Family & Relationships - 8 September 2006

i am seeing a guy . who had been my very good friend in past . initially we two really had good tome together .shared our feeling .loved to spend time together . but when it came to getting seroius about marriage and things ,he started making all possible excuses he could . at times it seems that he is a real trouble with his profesional life but next very moment he seems to just ignore the things and try to escape it as long as possible . why is he doing that .

2006-09-08 18:00:09 · 22 answers · asked by sarah 2 in Singles & Dating

My bf of a year and seven months cheated on me. Because of that our relationship isn't the same anymore. I'm trying to forgive him but it'd still in the back of my mind. I guess I don't truly trust that he isn;t going to do that again. There's this other guy that I met. We meat thru mutual friends, he is my neighboor. When we met on the party, we talked the whole night. We sms now from time to time and I began to wonder what would happen if I gave him a chance. The thing is, he knows my bf and I also don't want him to think he's a rebound guy. It;s all complicated so any advice would be nice.

2006-09-08 17:59:40 · 11 answers · asked by maya 4 in Singles & Dating

You stick by that advice or saying...

2006-09-08 17:58:49 · 16 answers · asked by NOTurBFF!! 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

Say you're still at a young college stage and you're in a serious relationship. You're going to grow and change quite a bit. Does this automatically mean that your relationship is doomed?

2006-09-08 17:58:48 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok is it weird that i think that guys backs r hot nd instead of the eyes being the thing that attracts me 2 a guy its the back? like a wide shoulder then a small waist

2006-09-08 17:57:12 · 14 answers · asked by jess 2 in Singles & Dating

a good friend of mine her and i lost some contact over the past year i moved and moved back so we started talking again about two weeks ago. she is going through a seperation right now and called me to help her out and watch the kids for her. I suggested we do a movie night at her house for old times and catch up. she said it sounded like a good idea..I called her three days ago left a message telling her i was off from work till mon if she needed help with anything to call me and see if she wanted the movie night this weekend. i have not heard back from her still.. im not sure if she was just using me and would like some advice to know if i should call her to see if she still wants to get together any advice appreciated

2006-09-08 17:56:40 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

my boyfriend and i have been together for over 3 years. he doesn't want to get married again, due to past failed marriages. i feel like i am being punished for that. i work almost 12 hours a day, 5 days a week, i come home, and do the housework, and sometimes cook, and help my kids with their homework, (his only visit every other week), and i do the shopping, errands, etc.. the main problem is that he is not affectionate. he is having issues at work, and has taken on a promotion, which keeps him at work almost all day and night. i do love him, but i am almost at that breaking point. if i am doing the majority of the work, and trying to keep our relationship and the household together, and it's putting a strain on me as well, what can i do? should i stay, and keep taking it in, or should i go? oh, did i mention we are not sexually active? he does not like sex, and i am a very affectionate, loving and sexual person. Is love enough in my situation? I have not cheated, and don't plan to.

2006-09-08 17:56:30 · 12 answers · asked by Justagirlfromcali 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

What do you all think it means when a boyfriend says that he is supposedly going to a barwith th fellas and then he is not going to get drunk when he usually does get drunk and that he is going to be the designated driver. Does he have a girl with him? But he spends hours from like 10-3am in a bar. He tells me that I can call him anytime. I call and call and call but no answer. THis makes me think that something is up. When he finally does answer I dont here any bar music, so he says that the music was loud and he is somewhere ?!?! I mean what really happens in bars and clubs b/c I really don't go. I don't want to nag him when he goes out every weekend but I always think that something is up when hr doesn't answer his phone, I men is the music that loud in a little bar that he is supposeldy at? What do you think is going on. Please tell me what goes down at bars. If you are not going to driink at a bar why be there all night and not drink? What is really going on?

2006-09-08 17:55:54 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I am a white girl who grew up in a family that didn't approve of blacks dating whites. I never have found black guys attractive until about a year ago and now i have a real big thing for them and no one knows this, but my friends. I don't know how to let my parents know that I like black guys without them throwing me out of the house and disowning me. I am not dating a black guy, but i have liked some and just couldn't date them just for the fact i didn't know what to tell my parents or family members. So if you guys know what to do then answer this! Thxs!

2006-09-08 17:55:51 · 24 answers · asked by Shooting Star 2 in Singles & Dating

do you mind if they do or not?

2006-09-08 17:55:25 · 9 answers · asked by happy1here♥ 5 in Singles & Dating

we bouth used to like each other . when he taught that i was playn the fool with him. but i realy love him and want him to go out again.

2006-09-08 17:54:18 · 2 answers · asked by Amandajules A 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Next weekend I have a good friend who is coming out here to visit me. Now there is a chance that we may end up having sex. The problem is that just today she told me that she had gotten chlomitia back in july but that she had gotten rid of it (by getting some shot or something). And the day before that we were on the phone and I was just playing around and asked her how many guys she has slept with in the last year. I didn't really want to know but then she told me that the number was ten guys. Up to now I had always thought that she was a "good girl" type. I'm not stupid, I figured she had probably slept with a few guys here and there, but ten. I don't know about you but that seems like a lot to me, way to many. She has already bought the ticket to come out here, but my question is, should I sleep with her? I really don't think I should, I mean that is like playing russian roulet with your life. Am I just being to cautious or should I really just not sleep with her?

2006-09-08 17:53:24 · 26 answers · asked by the_world_is_yours44 2 in Singles & Dating

He has tons of toys (some that he doesn't even play with). I want something that will make him scream with delight that isn't a toy. Does such a thing exist?

2006-09-08 17:53:12 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

me and my bestfriend are both 15. we have known echother since 4th grade. i was on her photobucket album to find pics of me and her to put on my myspace. & i saw a lot of nude pics of her on there i was really shocked because shes not like that. what should i do should i tell her parents? i mean what if there is some freak staring at them or she might be sending them to someone. i dont want to embarrass but what should i do and how should i tell her i know about the pics & she should stop putting themm in the internet?!

2006-09-08 17:52:19 · 12 answers · asked by <3 1 in Friends

there are some girls at school and they always start rumors and talk behind my back, it gets really annoying but i never say anything, i don't know why they hate me so much we used to be friends but not anymore. i have never done anything to make them feel this, way and i would understand if i did. the only reason i can think of why they hate me is because i have made a lot of new different kinds of friends in school, and am doing better academically then they are, some people say they are just jealous of me, but i am really tired of them acting like 3rd graders and just wish that they would be more mature and get over it already. the things they do really bug me, and I need to know of a way for it not to bother me so much, what do you thik i should do?

2006-09-08 17:50:57 · 14 answers · asked by blinkdan04 2 in Friends

Someone at work said there was like an 800 number I could call to receive child support money even if I couldn't find my ex-spouse...

2006-09-08 17:50:35 · 2 answers · asked by tcl7189 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

after the date you two go home in seperate vehicles you get home and you see you have a message on your cellphone or your house phone its from him, you hear the message and the message is that he just wanted to make sure you got home alright.

2006-09-08 17:50:06 · 25 answers · asked by Remedy 1 in Singles & Dating

me and my sister are getting payed to buy our own stuff(food, clothes, etc...) and since she's a senior she's going to be spending most of our budget. I dont want to be greedy but I dont think she should get more of OUR budget than I do... it automatically goes into her bank account so I have no control over it. any suggestions? thanks in advance.

2006-09-08 17:48:43 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

ok how old do you think is to young to date? and whould you ask someone younger then you if you really like them say your three grands older then the person? whould you?

2006-09-08 17:47:11 · 16 answers · asked by Britt 2 in Singles & Dating

i have a new frenz,she's quiet nice,but like to control myself in whatever i do,quiet surprise my sis never do like this before...it make me tension....help me!!

2006-09-08 17:46:38 · 1 answers · asked by anna 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I used to be good friends with this girl back when we were freshmen....well I really liked this guy...she knew it and when we went to a party I caught her sitting on his lap kissing his neck..I ended up moving...fast-forward to today we are both seniors now...I moved back and I thought maybe she grew up...well I started talking to the same guy....and I know he is into me....last week he was gonna come to my place I had asked him over myspace...she said that she emailed him to find out what he thought of me...she said that he was really into me..that was 2 weeks ago...he now left to bootcamp....yesterday she asked me to delete her myspace cause her computer was broken....well I know I shouldn't have but I checked the emails that she had told me about..she was sending really detailed mails saying that she wanted to f**k him and her man didnt do the job right...I rather just blow it off...and in the mails he wasnt interested...and when he returns we are going out...should I confront her?

2006-09-08 17:45:33 · 13 answers · asked by a.john89 2 in Singles & Dating

Wutsup everyone. alright, im 15, and me and this girl have been tlakin for maybe 2 months and we both really like eachother. I plan on asking her out soon, probably tomorrow, but im unsure of what to say. Should i just be straight forward and say "Will you go out with me?" or something like "Will you be my girlfriend?" I was thinking about "Will you be my girlfriend" cuz it doesnt sound so.. cheesy? Idk, cant find the word for it.

But yea, basically i want to ask her out, but not sound like a dumbass while doing it. Any tips on what to say would be great. Also what would be a good time? Maybe when were lieing on the couch together watchin a movie? (like when were cuddling, you know :P) Any help would be great. Thanks!

2006-09-08 17:43:42 · 9 answers · asked by MainEvent028 1 in Singles & Dating

i neeD ADVICE. THERE IS THIS GIRL IN MY HOMEROOM.I LIKE HER SO MUCH! I JUST WANT TO YELL IT TO THE WORLD.
I NEED MORE ADVICE ON HOW TO ASK HER TO THE DANCE.

2006-09-08 17:43:26 · 17 answers · asked by atl_braves_lover 1 in Singles & Dating

This boy and i at my church hang out all the time... we tlk to each other and just basically do everything together when were at church. My sunday school tchr came up to mea nd said "That boy that u hand out with has the hots for you". I have been praying for a sign if he likes me or not... would you consider that a sign? To give ya an example of what we do together: he has an ipod... but he is very pretective of it... he will only let me listen to it at church and only i can hold it...

2006-09-08 17:43:00 · 12 answers · asked by Chelly 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

know you don't like her?

2006-09-08 17:42:35 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

do we really need to have people around who many a times hurt us and ignor us cant we live without such painfull relations

2006-09-08 17:41:20 · 9 answers · asked by sarah 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-08 17:41:18 · 16 answers · asked by Brooke2009 1 in Singles & Dating

is the gap 2 much?

2006-09-08 17:40:58 · 9 answers · asked by jess 2 in Singles & Dating

It's from 1938- white gold VSI 1, color G, 1.01 carat - for $ 10,000.00

2006-09-08 17:40:37 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

so i have known this one girl since kindagarden. but i dont wanna just be her friend i wanna be more then that. but every time i get next to her i always chicken out. i really wanna tell her before its too late please tell me from your experience


thankyou

2006-09-08 17:40:22 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends