FROM YESTERDAY:Ok so at the end of July my best friend from another state and I got a place together. Previous to that I lived w/ my boyfriend. She doesn't know many people out here and is afraid to be at home alone. My b/f wants me to spend nights w/ him sometimes, so I made arrangements to pay my cousin to stay w/ her at our apt. and take him home the next day. The guy that she's talking to never sleeps over but will stay as late as 2am...which to me is a waste of my time and money. So now, I'm low on cash, her date is busy tonite, and my b/f wants time w/ me tonite!!! What should I do b/c now my man is pissed and feels she's interferring w/ our relationship......
SO LAST NIGHT I CALLED AND TOLD HER I'M W/ MY BF ...SHE HUNG UP AND TEXTED ME "**** YOU AND UR BF..I DON'T KNOW Y I'M UR FRIEND..I SHOULD MOVE" WHAT'S HER PROBLEM?? WHAT SHOULD I DO?? IS SHE CRAZY B/C NOW EVERYONE THINKS SHE HAS "PROBLEMS"...GRRR!!!! NOW I HAVE TO GO HOME TO THIS TONITE! I'M FEEL I'M GONNA GO OFF! HELP
2006-09-08 03:58:50 · 11 answers · asked by Nicole M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Your so called friend does not want to see you happy with your boyfriend.
2006-09-08 04:01:37 · answer #1 · answered by DiamondXxx 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to be with your boyfriend or have plans I am sure this women (should be a women) can maintain on her own if not, it seems that she does have issues. Don't fly off the handle have a heart to heart with her and see if you can get to the bottom of what she is fearing (she is not a child I would not be paying a sitter for her) and try not to make it your problem whatever her concerns is see if you guys can work it out without you sacraficing your social status and without her feeling some type of way towards you for having a life. If that fails I say make you happy and have her get her own place and you continue on. You never really trully know someone until you have lived with them.
2006-09-08 04:09:27 · answer #2 · answered by zawadi20022002 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She seems to attached to u. I'm sorry but she shouldn't be like that with you. She needs to understand that you need quality time with your bf. She shouldn't be getting mad like that. She's a grown women so why does she need u there all the time. She need professional help. If I were you I would consider moving out soon if she doesn't change.
2006-09-08 04:03:55 · answer #3 · answered by Grace Q. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to get a life & stop interfering in yours. If she's threatening to move because you want to spend time with your boyfriend, let her. She doesn't sound like a very good friend.
2006-09-08 04:08:42 · answer #4 · answered by Annabelle418 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah see your friend is crazy and she needs to get a grip. Eventually she'll ahve to get used ot be on her own so why not start now?
2006-09-08 04:04:29 · answer #5 · answered by Cathy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your her friend not her mother,babysitter,caretaker HER FRIEND.How old is she 2,You need to be with your bf and if she scared being alone maybe it time she move back home or meet people.hope everything works out for you
2006-09-08 04:06:45 · answer #6 · answered by Nails 4 breakfast,tacks 4 snacks 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh god! been there.. why don't you talk to her nicely and give her your reasons..
but first, tell your man to take it easy.. as its suppose to be your problems with your frenz.. he cant intefere.. or it'll be a lot worse between you and your friend.
juz tell her that you need your own time wit your bf.. and she suppose to understand..
if she doesn't want to listen.. juz move on.. she'll come around..
2006-09-08 04:04:50 · answer #7 · answered by darlie_davel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her to grow up... Being an adult involves taking care of yourself sometimes, and not expecting others to be a permanent baby sitter! :) You go girl!
2006-09-08 04:03:02 · answer #8 · answered by lily 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell here you feel need some help
2006-09-08 04:03:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
r u nicole morrow, tenessee ?
2006-09-08 04:00:15 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋