I'm going to a school reunion tomorrow where I will see the girl that I have been in love with since we left. She knows, girls always do, but help me,( girls especially),seriously guys, what do I say?
2006-09-08 04:01:39 · 14 answers · asked by dick g 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hi, I've missed seeing you everyday! How have you been?! "Big smile"
2006-09-08 04:04:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't give much background information to be of much help to you. Which reunion is this ? 5 years ? 10 years ? .. Are you married ? Do you know if she is married ? .. If she knows you are in love with her .. then you also know if she likes you as a friend , or if you are just a bother to her. The best way to approach it is to just mill around the crowd for a while, and then just go up to her and say "hello, how have you been doing ? " .. The conversation will flow naturally from there. Good luck ! :)
2006-09-08 11:05:35 · answer #2 · answered by tysavage2001 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well for God's sake don't spill it all and tell her...lol That would scare the hell out of anybody. I would just approach her and ask her how she has been doing. If you can start up a conversation you will know whether first of all she is currently single, and secondly if she seems happy to see and speak to you whether or not she would be interested in getting together sometime to catch up. If she seems excited about talking to you then you may have a shot but if she politely refuses then you have your answer and you need to move on........I mean really it has been at least 10 years. Don't put her in a position where she has to spell it out for you. Go with your gut and use some common sense. I wish you good luck.
2006-09-08 11:07:14 · answer #3 · answered by amyclay350 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did she ever go out with you during the time you went to school together? If she would not accept invitations to go out with you then, then when you see her tomorrow I would say 'hello' to her, but then go on about enjoying the party. This should make her go "hmmmmm, he's different this time", and hopefully she will come to you and want to talk more. If she doesn't, she may already be involved with someone else. Don't go there drooling all over her and following her around ... it doesn't look good for guys to do that, or girls.
2006-09-08 11:09:12 · answer #4 · answered by son-shine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her out! What a perfect opportunity - you're at a school reunion, chatting about old times, having a laugh. Suggest going out next week to catch up on what you're doing now, or whatever. You don't even need to say it's for catch up purposes, if you're sure she knows you're interested then just ask her...Nothing to lose.
I think you will kick yourself if you don't, and even if it doesn't go the way you want, you'll never regret trying.
Aw, it's so romantic!! Good luck x
2006-09-08 11:35:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You HAVE TO play it cool...if you think she knows that you like her, she is expecting you to just follow her around the whole night. You need her to go up to you, do not go up to her...or if that doesn't work, make sure you make your rounds first and then go up to her to say hi. This will catch her off guard and will probably work in your favor.
In regards to "what do you say", ask her about what she has been up to; see what her successes are, ask her specific questions, nothing like "so, what's new?" You need to be original and you need to stand out. All in all, when you are talking to her, be confident, but don't be cocky. Lastly, if things aren't going your way, don't try to change it for the better, let it run its course because you can only make things worse.
2006-09-08 11:08:08 · answer #6 · answered by flyboop_2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask the girl out! You could be the perfect man for her! Try to keep the love thing out of it at first. There is always the possiblity that she doesn't really know. She could have some feelings for you as well!
2006-09-08 11:06:55 · answer #7 · answered by crandle55 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Hello again. Long time no see, how are you? You work in a super market, have 8 kids - thats great! Me? Ive made my millions as a tantric sex instructor, married a bi-sexual porn star and Ive never been happier. See ya" Well thats how I see mine going. Anyone know how one becomes a tantric sex instructor?
2006-09-08 11:24:15 · answer #8 · answered by AaronO 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be cool...if u get nervous the girl won't like it...try talking to her like a human. make a joke or two and smile nice. what is it with guys and not knowing what to do around a girl? we're not maneaters and we're not breaking hearts on purpose.
2006-09-08 11:06:29 · answer #9 · answered by aura_teal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
General conversation always works best.... "hi how have you been?" "I'm fine myself...." Blah Blah Blah. Don't think too much about it.
2006-09-08 11:05:42 · answer #10 · answered by Cathy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋