me and my bestfriend are both 15. we have known echother since 4th grade. i was on her photobucket album to find pics of me and her to put on my myspace. & i saw a lot of nude pics of her on there i was really shocked because shes not like that. what should i do should i tell her parents? i mean what if there is some freak staring at them or she might be sending them to someone. i dont want to embarrass but what should i do and how should i tell her i know about the pics & she should stop putting themm in the internet?!
2006-09-08 17:52:19 · 12 answers · asked by <3 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
yea i should be worried cuz her photobucket account is set to "public" that means every1 can see them
2006-09-08 17:56:15 · update #1
Nude pics of a minor are illegal, if they are not purely innocent in nature. Posted on the web -- not healthy! I would talk to her, say you were shocked, ask what's going on. If you think an adult took the pictures, then tell someone! Your friend probably needs some intervention.
2006-09-08 17:54:34 · answer #1 · answered by Kay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh my gosh that must have been a shocker to see your best friend naked. It is important that either tell her there are laws about child pornography if she doesn't remove the pictures tell her parents. It's illegal and unsafe to do such a thing . There are a bunch of perverts out there just waiting to do something bad to 15 year old girls who choose to post nude pics on the net.
In the porn industry the models are over 18 and in some states you have to be 18 or 21 to view it.
She's asking for trouble. Especaily on a site that is so popular and millions of people see everyday.
Maybe you should tell her about the reasons I gave you. good luck
2006-09-08 18:05:50 · answer #2 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude try to remove those pics as fast as u can & try to advice ur friend she had made the biggest mistake in here life advise the possibilities of spywares and thefts. Warn her the serious consequences if her pics go public man what if other friends also view her pic dude u both r only 15 u both could like get expe;lled from school man remove them man remove them before more harms r done. be careful be very careful
2006-09-08 21:43:31 · answer #3 · answered by aswin k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest with her but not to her parents! That is for her to tell not you! Tell her you are worried about her. By telling the parents or anyone else, it will embarrass her and I don't think that is what you are looking to do since you have been friends with her so long. You should definitely talk to her about it if it weighs on you so heavy!
2006-09-08 17:57:16 · answer #4 · answered by sixfoot8bkr 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Approach her about it first. Talk to her and explain your concerns about it. You are a true friend for caring. If she values your friendship she'll listen to you and at the very least give you an explanation.
If after talking to her and you are still worried about it, try talking to your parents about it and see if they wouldn't go talk to her parents about it. Her parents may appreciate it more if it came from another adult.
Good luck!
2006-09-08 17:56:59 · answer #5 · answered by MYSTICHROME 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
no, i think she just seeks attention perhaps a desperate cry of lust. or it could me part of art. if their pornographic in nature you should confront her and convince her that that is not the path she can walk down without repercussion.
if you confront her parents you will inevitably burn the bridge between you and her and destroy her trust. after wards she may rebel and find darker roads
2006-09-08 18:00:30 · answer #6 · answered by prophet8724 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SHE NEEDS HELP TELL HER PARENTS FIRST TELL HER THAT YOU KNOW ABOUT THE PICS AND THAT YOU ARE GOING TO TELL HER PARENTS FOR HER OWN GOOD SHE WILL MOST LIKELY GET REAL MAD BUT YOU SHOULD NOT CARE SHE NEEDS HELP SHE PUT THOSE PICS UP THERE SHE IS WHO SHE IS YOU JUST FOUND OUT
2006-09-08 17:57:11 · answer #7 · answered by Irene 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you should tell her parents because like you had said what if their is some sicko looking at them and if something happened to her you would feel bad. She may get made but she will get over it.
2006-09-08 17:56:10 · answer #8 · answered by randrnorman 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You need to tell her that you are worried about her safety. Tell her that if she doesn't remove the pictures, you will have to tell her parents. Then do it.
2006-09-08 17:54:35 · answer #9 · answered by notyou311 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well, if you tell her parents you may loose her as a friend
if you dont, we all may loose her
take the high road, she may hate you for now, but will thank you in the end
2006-09-08 17:56:00 · answer #10 · answered by capollar 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋