... But a child will bring you such an overwhelming sense of joy." When my boyfriend (who also doesn't want kids) stopped by she asked him, "When you gonna give this girl a baby?" I've tried excuses like finances, no sleep, I don't want to miss work, my apartment is too small, I'm afraid of wreckings a child's life, I'm young & may change my mind in a few years (that one is not true). I don't want to be a bwitch because I see her every day. I like kids, I just don't want any of my own.

2006-09-08 04:10:49 · 22 answers · asked by ☆skyblue 7 in Friends

He does not pay child support. Does not have a job, does drugs, and Has two previous misd. drug charges. He lives at home with his dad. His girlfriend lives with him too. She also has no job and doesn't have custody of her FIVE kids. She has also been to jail twice in the past 7 months. He only calls once a month and hasen't asked to see her since father's day. My current husband is my daughters daddy. He does everything for her, and would love to adopt her. Id there anything I can do? I am affraid if I die my dirt bag ex will get cusody of her.

2006-09-08 04:10:49 · 14 answers · asked by Kristie N 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Is this a common problem that gals face in a relationship? As the subject goes... How do you deal with it? And for guys..why is it so?
Games ..eating up all the quality time.

2006-09-08 04:10:47 · 18 answers · asked by Laetishaa 2 in Singles & Dating

Whenever I ask a question pertaining to feelings of Fathers and Husbands (i.e. Fathers, Do you feel like second class parents, or Husbands, do you feel the burden to provide for your family) women flood the answers with how their man feels. I don't usually get men posting answers on how their wives feel. Why?

2006-09-08 04:10:39 · 27 answers · asked by butnozzle 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Why is it when a guy sleeps with 5 different women in one week he's cool and all the other guys want to do the same thing and but just like him. But a women does the same thing and sleeps with 5 different guys in one week she's a trap, whore, slut, and hoe.... if i left any out she's called that too. Why the heck is theire a double standard on this and it's excepted when guys do this but as soon as a women is with 2 guys in a week she's looked donw upon. that makes no common sense to me. Can anyone try and explain this to me please.

2006-09-08 04:08:49 · 15 answers · asked by Erin O 2 in Singles & Dating

how many people here have been touched by michael jackson. i was 5 when it first happend, i didnt get it, every time a came home from the ranch my dad had a new car, and he would always send me back

2006-09-08 04:08:48 · 10 answers · asked by baseball_saenz 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-08 04:08:37 · 6 answers · asked by desi07 1 in Family

My x-boyfriend asked me to go out with him for coffee.I hadn't seen him for two months.We are apart for almost five months.He came and picked me up and we went to our favorite cafeteria.We didn't discuss anything about us and our relationship.We had a great time though, and he was really sweet.He talked about things we could do together in the future.I don't know if he ment them.We haven't discussed anything about us after we broke up,even though we keep in touch.Before two months i told him I still love him, but we haven't discussed anything about how he feels.I don't understand...

2006-09-08 04:08:31 · 8 answers · asked by yvette 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-08 04:08:13 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been having really great "sexually explicit phone conversations" with this guy for a few months now and last night we finally got to be together physically....OMG! it was awful!!! He was much better at it on the phone. He says it was great and wants to do it more often in person than on the phone. I dont know what or how to tell him that it s u c k e d. How can I tell him without putting him down?? Help!

2006-09-08 04:06:52 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

do girls give guys promise rings? my b/f gave me one a couple of months ago. do girls get them for guys??? im so confused.... some say yes some say no.... HELP!!!

2006-09-08 04:06:37 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

If you click on my picture have a look AND answer my first two questions on the m-m-f or m-f-f fantasy.

BUT as a straw poll for how many people is a three some a fantasy?

Only talking fantasy here, dont care if you have had one (lucky pigs).

P.S. i'm on IM bored and looking a chat !

2006-09-08 04:06:33 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My girlfriend is very happy girl.She catched a medium-size alive grasshoper in the field.That grasshoper was merely jumping around the field.We observed him.Immediately she told me:"look,what I will do" and she put the alive grasshoper in her mouth, closed her mouth very slowly and swallowed the grasshoper alive and unharmed.She put her hand on the buttom of her throat and it was gone . . . the alive grasshoper slided down her throat.She smiled and opened her mouth,it was empty,then she put her hand on her tummy and told me with a smile that alive grasshoper was there now.I feel very sorry for poor alive grasshoper she will die in a few minutes and should I ask her to vomit him?She told me that if I will ask she will vomit him but I don't know what to do. 2 minutes passed after it.How much time will he be alive inside her tummy? She told that she will do whatever I wish, so please suggest something quickly .It is bad feeling wnen I look at her and know that poor insect is insideher

2006-09-08 04:05:47 · 10 answers · asked by nodarchkhaiani1985 1 in Friends

Alright My ex has wrote me another thing. She says that "I know you never meant to do everything you put me through It's okay I forgive you"(The next day she wrote) It doesn't mean I don't hate you with every breathe I take. You are still the same pathetic human being." We had a nasty break up and I dont knwo if i should leave her blocked and play hard to get or Unblock her and hope she comes to her sences, your oppions?

2006-09-08 04:05:26 · 11 answers · asked by purplewingduck 2 in Singles & Dating

I've never told him anything, I don't want to hurt his feelings, but he only showers once a week! He claims that he has a dry skin condition, and that if he showers too frequently his skin gets dried out and flaky. I think this is ridiculous. I watch him put on clean clothes in the morning without having bathed in days. His body odor is awful, and to make matters worse, he's uncircumised, and giving him oral sex, (which I've stopped doing completely now), is so disgusting because there is filth caked under his foreskin. To top it all off, he has the nerve to be anal about how clean the house is. He actually inspects countertops and floors to make sure I've cleaned them! It makes me sooo angry, this disgusting man who doesn't bathe telling me I didn't clean the house thoroughly enough. I could pull out my hair!

Sorry about the venting....

2006-09-08 04:05:13 · 36 answers · asked by wifey996 1 in Marriage & Divorce

hey..i'm 25 male...sweet and kink hearted..soft spoken u can say...i think i suffer from premature ejaculation...and for the same reason i am thinking of not marrying at all..
what if i cant satisfy my wife?....it may seem ridiculous...but i think it that way..what is the percentage of men suffering by this syndrome?.....what decides a woman's satisfaction?...the longer time of penetration or something else?

2006-09-08 04:05:09 · 13 answers · asked by backstreet_boy121 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Hey its me again and yes its about my gf again (sadly)

Two good mates came to me today and told me for a week my girl friend had cheated on me but i told them she dumped me that wekk but they said when the lad dumped her she came back to me I know this is true but what should I do all answers are apreciated ... i just dont know what 2 think any more..

2006-09-08 04:03:59 · 18 answers · asked by Michael a 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-08 04:03:25 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-08 04:03:21 · 9 answers · asked by uvatropical 1 in Marriage & Divorce

thers's a damn good chance I have a daughter out there somewhere,and not knowing for sure one way or the other,is leaving a empty space in my soul.

2006-09-08 04:03:11 · 5 answers · asked by djmthafkr 1 in Family

So this girl I'm seeing has a dog, and the other night we're in the living room, and shes trying to have sex with me, and I tell her I'm not doing it in front of the dog. She's like" Are you serious." Yeah, I'm not doing it in front of a dog, go put the dog in another room. But she doesn't, and just acts pissed, I don't want a dog watching me have sex. Is this f***ed up on her part, or what?

2006-09-08 04:02:51 · 23 answers · asked by joe 3 in Singles & Dating

I'm going to a school reunion tomorrow where I will see the girl that I have been in love with since we left. She knows, girls always do, but help me,( girls especially),seriously guys, what do I say?

2006-09-08 04:01:39 · 14 answers · asked by dick g 1 in Singles & Dating

Married for 13 years. We had plenty of problems in the past, sex 1 a month if I was lucky. For the past 4 or 5 months we were having great sex and getting along much better, better than ever actually. We ordered some toys and tried new things. Now for the past month or so sex has died down, maybe a quickie once a week. Our toy has come in the mail 3 weeks ago; I don’t think she even looked at it never mind wanting to use it. Is it possible for women to thru phases that make them excited for awhile and then not so excited for awhile. I don’t understand. I have tried to talk to her about it and she told me that sometime she gets weird and she doesn’t feel turned on. Is that possible? I know some of you will be throwing in “she is cheating” and that’s ok, hell I answer some questions with comic lines too, but for those of you that can answer with a serious answer it would be appreciated.

2006-09-08 03:59:33 · 32 answers · asked by Andy S 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Our divorce was final wednesday and it is killing me. I still love him but I know there is not a chance for us. Should I move on? I went out yesterday and I accually had fun but when i got home I felt bad. Why? He still calls me and wants to talk but I think he is just trying to keep me around so I don't date someone else while he runs around and does whatever he wants to do. I would like to meet some new people but I live in a small town and I don't know where to start. I think maybe if I met someone I would stop thinking about him.

2006-09-08 03:59:21 · 6 answers · asked by JLEE 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-09-08 03:59:13 · 10 answers · asked by GrSn - a clever man 1 in Family

FROM YESTERDAY:Ok so at the end of July my best friend from another state and I got a place together. Previous to that I lived w/ my boyfriend. She doesn't know many people out here and is afraid to be at home alone. My b/f wants me to spend nights w/ him sometimes, so I made arrangements to pay my cousin to stay w/ her at our apt. and take him home the next day. The guy that she's talking to never sleeps over but will stay as late as 2am...which to me is a waste of my time and money. So now, I'm low on cash, her date is busy tonite, and my b/f wants time w/ me tonite!!! What should I do b/c now my man is pissed and feels she's interferring w/ our relationship......

SO LAST NIGHT I CALLED AND TOLD HER I'M W/ MY BF ...SHE HUNG UP AND TEXTED ME "**** YOU AND UR BF..I DON'T KNOW Y I'M UR FRIEND..I SHOULD MOVE" WHAT'S HER PROBLEM?? WHAT SHOULD I DO?? IS SHE CRAZY B/C NOW EVERYONE THINKS SHE HAS "PROBLEMS"...GRRR!!!! NOW I HAVE TO GO HOME TO THIS TONITE! I'M FEEL I'M GONNA GO OFF! HELP

2006-09-08 03:58:50 · 11 answers · asked by Nicole M 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend has a daughter by some other chick before me, and up until recently he was skeptical about me being around with his daughter around. So I spent the day with him and his daughter, bought her a gift and everything, and everything was going great. But towards the end of the day he started acting funny...he wouldn't even hug me or kiss me goodbye because of a simple joke that he laughed at with me about his shirt being too small and he hasn't called me in two days....should I be worried?

2006-09-08 03:58:39 · 17 answers · asked by Cathy 4 in Singles & Dating

and did you apologize for it after you saw the consequences of your actions?

2006-09-08 03:58:36 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Me n my partner will be getting married in around a months time to go in the army, it is very short notice for us, and we are currently on benefits, we need to know some cheap places which sell all wedding things we will need, does anyone know any online or offline please? we r in the uk. thanks.

2006-09-08 03:58:31 · 16 answers · asked by danny s 1 in Marriage & Divorce

a lot of things.

2006-09-08 03:58:15 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating