Family & Relationships - 8 September 2006

I have tried to tell my brother, because he is my closet friend inside my family, but he looked at me funny, and I was afraid of that The only people that I have told were: my best friend, and my parents. My mom was understanding, and so was my sep-father. But my grand parents, and my aunt like to gossip, even though I fell comfortable around them. So I konw, that if I tell one of them, everybody in my family knows. And on top of it all, sometimes, my emotions get the best of me.
Everybody knows how teenagers can be when you come out the closet, and your confused. They like to take advantage of it by making fun of you, hurting your feelings. I'm afraid, that if I do come out, everybody won't except me, and that will twist with my mind alot, especially with my emotions. I will start to feel like an outcast, and I don't want that feeling.

2006-09-08 18:15:27 · 21 answers · asked by desean_2010 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-08 18:15:22 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've just moved to Melbourne from Scotland via Adelaide. Before I went to Adelaide, I met (slept with, heh) a guy in melbourne and we kept in touch for the few months I was over there.
I decided to go back to Melbourne because I liked it here and figured if I hate Adelaide and I'm only going to be in Oz for a year, I might as well go back.
So I get here and its cool for about 10 minutes, then he starts acting like a dickhe@d,
I dont really want to be with a dickhe@d, BUT, he is pretty much the only friend (or whatever) I have here just now. He was cool before and I dont understand why someone would keep in touch with me, be all exited when I told him I was going to move back here and trave 400 miles to visit me in Adelaide only to completely dismiss me when I get here.
I'm in the city now and really want to give him a call but I still feel confused as to why he is acting this way. My brain is saying "ditch him", but I may already have been ditched. Dunno what to do. Guys??

2006-09-08 18:14:30 · 9 answers · asked by lilredhead 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-08 18:13:22 · 5 answers · asked by persian26 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband had on ongoing affair and several one night stands. I want to hate him but I love him to much to just give up on the 12 years we have been together. There are kids to think about also. It has been a month since I found out we have been to counseling. I feel like he can't move on that he can't let go of his guilt. I mean how can I forgive him if he can't forgive himself. He is here in the house with me we sleep in the same bed but he seems so far away it is like there is an invisible wall between us. I want this to work but I don't know what to do. If anyone has been in this situation your advise would be appreciated.

2006-09-08 18:12:07 · 36 answers · asked by confused 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband and I have been married for 6 years... He loves to have sex everyday .....However I do not only want it like once a month... he gets really upset about this and I dont want to hurt his feelings but I just dont like to have sex... Hes 56 and I'm 25 How can I please him and myself at the same time

2006-09-08 18:11:29 · 30 answers · asked by Tee 3 in Marriage & Divorce

her uncle who is a cop wants 2 marry her urgently. to avoid this i have to marry her b4 that. but her age is the only problem what can i do?

2006-09-08 18:11:18 · 13 answers · asked by bharath 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I feel fine but mom thinks I'm raely pissed coz my sis will get married b4 me

she keeps telling every1 that I am sad and down

what can I do?

2006-09-08 18:10:53 · 8 answers · asked by Ms.genuine 2 in Family

everytime i see him i like him more and hes definately border line flirting...what do i do? Hes a year older too.

2006-09-08 18:10:44 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i have this girl i like who i see alot around here and there but she's always with her best friend or other girls ( as friends only ) but i only know her and her best friend not any of those other girls but i can't just jump into their conversation so what do i do i really like her but i can't seem to have alot of times for just me and her and also how do i ask her if she's free but i just found out that she's always going to be busy helping out with this soccer team every saturday until november so what do i do!!!!!! help please

2006-09-08 18:10:44 · 5 answers · asked by cokiepokie 2 in Friends

He says he loves me and doesn't want to be with anybody else but he's not "in love" even though we've been dating for over a year. He says that it takes time to fall "in love" but I think if it was going to happen, it already would have.

2006-09-08 18:10:34 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-08 18:10:21 · 3 answers · asked by notchydaddy1 2 in Singles & Dating

or tell them you want to see other people after a 2yr relationship?

2006-09-08 18:10:12 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Well, recently my ex-boyfriend and I had broke up like 2 days ago, and we brke up for the dumbest reason ever. I don't know why, call me selfish, but whenever he is having such a fun time with his friends I get really pist because he starts acting different. And I hate that crap. So one night when I called him he didn't pick up, and i called hsi friends and they ddint pick up either, and i called his house and his grandpa said he's not home, which was fu*ken BULLSH*T! So I went over there that ight to get my puppy's bed and stuff, and i knocked on his window to call him, and what a surprise, I see him and his friends, and I got mad, and i knocked on the window again, but this time the window BROKE in many pieces. And I was so frustrated because it was an accident. And he ran out yelling and talk sh*t, and I was made but I didnt apologize really, all I did was yell back! I feel so bad, and his amily hates me now. and its hard to move on. he had abused me in the past many times. 1 1/2 yr

2006-09-08 18:10:04 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

that mean.

2006-09-08 18:09:15 · 18 answers · asked by polobaby 2 in Singles & Dating

I do want to make out yet we have been dating for 2 days so now he wanted to tell me something but said to forgit it shouldi dump him because he might dump me for not making out with him? or wait for him to dump me?

2006-09-08 18:09:06 · 13 answers · asked by Lost In This World 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

If a guy or anyone for that matter compliments you on your eyes but they are colored contacts should you feel special?! kind of a random question i know!

2006-09-08 18:09:01 · 12 answers · asked by bethany_8_5 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-08 18:08:38 · 11 answers · asked by sarah 2 in Marriage & Divorce

treating him he said lets be friends and since i am showing him this friendship (we ****** okay for 3wks as a relationship) and its killing me since i didnt let him come over tonite he is being cold is he throwing it back to me since i didnt envite him over ? he gets mad when i talk boout others but we suppose to be friends HELP PLEASE HELPWE STARTED AS FRIENDS END AT A SC RELATIONSHIP

2006-09-08 18:08:27 · 8 answers · asked by Judy D 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-08 18:08:11 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

But Im going to ask again for a dating type answer.

Smiling......does that really appeal to people you want to attract?

I dont really smile a whole lot, and Im wondering...does it appeal?

2006-09-08 18:07:22 · 23 answers · asked by awall71688 1 in Singles & Dating

i was sitting next to myfriend and heard the entire conversation, i asked my friend to ask him various questions like weather or not he would like to have a threesome with my roommate and i. then i asked him what he talked about he claimed that he didnt remember after i heard her ask him to promise not to tell and im pretty sure he was aware what they were talking about.

2006-09-08 18:06:16 · 18 answers · asked by kitten4cobain 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-08 18:06:04 · 20 answers · asked by mother of 1 1 in Weddings

im not, and i cant stand girls that are

2006-09-08 18:04:40 · 5 answers · asked by Vanessa A 1 in Singles & Dating

Why do girls especially in high school hate eachother? I literally don't get it. I get jealous of another girl, but i don't hate her. What satisfaction do these girls get by calling eachother b*tches? It just makes no sense...

2006-09-08 18:04:29 · 17 answers · asked by Kate 2 in Friends

Would you choose to be a single person forever? Why or why not?

2006-09-08 18:02:41 · 11 answers · asked by Yay for Summer 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

HOW CAN ONE DEVELOP HIGHER SELF ESTEEM?

2006-09-08 18:02:11 · 27 answers · asked by Ultimate Diva 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

i am seeing a guy . who had been my very good friend in past . initially we two really had good tome together .shared our feeling .loved to spend time together . but when it came to getting seroius about marriage and things ,he started making all possible excuses he could . at times it seems that he is a real trouble with his profesional life but next very moment he seems to just ignore the things and try to escape it as long as possible . why is he doing that .

2006-09-08 18:01:59 · 6 answers · asked by sarah 2 in Singles & Dating

Well, here is the deal...my girlfriend has this really pretty girl who is her best friend and whenever she would hang out with us, I was very attracted to her. Well overtime we got to know eachother and I asked her out for a few times so I could get to know her better without my girlfriend being there to distract us. Well, we ended up kissing and things like that and she asked if I felt guilty and I was like no I don't b/c I found her very attractive and if a guy wants to have two girls he should be able to. Except now I found out that my girlfriend is jealous and sees her as a rival but really i like my girlfriend too, I just wanted to have two women so it was nothing against her. This lady at work found out and she said I was really wrong in doing that and messed up in the head. Was I really that wrong? It seemed okay to me.

2006-09-08 18:01:54 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

It says that it's better for long trips, avoiding dirty public restrooms, long lines that make women miss shows, etc. It also has quotes from women (ages 20's and 30's) saying how dry they feel and quiet and the material is thin, no odor, no one knows, etc.

The author of the article quotes someone from Kimberly Clark (they make Depends) saying that about 5-10% of their customer service calls are from women like this. They have no incontinent problem at all.

Anyone heard of this? Any ladies using them? I'm now actually thinking about trying it.

2006-09-08 18:01:12 · 16 answers · asked by cynthi808ci 1 in Singles & Dating