What do you all think it means when a boyfriend says that he is supposedly going to a barwith th fellas and then he is not going to get drunk when he usually does get drunk and that he is going to be the designated driver. Does he have a girl with him? But he spends hours from like 10-3am in a bar. He tells me that I can call him anytime. I call and call and call but no answer. THis makes me think that something is up. When he finally does answer I dont here any bar music, so he says that the music was loud and he is somewhere ?!?! I mean what really happens in bars and clubs b/c I really don't go. I don't want to nag him when he goes out every weekend but I always think that something is up when hr doesn't answer his phone, I men is the music that loud in a little bar that he is supposeldy at? What do you think is going on. Please tell me what goes down at bars. If you are not going to driink at a bar why be there all night and not drink? What is really going on?
2006-09-08 17:55:54 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
nuthing much is going on. but you are definitely being cheated upon.
y do u have to call several times b4 he gets the phone - why ther's no music in background.
ask him to take you with him a couple times. find out his favourite bars and secretly set a raid on him. u'll find out whss truth.
being in a bar and not drinking all night is another foolish excuse.
you seem to be inexperienced. don trust him - not even 10%.
2006-09-08 18:38:09 · answer #1 · answered by i don know y 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-12 05:12:39 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him. You need a guy who wants to spend his weekends with you not in a " bar " hooking up with other people.
2006-09-08 17:58:09 · answer #3 · answered by Pantherempress 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is not going to drink than he is going to meet girls, move on.
2006-09-08 18:34:55 · answer #4 · answered by puertoricout 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋