Hey its me again and yes its about my gf again (sadly)
Two good mates came to me today and told me for a week my girl friend had cheated on me but i told them she dumped me that wekk but they said when the lad dumped her she came back to me I know this is true but what should I do all answers are apreciated ... i just dont know what 2 think any more..
2006-09-08 04:03:59 · 18 answers · asked by Michael a 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If this is what it looks you better end up crap like this, when you are ready. What your mates told you maybe true, but what I know often there are 2 sides of the truth. I can't know if the truth is right here, or you have missed something somewhere. If you ask two people who've had a argument separately, they have a clear point. If she is treating you as second best, or worse still, it's not very likely to work out anyway. You can carry on if you love her so much, or you can choose to never have anything to do with her again, or you can keep her until you've had enough, and ready to move on. The last may spoil quite a bit of life for you.
If you do decide that you will be seing her again, which personally I don't believe will do you much good, I suggest that you have straighforward answers from her: what made her leave and why the hell does she want you back.
2006-09-08 05:06:54 · answer #1 · answered by shortnotsilly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should, do what is in your heart to do.But keep in mind if she cheats once she will cheat again.Do you really want to go through all that again? You do deserve better and can get better. Life is full of unexpected pleasures you just have to explore the possibilities.Move on honey.
2006-09-08 04:09:48 · answer #2 · answered by jojo91455 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What ever the reason if anyone cheat in love is not forgive able. If it is me i throw her away from my life. I won't go back to her in my life anymore. But it is you.. I don't know what you will do... Because giving advice will be easy but i know it will be very hard to make those advice come true. But that is very best decision if you make it.
2006-09-08 04:09:03 · answer #3 · answered by mswathi1025 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go fishing in a new pond, There are better fish there than the one youhave been with.
Do your best to walk away and forget her which will be hard. you probably will always have some thjoughts. once a cheater, will more than likely to continue and you will be the one wi th hurts not her. get going guy find a good woman.
2006-09-08 04:11:49 · answer #4 · answered by apostle1938 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel for you. No one wants to be a second choice. Just ask Sami on Days of Our Lives....LOL! Anyway, no matter how hard it will be, I suggest you move on and find someone else. If she has done this, it is very likely that she will do it again.
2006-09-08 04:08:17 · answer #5 · answered by dollfacedbaby1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to hear it geezer. Forget her. Move on.
You really think shes worth all the agro she's putting you through.
Someones out there waiting for yeah, and she will treat you like a diamond. This ones playing yeah. Don't be a mug.
2006-09-08 17:50:02 · answer #6 · answered by er_opps_again 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get rid darling coz when a nother guy comes along shes going to do it again it sounds like she with you to pass a bit of time till someone else comes a long dont waste your time go out and find a nice lady
2006-09-08 04:12:59 · answer #7 · answered by cheryl b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay away from this girl. Go out with your friends, have a good laugh, you'll soon meet someone else. Don't ever waste your time on people who make you feel sad... Good luck (but you wont need it)
2006-09-08 04:12:51 · answer #8 · answered by Jackie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its hard mate but get yourself a little dignity out of the situation and tell her where to stick it!
you will forget her eventually and at least you can walk away head held high and not get dragged into a sh*t place
2006-09-08 04:08:06 · answer #9 · answered by DEMON 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are ok with being second best, then go for it. But it sounds like she's not serious about you and would leave you again.
Move on.
2006-09-08 04:09:58 · answer #10 · answered by shorty tacos 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋